People Share What They Think Are the Toxic Ideas Spread by Reddit

Reddit can be a great to learn about different topics, but let’s face the facts: there are a lot of people out there with dangerous ideas that spread like wildfire on the Internet.

That’s why it’s important to find your news from reputable sources…which can definitely be hard to do these days.

Folks on AskReddit shared what they think are the toxic and potentially dangerous ideas and beliefs that people share on Reddit. Share your thoughts in the comments.

1. Deviating from the norm.

“Absolutely hating on those that deviate from the norm. Hating on people that conform to society’s norms but not Reddit’s norms. Hating on people trying to have fun or hobbies.”

2. Pure selfishness.

“Glorification of selfishness. I get the impression a ton of people on this site have difficulty asserting themselves, or recognizing or setting their own boundaries, because Reddit is full of advice geared toward people with these problems.

What these posters seem to forget is that not everyone is codependent with self-esteem through the floor. And yet anytime anyone wants to get out of something that someone else wants them to do, Reddit leaps to “no is a complete sentence! Put yourself first! Don’t JADE!” In real life though, maintaining healthy relationships requires sometimes doing things you aren’t thrilled about for others’ sake.”

3. Let’s see the proof.

“Reddit is very much “Guilty until proven innocent”.

They will jump straight down the throat of any alleged criminal with 0 facts, 0 context, and demand they be sentenced to years behind bars, or worse.”

4. Quick to judge.

“Reddit has a tendency to label people “toxic” and encourage relationship advice that isn’t great.”

5. That’s bizarre.

“Worshipping celebrities. 10 year olds don’t need to receive death threats because he’s never heard of a 55 year old actor.”

6. Hostile to the facts.

“Reddit is extremely hostile to actual expertise. If you state outright “I do this professionally and you are wrong” it will send people into an impotent rage. If you don’t say so, they will smugly keep missing the point. There really is no good way to try to correct misconceptions or bad information.”

7. Amen to this one.

“To an extent, Reddit plays a role in the growing anti-intellectualism. There seems to be a large assumption that this is a website of experts and lengthy replies must be credible. I saw a fellow redditor describe it perfectly, “you finally realize how little most redditors know when they start talking about a topic you happen to be well researched in”.

I see this in two places primarily, topics about public education (I am a middle school teacher) and topics such as anti-vaccine. I understand reddit hates anti-vax for good reason, but it is also stuck in the old “anti-vaxxers are just stupid” stereotype. Instead of educating and helping the problem, they just poke fun. This unfortunately drives more anxious parents toward anti-vax communities. A little empathy, understanding, and education would do more to combat ideologies such as anti-vaccines than anything reddit actually does.”

8. Does that mean you can do whatever you want?

“Those people who make introversion out to be an excuse for some pretty terrible antisocial/misanthropic/unacceptable behavior.

I don’t like loud spaces and can feel overwhelmed by crowds of people; I would pay not to go to a concert. I also genuinely love the people in my life and will always make time for anyone who needs me. In my experience this is true for everyone extroverts and introverts alike.”

9. Don’t take this advice.

“Everyone is an armchair psychologist. You post about feeling sad sometimes and inevitably someone is like “thats because you have atypical depression and bipolar disorder” or whatever.”

10. Come on Reddit…

“One example of this….a medical doctor posts a well written comment about the dangers of over prescribing anti biotics. Top comment of the thread. Tons of awards. Later a 2nd year med student posts a similar comment. Still well written but maybe misses a few key points specifying how and why. Again…top comment of the thread. Gilded to the nines.

Later a college freshman bio major writes a pretty bad summary of the situation but it’s part of the Reddit hive mind echo chamber so anyone who bothers to correct him gets misinterpreted and downvoted. And so on and so on until someone LITERALLY TELLS ME they read on Reddit that taking antibiotics is dangerous and will lead to a super disease that will wipe out humanity. Come on Reddit….”

11. Stereotyping.

“Stereotyping, in general, seems rampant. Many comments and posts seem to believe that individuals are incapable of independent thought and just reflect the race/religion/gender/ethnicity/group/nationality/political party/subreddit/culture they belong to.

People are varied even within ideologies. Argue points and issues, not identities.”

12. That’s not good.

“If your partner does anything at all that you dislike, you should dump them, take them to the police, avoid all other partners in the future, etc etc.

Particularly prevalent in Relationships, Relationship Advice, AmITheAsshole and even just AskReddit itself. It’s rather appalling, and it seems to be pushed by people who have no idea what being in a relationship is actually like. It’s not fucking easy basically, you want to love something and be in a completely committed relationship? Prepare to fight for it, because it is not easy.”

13. What about the gray areas?

“Failure to acknowledge any nuance or gray areas. People feel the need to go all in on one side for any issue. I think they feel they’ll look weak or hurt their argument by relenting on any point. Or having a discussion on any point.”

14. Bad advice.

“That whenever someone in your life isn’t behaving perfectly or 100% supporting of you all the freaking time, you need to “cut them out of your life” because they are “abusive” and “toxic”.

I’m curious how many families have been ruined by such destructive advice.”

15. Most people are good people.

“Most Americans I know are nowhere as racist, dumb or fat as reddit makes everyone else think.

A good bunch of them are smart, hardworking people, and are also nowhere as extremist as to be considered far-right, far-left, etc. Reddit might be a huge echo chamber in politics, but, at least the Americans I know, have moderate views and are easy-going people.”

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15 Times Chandler Hilariously Roasted People on ‘Friends’

If you were ever a fan of the TV show Friends, then you know that Chandler Bing was one funny fella.

He was always good at roasting his fellow cast members and delivering a perfectly-timed joke that lightened the mood.

Let’s take a trip down memory lane and see some of Chandler’s finest moments.

1. Don’t go tanning there.

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2. Let’s settle up.

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3. That one hurt.

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4. Let’s back up.

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5. A magical place.

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6. What kind of family is this?

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7. Zing! Good one.

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8. C’mon Joey…

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9. All the way into the brain.

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10. Nothing wrong with Weird Al.

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11. Call the cops.

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12. A dangerous blimp.

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13. Now it all makes sense.

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14. L-O-S-E-R.

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15. Might need to be a little more clear.

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What are some of your favorite Chandler moments? Share them with us in the comments!

Annnnnd…..are you excited for the Friends reunion that’s supposed to drop in 2020?

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An Emotional Dad Wrote a Candid Twitter Thread About Learning to Talk About His Son’s Death

Michael Cruz Kayne is a dad who lost his infant son ten years ago. Kayne recently decided to open up on Twitter about his tremendous loss in a thread that is very powerful to read.

Take some time to read his thoughts about dealing with grief in these powerful posts.

Here is the Twitter thread in full. Be sure to read the entire thing.

Very powerful stuff, right there. Remember, if you’ve suffered a great tragedy like Kayne did, talk to your loved about it.

And keep in mind that you are not alone.

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15 Times Men Got Called out on Their BS

Guys…when are you ever gonna learn?

It’s been a long decade of men getting called out on their bullsh*t, and I hope that you, like us, have enjoyed every minute of it.

Here are some of the best examples from the past decade.

Let’s make the 2020s even better!

1. Ain’t that the truth?

2. He seems like a winner.

https://xyle.tumblr.com/post/78890882768/white-boy-makes-35-complaints-about-women-then

3. WTF?

https://mdmate.tumblr.com/post/54080976627/i-just-want-a-television-show-where-a-male

4. She’s not messing around.

https://falloutdumbass.tumblr.com/post/65819296753/floozys-girls-arent-allowed-to-participate-in

5. Very telling, isn’t it?

https://chekhov.tumblr.com/post/50948369104/in-health-class-we-were-given-sheets-of-paper-and

6. Walk in their shoes.

https://queenof-thediamonds.tumblr.com/post/138686085442

7. Hahaha. Hey o!

https://iwillmindfuckyou.tumblr.com/post/130017170703/guys-dont-like-that-much-makeup

8. Didn’t see that coming.

https://dukeofbookingham.tumblr.com/post/143915967845/tonight-a-guy-twice-my-age-spent-fifteen-minutes

9. Might not be the reason.

10. True a lot of the time.

https://shuhvon.tumblr.com/post/147143211004/cosmo-got-something-right-for-once

11. It’s awfully relevant.

https://fempoli.tumblr.com/post/134429096333/lesfemale-cooldude2819-lesfemale-being-a

12. Over and over and over and over.

13. Showed him.

https://omariospizza.tumblr.com/post/107957192096/stop-white-boys-2k15

14. Oh, Carson…

https://carrress.tumblr.com/post/108312963602/shut-up-carson

15. Some more guy-speak.

Those are epic!

Do you have any good examples of your own? Share them in the comments!

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These ‘Baby Yoda’ Jokes Might Make You LOL

There’s no escape.

Do you know what I’m referring to?

I’m talking about Baby Yoda from The Mandalorian. It’s freaking everywhere right now, and it looks like memes are never gonna be the same.

Let’s dive right in and take a look at some of the really funny ones, shall we?

1. That’s not a good sign.

2. Let’s go to the DNA test!

3. That’s kind of creepy.

4. Me too.

5. Hahahahahaha.

6. Age progression.

7. Very accurate.

8. Two of the same.

9. That’s where a lot of people are at right now.

10. Really slappin’.

https://twitter.com/BabyYodaBaby/status/1201588223073488897?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.buzzfeed.com%2Fcrystalro%2Fbaby-yoda-tweets-mandalorian-3

11. She has a point.

12. OH OH OH!

https://twitter.com/BabyYodaBaby/status/1201533734891245569?ref_src=twsrc%5Etfw%7Ctwcamp%5Etweetembed&ref_url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.buzzfeed.com%2Fcrystalro%2Fbaby-yoda-tweets-mandalorian-3

13. Love this look.

14. Christmas morning.

15. Let’s see it NOW!

What’s your favorite Baby Yoda meme you’ve seen so far?

Share with us in the comments! And let us know what you think of The Mandalorian?

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Weird and Upsetting Photos That Might Just Ruin Your Day

These photos are weird. And odd. And strange. And mildly disturbing.

We’re warning you…now’s your chance to back out of this.

Last opportunity for the “chicken exit”…

Okay, then let’s get started.

1. Why?

why did I feel the need to acomplisy this. drunk missions

2. Way to go, dude.

3. Are you thirsty?

4. Very disturbing.

Thanks, I hate faces drawn on peoples’ backs from thanksihateit

5. Button Girl will haunt your dreams.

Thanks, I hate Button Girl from creepydesign

6. Do not enter. Ever.

I-I’m at a loss for words from ATBGE

7. No thank you.

Draw me like one of your Twi’lek girls from StarWars

8. I’m starving!

Cursed_Image5935 from cursedimages

9. Fun for the kids!

Thanks, I hate a transparent action man figure from TIHI

10. All dressed up.

hmmm from hmmm

11. It’s obviously possessed.

Sweet potatoe from oddlyweird

12. That’s actually a paperclip on a hot dog.

Forearm gets scraped out with a curved razor from misleadingthumbnails

13. Keep your fingernails clean.

hmmm from hmmm

14. Cool off!

cursed_shower from cursedimages

15. Okay, that’s enough.

cursed_candle from cursedimages

Like I said, we’re sorry about putting you through that…

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Divorce Lawyers Recall the Weirdest Reasons Their Clients Split Up

Out of all the professions in the world, I imagine being a divorce lawyer is one that keeps you fairly entertained.

I mean, it probably sucks your will to even attempt a long-term relationship, too, but you have to take the good with the bad at any job, right?

Below, 15 divorce attorneys are talking their clients’ weirdest reasons for calling it quits and just…wow.

15. Seems like he was just looking for a reason.

Lawyer here. One of mine that sticks out is that the husband and wife both played some sort of on-line role-playing game, sort of like the Sims I think but a little more elaborate and adult (‘Second Life’ maybe?). I don’t know anything about online games.

The wife got heavily involved with the game, like 10 hours a day, and wouldn’t reduce her time playing no matter what he said. What tipped things over the edge however was that he set up a fake profile/ avatar and went online to stalk her in the game and found her avatar having sex with some random guy’s avatar.

Nothing ever happened in real life (neither of them were exactly oil paintings to look at) but that was enough for the guy to initiate a fairy acrimonious divorce.

14. And I mean, the wife just cost him money.

He loved his pinball machine collection more than her.

Also it turns out some pin ball machines can be worth a shit load of money.

13. I feel like the wife got the best deal possible, all things considered.

Divorce lawyer here.

One client filed for divorce because he owed his bookie $70,000. He didn’t want to leave his wife but he figured he would get half the house in the divorce, which was worth $700,000 and pay his debts.

He had already blew through their life savings gambling.

He was the worst guy.

12. I 100% feel this woman’s pain.

My neighbour filed for divorce because he smacked his lips when he ate and slurped his coffee and soup.

She thought if she didn’t she would end up in jail for battery.

11. Weird but also mature?

I had two couples come to me.

They had been friends for nigh on 15 years.

Husband A decided he liked Wife B more than Wife A. Wife A decided she likes Husband B more than Husband A.

The reverse was also true, and Husband B preferred Wife A, Wife B preferred Husband A.

The couples had near identical assets in terms of value. They came to me all together, and I drafted two sets of paperwork. Two default judgment hearings were set on the same day. The judge signed all the papers the same day.

A week after that, they all went to a JP and remarried. The husbands swapped houses and they all went about their lives exactly as they had the week before, but each slightly happier.

10. Definitely the reason Jerry Seinfeld would have gotten divorced (if he’d ever gotten married on the show).

I had a client file for divorce because every morning his wife would ask him how he takes his coffee…for seven years.

9. None of this gives me any kind of hope for the future.

Hopefully soon-to-be-former Divorce attorney, I’ve seen tons of crazy reasons for people to get divorced. Some of them stupid, some of them make perfect sense.

I had one person get divorced because her husband wouldn’t take her out to the movies anymore. I had one client who looked through her husbands phone and found out he was hiring male escorts while he was on business trips. One female client got a divorce because she hated sex with her husband. Her last relationship before she got married was pretty intense and I guess her husband just didn’t match up.

I’ve had a few clients who were teachers get divorced because their spouses found out they were having indecent relationships with students. All of the teachers were female.

One divorce involved an elderly couple who had both recently been widowed. They had both been married to their individual spouses for over 40 years. They married each other out of loneliness. About two years into the marriage, they realized they made a huge mistake. They couldn’t stand each other. It was weird seeing eighty year olds complaining about the same thing you see kids arguing about.

8. What a jerk.

My dad split my mom because “she takes too long to tell a story”. He was actually having affair #4795809374 and that came out shortly after. But this was one of the main reasons he gave when they did a counselling session together.

7. I did not need this mental image.

Not a lawyer but a friend is , they said the husband wanted a divorce because the wife still wiped the ass of the perfectly healthy and mentally able teenage son among other things.

6. Yet another reason to discourage abstinence before marriage.

Not a divorce lawyer, but there’s this famous case that all law students know about.

The wife asked for annulment of marriage, because almost a year into the marriage, they still haven’t had sex.

The husband has been avoiding it for almost a year, and later on the court found out that he actually only has a 2 inch penis.

5. This feels like a valid reason to me.

My boss just got divorced.

His wife was telling people one of her reasons was the amount of toilet paper he used.

She was a super coupon clipper thrifty lady and would listen when he went to the bathroom to see if he was using “too much tp”

4. I feel like he should have just let it go?

Not a divorce lawyer, but have done marriage therapy. Had a soldier stationed at Guantanamo Bay that met a local. Fell madly in love. They decided to get married so she could come with him back in the states once his tour was done.

She was working on American dishes, and was making spaghetti. He comes home from work one day, and she’s making it. She puts the meat in, puts the canned sauce in, and then pulls an unlabeled bag out of the freezer and adds it to the sauce.

At this point in the session she’s hysterically crying with broken spanglesh. She’s trying to explain she didn’t know any better. Through the hysteria he informs me her mother and grandmother told her if she wanted to keep her man, she needed to put her menstrual blood in his food. It was so hard to keep my composure. I was trying to hard not to gag.

They both described they were madly in love, but he couldn’t let it go. They ended up getting a divorce. Having done this for 14 years, I have found it 100% accurate that truth is stranger than fiction.

3. For the love of the dogs.

Not me but my friend who specialises in family law.

Wife wanted to divorce husband because he kept taking their dogs for walks while she was at work, making it (unintentionally) so they’d rather cuddle the husband instead of her after a long day.

2. I don’t even know what to say about that.

Easy.

She spent $42,000 on psychic hotlines.

Notable, she then wouldn’t accept any of our offers, and I continuously asked her lawyer to provide counter-offers…shouldn’t her psychic have told her how the case would turn out?!? Lol.

1. I would not have wanted to be in that room.

I’m not a lawyer but my brother is one who specialises in family law.

He once had a case where the client was divorcing his wife because he was having an affair with his wife’s mother.

Even after being divorced, I’m pretty awed by this list. Human beings are truly special, y’all.

Have you been divorced? Would your reasons have made this list?

Share them with us in the comments!

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If You Get an Unexpected Deposit in Your Bank Account, Do Not Spend It

If you’re like most average people, logging into your online banking to check your balance isn’t the best part of your day. It’s never as much as you want it to be, need it to be, or wish it was.

That’s why it can be tempting to just celebrate if the number is higher than you expect. But what happens if you click on your account and see a deposit you don’t recognize?

As hard as you try to convince yourself you probably just forgot something special was coming your way, you suspect it’s an error on the bank’s part.

What to do then?

If you know in your gut that’s not your money, don’t spend it and hope for the best, because if there’s one thing we should all understand by this point, it’s that the banks are definitely going to get theirs.

And look, here’s the thing – the idea of sticking it to the man, or in this case, the bank that’s probably robbed you in the form of fees more than once, we all know that stealing is wrong. You’re not supposed to take something that doesn’t belong to you, even if it does belong to a jerk.

A lesson this Pennsylvania couple is re-learning the hard way after they spent $107k of the $120k mistakenly deposited into their account.

The bank came asking for it all back, and well…now they’re facing felony charges.

“Eventually, the bank will come back to the customer,” explains Doug Johnson of the American Bankers Association. “First they’ll reverse the transaction but also potentially generate a police report after effective research, meaning the bank will contact the customer…and ask the logical questions.”

Meaning yes, most of us know what’s supposed to be deposited into our accounts and what is not.

The next time, it could be your money that accidentally ends up in someone else’s account, and wouldn’t you want the bank to get it back for you then?

Instead of spending it, always check with your bank if you’re unsure whether a deposit (or withdrawal) is something you recognize and should spend.

It’s not fun, I know, but it’s good advice.

Has this ever happened to you? If so, what did you do?

Share in the comments!

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A Teacher’s Plan to Stop School Shootings Doesn’t Require Any Gun Legislation

School shootings and gun violence is always close to the hearts and minds of parents who have children in school (or children who go to the movies, or concerts, or church, or Walmart…), but the solutions coming out of Washington and state legislatures have been few, weak, or nonexistent.

How, then, should parents and teachers responsible for keeping kids alive on their watch fix the problem themselves? One person has a plan, and the best part is, we don’t have to agree on how to address guns to get behind it.

The thought comes from a teacher who believes that her biggest job is not teaching her students math and history, but in guiding them along the path to becoming humans who are active and positive contributors to society as a whole.

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So, once a week, she asks her students to privately write down the names of four children they’d like to sit with the following week, and then changes up her seating chart (though the kids know in advance their requests may not be granted). On the same piece of paper she asks them to nominate one student they believe has been an exceptional classroom citizen that week, and then spends time before going home for the weekend looking through them all.

She’s not really looking to rearrange her seating chart, though she may – she’s looking for patterns, like who isn’t ever requested by anyone else, who can’t think of a single person to request, who never gets nominated, and who had a bunch of friends and now doesn’t. The teacher thinks that she can use those patterns to figure out who is falling through the cracks of the “society” of her room and school. Who struggles to connect. Who is being ignored. Who is being bullied, and likely, who is on the opposite end of the equation.

It can help her pinpoint the kids that need help making friends, help sharing their gifts, and to know who to keep an extra close eye on to make sure they’re not getting mistreated when authority figures are out of sight.

She began the practice after the Columbine High School shooting, and has done it every single week since. Her takeaway from that first (but not even close to last) school shooting was that disconnection was the underlying culprit of the violence – it began as inner loneliness, and as a desire to be noticed when you so often aren’t.

Everything has a pattern, in the mind of a math teacher – even love. Even violence, and loneliness, and what could happen next if we don’t try to stop it.

And even though there might be fewer dead if lonely, forgotten, bullied, atypical kids didn’t have access to guns, this teacher, at least, believes that no one would have to die at all if we could figure out how to help those future-shooters before the idea of revenge and notoriety even enter their minds.

Keep a keen eye out there, on your fellow humans. It might save your life – or someone else’s – if you can intervene with a little kindness at the pass.

What do you think about this system? Workable? Won’t matter?

Let us know your thoughts in the comments!

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A Teen Designed a Map Called “New” America and Twitter Goes Crazy

Students and homework go hand in hand. Math, English, Science, and History… it’s just how things go when you’re a kid in school.

These subjects are supposed to prepare the younger generation for the future, but when Craig Calcaterra checked up on his daughter Anna’s homework, he found a fascinating and hilarious new version of America.

To the Twitterverse!

Calcaterra was taken aback, both by the creativity and seeming creepiness of Anna’s “map.”

For instance… what is “Long Chile”?

 

And why is Wyoming considered unnecessary?

Dad attempted to explain…

Anna’s alternate history map racked up over 65K retweets and  3645K likes.

The responses are classic, but people particularly liked Chile.

Chile is just long. That’s how it is now.

Welcome to Anna’s new reality, folks!

With a bit of closer inspection, she writes, “Capital moved to Ohio 2” and the four corners were replaced.

What’s up there?

People had so many questions!

Especially about Ohio 2.

Anna touched on the lengthening of Texas and Idaho by “unanimous” vote but the real spotlight was, again… Long Chile!

In the end Twitter jokingly clapped back with some changes of their own.

But don’t worry fam… America is still in its original shape. No plans right now to make Anna’s changes… yet.

Proud papa Calcaterra even wrote a follow-up essay, explaining what went down behind the scenes. There’s also a quick interview with Anna and CNN.

Enjoy all of that and let us know what you think in the comments!

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