Pieces of Life Advice From Women, For Women

There are many things we learn in his life that we wish we would have known sooner.

But instead of wallowing in that, it’s helpful to just collect those thoughts. Consider them. Pass them on.

That’s what happened in a thread started by Twitter user @GayatriiM:

Here are fifteen pieces of resulting life advice from women, for women.

15. “Make choices which make you happy”

Damned if you do, do it anyway.

14. “Say no”

You are not responsible for everything.

13. “IDGAF”

Not a word, but I get what you mean.

12. “Your life is your own”

You can help people, but you can’t live for someone else.

11. “There may never be a later”

Postponed may well mean cancelled.

10. “Never too late”

Don’t forget about you.

9. “Don’t take everything to heart”

Some things need to be let go.

8. “You don’t have to reply to every message”

There’s just too much noise sometimes.

7. “Be kind and gentle”

You’re the only you you’ve got.

6. “Life is too short”

There are billions of people in this world, you’re not gonna win ’em all.

5. “Life goes on”

Nothing lasts forever.

4. “Put yourself first”

Some things you want to realize before they’re too late.

3. “Detachment”

Don’t get weighed down.

2. “Not to give in”

You’re a person, not a host.

1. “Setting boundaries”

Don’t let everybody just stomp around as they please.

Pretty incredible stuff, and with one common theme – be good to yourself, not just those around you. You count too.

What piece of advice would you like to give?

Leave it in the comments below.

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“Happy Accidents” That People Have Never Been Able to Forget

When most of us think about the most notable accidents of our lives, it’s probably not-so-good things that come to mind. The injuries, the total mess-ups.

If you think harder, though, you might – like these 15 people – recall some moments where completely cool things happened out of the blue.

15. Ahhh, sweet innocence.

When my brother was in college (I’m younger than him), I took a weekend trip up to stay with him. One night we went to a line dancing event with him and a lot of his friends. I felt very out of place and very uncool since I was a lowly high schooler and they were almighty college kids, so I kind of kept to myself and was just weird when I got paired with his friends.

Later that evening, we went to Waffle House to eat, and we’re all crammed into a small booth (about 7 of us). My brother shot a straw wrapper at me while I was in conversation with someone, and I threw up my hand to shield my face without looking. The straw wrapper landed IN BETWEEN my index and middle fingers, and it looked like I straight up Naruto’d him or something.

The whole table exploded in amazement, and that’s the biggest I’ve ever felt in my whole life. It’s been 15 years since that happened, and it’s one of my most vivid memories.

14. Happy to be alive.

When I was about 14/15 I was rushing down the stairs and tripped about 7 or 8 steps from the bottom, going into complete freefall for a moment.

To avoid an extremely painful tumble, I instinctively reached out with my arm and happened to grab the newel post (the end bit of the banister) with my hand at the same time that one of my feet only just managed to make brief contact with a step.

The momentum then swung my entire body around the newel post, my foot lost contact with the step again, then when I finally came to a stop I had landed firmly on both feet and didn’t have a single scratch on me. One of the scariest moments of my life.

13. The right place at the right time.

I was a lifeguard on the ocean. I was having a pretty shit day, and on top of it my lunch was postponed an hour.

I headed up the beach to the nearest hotel to eat. As I was leaving the restaurant I heard a crowd of people screaming near the pool. As I came down the stairs towards, I saw a young child floating face down in the water. I immediately pulled the kid out and gave rescue breathing until the EMT could arrive.

The next day the parents walked down to my stand to thank me. They were originally told by their doctors they couldn’t have children, but a few years later were blessed with this young boy..their only child. The mother told me I was their guardian angel that day.

I’m not a very religious person, but this story still gives me goose bumps knowing that I was the right person in the right place at the right time for that boy. I started off angry about my lunch time change, but this was the outcome. ?

12. A moment that turns you speechless.

It’s either that or the time I gave my brother in law ball-in-a-cup for Christmas (based on a long-running joke we had, I honestly pick good presents). After trying it out for a good while and having no luck, he got frustrated and jokingly said it was broken.

To make him feel better, I grabbed it off the floor and said it took practice and that nobody ever succeeds at getting the ball in the cup right away.

To prove my point, I had a go myself and nailed it on my first try. Neither of us really knew what to say.

11. Everybody drinks!

Was playing a game of beer-pong and randomly threw a bottle cap and hit the enemy’s ball straight out of the air.

There was a lot of confusion.

I felt pretty damn awesome in that moment.

10. Classic.

I was taking a tour of one of the U.S government buildings, I believe the Capital but I’m not sure, during a school trip. During the tour, the guide showed us a chandelier and asked if anyone knew how much it was worth.

Flippantly, I answered something like 4.7 million like I already knew the answer. Turns out, it was the correct answer: the tour guide said “sounds like someone’s been doing his research.”

None of my friends believed me when I told them that I hadn’t already known the answer. I believed me though.

9. Do not try this at home.

Drunkenly invested money into stocks… Made back triple that money.

8. The tea is really the kicker.

Christmas Party at a friend’s new apt. She’d made the place lovely, after her return from Italy. She’s set up her 1st adult Christmas tree. After dinner it’s time for pumpkin pie and hot drinks, I’m getting my tea.

From across the room I see someone accidentally brushed past the tree and it begins to wobble and spin heading for a fall with all of her hand blown Italian ornaments on it.

Somehow I cross the room, unspin the tree, set it back in its proper place (with all of its ornaments intact) and never spilled any tea.

7. This is absolutely hilarious.

I was sh*tfaced/rollin last Saturday night out at the bars, and heard someone screaming inside this cookie joint at like 2 am. So I drunkenly ran in because from the window it looked like an old friend of mine and I thought maybe something was wrong.

I get inside and decide I want to just surprise him by running up and hugging the fucking shit out of him from behind. So I wrap my arms around him and scream “GUESS WHO MOTHERF*CKER!” All of a sudden, the few other people in this cookie shop run over and tackle us to the ground! Im beyond fucked up, so I just lay there with my arms locked around my friend while people are on top of us. Someone then shouts “I got his gun”…

Yep….Not only was this guy not my friend, but he was in fact robbing this place. I had just drunkenly stopped a fucking robbery. Apparently when I hugged him and shouted guess who, he got so scared that he dropped his gun allowing the other people to rush in and subdue him.

6. He couldn’t do it again if he tried.

We were playing a game of dodgeball, and since there were too much people on the benches, the coach decided to add a rule: anyone who can throw the ball directly into the basketball-goal (spelling?) can immediately deliver everyone.

I had one of the balls in hand when he said that, and the moment he signaled the game to continue, I threw the ball randomly (because I have the worst aim ever) and it somehow went straight into it! I never managed to pull it off a second time, but boy was I proud for the entirety of that day!

5. Mr. Miagi would be proud.

Once cut a fly in half while in flight. Pretty big house fly annoying me while prepping dinner and in my anger I sliced at the fly only for it to fall to ground in pieces, had to wash the knife afterwards though.

4. That’s what’s called beginner’s luck.

Target shooting at a friends house. He wasn’t having much luck with his new rifle so of course I was giving him shit big time. He got a bit frustrated, handed the rifle to me and said “If you can talk all that shit, here you do better than I did”

He told me to shoot the bowling pin that hangs by twine on the left. I sarcastically replied “I’ll shoot that bitch down by taking out the string” I put it up to my shoulder, aimed for the center of the bowling pin and pulled the trigger.

By some freak chance I hit the twine and the bowling pin dropped. I was celebrating because I honestly had not aimed at the twine. He was a bit salty until I told him that I have no fuckin idea how I hit that string because I wasn’t even aiming for it LOL

3. Video or it didn’t happen.

Someone tried to flick a lot cigarette in my face in front of a bunch of girls to be “cool.” Well I showed them because the cigarette landed in my mouth filter first and I took a drag like nothing happened.

2. Wow. What a tragic ride.

Saved my friend’s life, and maybe doomed her cousin to death instead.

Ok, so this was the late 70s. My friend (and next door neighbor) and I were maybe 4 or 5 at the time. She had family visiting at the time, and the visiting family left their 2 or 3 year old son out to play with us in the front yard. (for sake of brevity, I’ll just say we were 5 and the son was 3)

Yep, you heard correctly, they left their 3 year old to be watched over by a pair of 5 year olds. This was back in the days when lawn darts were a kids toy and there were no mandatory seatbelts, etc.

So my friend and I were being 5 year olds, playing around and not watching her little cousin as closely as we should have been. Suddenly I see her little cousin, clad in nothing but a diaper, walk out into the street just as a pickup truck comes roaring down the road. I started screaming for him to come back. My friend, then alerted to what was going on, bolted into the street to fetch her cousin. I, purely instinctively, lurched forward and grabbed her dress and pulled on her, but only slowing her down. As she got passed the point of the parked cars the truck hit her cousin, killing him instantly, just a few feet in front of us.

Her family heard us screaming and ran outside to see their son lying dead in the roadway. That is the first time I ever heard the banshee wail of a parent that had lost a child. That sound…it’s not a scream, it is a sound so much more visceral, soul crushing and terrifying than any sound you can consciously make. I watched the boy’s father cradling his son’s body in the roadway like the dramatic death scenes you see in movies. Some seriously f*cked up shit for a pair of 5 year olds to experience. I don’t know how I am not more f*cked up than I am.

So, by pulling on my friend’s dress, I may have well prevented two deaths that day. On the other hand, she might have been able to snatch her cousin away to safety at the last second. I still don’t know which it is four decades later, and it haunts me. It is tough just to write/relive this. Especially since I had kids of my own. Those memories have taken on a whole other meaning.

1. Ten points to Gryffindor.

Told my parents I would take the dog I picked up on the side of the road to the shelter after the three-day weekend (i think it was labor day).

Forgot to take her on the morning they opened back up and somehow she accidentally wound up living with us for 10 amazing years until she passed.

Don’t you just love moments like these?

If you’ve got a similar memory, tell us about it in the comments!

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People Talk About the Scariest Places They’ve Ever Been To

I’m a huge fan of all things scary and I especially like hearing stories in this genre that are TOTALLY TRUE.

I’d have to say the scariest place I’ve ever been was an abandoned hospital that was rumored to have been an insane asylum back in the day. We went in at night with flashlights and the place was covered in graffiti, trash, animals, and there were homeless people living in there.

It was pretty darn creepy and it was the only time I was brave enough to go into that building…

Let’s get creepy with folks from AskReddit as they talk about the scariest places they’ve ever been to.

1. Whoa…

“Reconstructed subway which exploded years ago in Daegu, Korea.

They memorialized the explosion on site: scorched walls, melted people’s items, burnt phone booths and all, but the scariest was the scorched walls with writings and handprints of the people that were trapped during the explosion.

This subway is one of the busiest stations even today due to being the city’s downtown area.”

2. No way I’d ever do this.

“Probably a cave, wriggling through a “lemon drop” as they called it, where you go feet first down a skinny tunnel and have to wriggle down about 12′ before you drop into a chamber below.

About halfway my shoulders got stuck and it took like five excruciating minutes to get loose.

I don’t know why I went spelunking, I’m claustrophobic.”

3. Unsettling.

“An abandoned set of buildings that were part of a former college campus, next to an abandoned military airfield.

There was a lot to explore, but it definitely gave off an unsettling vibe.

There was even an enterable hangar that had a bunch of torn gas masks lying on a pile in the middle of it.”

4. NO WAY.

“I had just crossed over the border into China from Kazakhstan – for some reason, my buddy and I made it a plan to hit as many haunted houses as we could (for whatever reason, there were plenty on our route from Moscow to Delhi).

We found out about one in Urumqi and decided to go – as we went down these dank stairs into what seemed like once was part of an underground system, everything just felt wrong.

The person there had us sit in these gross chairs in front of this odd raised platform. Out of nowhere, this girl (and I mean no more than 14) comes out in a skimpy leopard print outfit with a snake. We are getting ‘gtfo’ vibes but are the only ones there and the dude(s) running the place are right behind us.

So, we proceed to watch this girl pop the snakes head into her mouth and swing it around like a helicopter. After the ‘show’ they tried to guide us to these rooms with the grossest mattresses on the planet on the ground.

It was really sad, creepy, and disgusting. All we could do is shove some RMB in the guys hand and run out.”

5. The station.

“A Greyhound station in Buffalo NY in the middle of the night. I thought for sure I was going to get mugged.

I had a stopover there when I was going to Niagara Falls. Greyhound stations are usually sketchy, but that one was by far the worst. The bathrooms were nasty. And the station, and the way people looked at you. I couldn’t wait to get out of there. It was early morning, but I had a similar feeling as you.

I’ve since stopped taking Greyhound since some driver thought that my bag would be too big and tried to force me to board without my laptop and asthma medication (against their own policy).

It was smaller than most of the other passengers’ bags and fit on the trip up fine. Prices have gone up anyways, so other options are better. Planning on taking the train or Megabus from now on when I need to get somewhere without a car & air travel is too expensive/not worth it.”

6. That’s pretty young.

“Catacombs in Sicily.

Yup great parenting let’s bring a 6-year-old to a place where every light shines on a dead body, and everything else is darkness.”

7. Sketchy.

“Last year I lived in a suburb in Gifu Prefecture.

Down the street was a broken down old house and my friend and I decided to do a photoshoot there one night, because an old broken Japanese house looked pretty cool.

When I say broken down, I mean entire walls were missing and exposing the inside, floors were broken, and lots of old junk everywhere. Pipes and beams were exposed, and there were crates of old belongings.

There was one crate though that had hundreds of photos of the same girl, as a child to adulthood. Black and white, developed from film. It was always just her and no one else in the photo. I thought it was strange that the old owners could just leave photos of this girl behind.

The more I looked at them, I noticed she didn’t seem happy in a lot of them.

I got really uncomfortable and so my friend and I left and abandoned the photo shoot.

I think she might have been a victim of something and that’s why the photos were left behind in a half-destroyed house.

Got really freaked out that night…”

8. Like a horror movie.

“I spent two weeks alone at an abandoned silk factory and nuclear waste cleanup site in a small rural town.

No electricity. It was 120 years old. Roofs collapsing It was creepy. Dark, wet, strange noises. One corner of an upper floor was walled off with plastic sheeting, work lights and a table. Never did figure out what was going on
in there…

There was an eyeball scrawled on the wall in another area in red marker with the words “it sheds the blood here” underneath.

The building is gone now.”

9. Get outta there!

“We were on our way to Flagstaff, AZ for the Overland Expo and planned to camp near there the night before it started since we were on a longer overland trip.

It was this place in the woods that was recommended by other who were there before. It all seemed fine and we set up camp.

At night when we brushed our teeth we noticed there were animal skulls hanging in the trees all around us, it was super scary.

We packed up and spend the night in a hotel.”

10. Atlanta.

“Some hotel in Atlanta.

My mom and I were traveling to rescue my brother from an abusive situation and she picked a cheap hotel outside the city. It was clear the type of people who came there but figured it wasnt a problem.

As we got to sleep someone started banging on the door screaming how we owed them money. My mom called front desk for security who came and removed that guy. The rest of the night we saw Shadows come back and forth outside the window and they would just be standing there.

Eventually at 4 in the morning the banging came back. My mom called security and had them escort us to our truck because she refused to deal with it any longer.”

11. Graveyard.

“The old graveyard of Olargues in the Hérault, France.

I was camping in the neighborhood and we visited the village, old and beautiful. We were young and inquisitive and climbed the wall around an old graveyard. What we found were 19th century graves, often in little grave houses.

But grave robbers had yanked the lead coffins out of the houses and everywhere were opened coffins with skeletons. It was actually very sad to behold. There were 5 of us and without a warning we all ran to the wall and jumped back to the world of the living.

We all had had a feeling we should not stay there a second longer, we could not explain it, just an overwhelming feeling of terror. About 15 years later I passed that cemetery on the back of a motorbike and just looked through a crack in the wall. I was struck with that same feeling.

It is not a good place.”

12. Sounds scary.

“I was doing some intense, solo, off-trail hiking in the Eastern Sierras and found an old mine entrance.

Being a teenager I immediately walked in there. Shortly thereafter, I started getting light headed and ran back out.

I could have easily passed out and died, and, given the extremely remote location, remained unfound for years.”

13. War zone.

“My parents spent a lot of time in war zones for their careers and had strange ideas about what made a good family holiday.

So, anyway, we ended up going to in Egypt and Lybia in 2011. If you don’t know, this was the year of the the Cairo riots/Egyptian revolution and the Lybian civil war.

I was 15, really made me see the world differently. In multiple ways – saw lots of scary people with guns, but also slept out under the stars in the Lybian desert and saw a nights sky with 0 light pollution.

Nothing can prepare you for the sheer brightness of the stars when everything else around you is pitch black. That also changed me, made me understand how insignificant and tiny we really are. Also got to see the pyramids at a time that had no other tourists, whole place was totally abandoned. (But that’s irrelevant to the question I guess.)

Overall was an 8/10 holiday. Probably wont take any of my potential future kids into a war zone though, I wouldn’t recommend.”

14. This is messed up.

“I don’t know why this happened, but by the end of it you’ll understand when I say my parents aren’t known for making the best decisions.

So, when I was 9 or 10, my dad took me to this house that had been basically destroyed by fire. I don’t remember exactly whether my mother was there or she just OKed this (they were not together, ever). There were other adults involved in this too, I think my uncle and one of my dad’s buddies. But I was the only kid.

Anyway, we went into this fire-destroyed house to look for sh*t that could be salvaged. We found very little and really that should have been nothing at all (all I really recall anymore was an 8-track tape that had been warped just enough by the fire to play two songs at once in spots).

So there’s lil kid me, after dark, picking my way through this f*cking burnt house full of debris, and I get into one room and look in what had been the closet and there’s this…shag rug looking thing there.

Which was when my dad helpfully told me that the daughter of the house had run back inside the fire to try to save the family dog, and died in the closet with her arms wrapped around the animal…and that wasn’t a rug but the remains of the dog’s body.

And then I was encouraged to look through this dead kid’s toys to see if anything was in good enough condition for me to take home.

I’ve been afraid of dying in a fire ever since.”

Now we want to hear from you!

You know the drill!

In the comments, tell us about the scariest place you’ve ever been to!

Thanks!

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People Discuss the Scariest Places They’ve Ever Been To

Halloween is approaching and this article is just PERFECT for this spooky season.

We’re going to hear some creepy, true stories from people about places that a lot of us would not want to be stranded in…especially if we were alone…

What’s the scariest place you’ve ever been to?

Here’s what AskReddit users had to say about this.

1. The outskirts.

“A small gas station on the outskirts of El Paso.

It was winter, I was 19 or 20. I remember people had mentioned random violence in the area, but I needed gas in my car. I stopped at a station to fill up, it’s cold so I wore my jacket. As in filling up, 3 guys start walking my way.

I saw them from my peripheral and kept a watch on them but didn’t make it obvious. They approached the car, one standing on the opposite side and the other two each going on a separate side.

I stopped pumping fuel and casually said what’s up, to which they asked if they could have some cash for food. I told them I didn’t have any cash on me.

I remember one of them saying “I said…” in an aggressive tone, and they started coming closer. I stepped back, unzipped my jacket and stuck my hand on my side Inside the jacket and said “I don’t know what you want, but I don’t have it and this isn’t going to be worth it.”

They looked at eachother and there was a palpable tenseness in the air, but they eventually went across the street and left.

To this day I’m convinced by the entire thing and how it felt I was close to being jumped and/or car jacked. I’m glad they thought I was armed, because I didn’t have sh*t inside my pocket but a pack of cigarettes and a Sears Tower zippo lighter.”

2. In the hollar.

“Pennington Hollow (Hollar to the locals) in Ashe County North Carolina.

I don’t know if it’s still this way today, but back in the ’90s everyone who lived there was named Pennington and you didn’t go there unless your name was Pennington. The cops didn’t even go there.

Think the movie ‘Deliverance’… There was a whole classroom in my high school for the special Pennington kids…

I once accidentally drove my little 49cc scooter into Pennington hollar when exploring random back roads. Once I realized where I was I turned off my engine and went into bicycle mode and noped the f*ck out of there.”

3. Russia.

“Russia.

Everyone I met had minimum 1-2 immediate family members who had wither been murdered, committed suicide, or died young in an “accident”, or were in prison.

Once I got home, within a month at least 3 of the very close people I’d met, all from one family, had died by different reasons. 1. Picking mushrooms, died alone in the forest. 2. Died alone in apartment, no reason. 3. Died from “tuberculosis” (doubt it, she was 7 mo pregnant when I’d seen her, bad partner, super depressed. My guess, suicide or intimate partner violence)

Scary place.”

4. This is creepy.

“Egypt. I was 16 and blonde.

The tour company made me have my own armed guard with me at all times. Men kept trying to hold my hand. One tour guy held me hand in the pyramids and tried to take me into rooms nobody else was allowed in.

Twice I was told upon entering a museum that my body needed to be searched (nobody else was told this). My guard would start yelling and ushering me away.

Very heavy moments to wrap my head around at that age.”

5. Lost in Camden.

“Camden, NJ about 20 years ago.

I was there for a concert and took a wrong turn. Literally witnessed 2 drug busts and an arson in progress while attempting to find my way back (pre-GPS on phones).”

6. Sounds horrible.

“Inside a coal mine in Mexico.

First world mines are mostly mechanized and safe. In Mexico… not so much. One day I went in and a new branch of the mine was being excavacated, so support beams were installed every so often to keep tons and tons of earth from swallowing everyone.

Wood beams support a hole in the ground about the size of a door and about twice as wide. Over time the vertical beams start to sink and the horizontal beam start bend. A week in miners need to duck to not hit their head on the ceiling. Consider the average height of a mexican is 5’4″.

Two months in and you have to hunch over and squat to get in. Pretty much all miners develop insane roadie run skills.

Also it’s dark, filthy (miners don’t go topside to take a piss), coal dust flying everywhere, hot and suffocatingly humid.”

7. Bahamas.

“Nassau, Bahamas, port side.

It’s a sh*thole to begin with, but my family and I were there on their Labor Day. They had a parade, everyone was having a good time until a dude with a big flat bed truck with massive speakers on it decided to get out to party a little while the parade had stopped.

He forgot to set the parking break and the truck rolled down a hill killing three people. Cops came and the locals started getting rowdy. There was an energy that was brewing that’s very hard to describe in words. My wife and 2 kids got out of there.”

8. Frightening.

“The market at night near my grandparents house in India.

For context, I am Indian-American, so I visit India pretty often. One time, my grandparents needed something from the market, so they asked my mom to go. Typically, women don’t go by themselves at night because, sadly, it is really common for a woman to be r*ped. So my mom asked me to come with her too.

That sh*t is SCARY AS F*CK. There were only about three street lamps (mind you, this was in a pretty big city in India, so that’s kinda uncommon). The market itself was the whole street, and we had to go deeper into the market to get to the store we needed.

There wasn’t a single woman or kid – only grown men staring at us while they had a drink or cigarette. The entire time I was only thinking about what my mother and I would do in case any of them attacked.

We got to the store we needed and got the thing. But the store keeper looked at us really weird, as if he was surveying us. Even after we left the store, I could still see him looking at us. I wanted to go back to my grandparents house as fast as possible, but my mother was wearing a saree (she doesn’t wear that in America, just in India), and it is impossible to run in that sh*t (at least the way my mom was wearing it, it was super hard).

Eventually, after we passed a group of men sitting on a motorcycle, we see them all get up and start following us. At this point, my mom also started to panic and we both practically ran (more like speed-walking but my mom was going as fast as she could). We got on to the main road, where there were far more people and a lot more light. The men stopped and went back to the motorcycle.

I honestly can’t tell you how scary that was. The fact that I could have been murdered and my mom possibly r*ped before she was murdered. There was no mistake – those men were coming after us, and ever since then, neither me or my mom or anyone from my family went to that market at night.”

9. Interesting.

“My friend and I visited a Scientology church for an extra credit paper back in college. We knew next to nothing about it at the time, other than some bizarre stories we’d heard about people mysteriously going missing after trying to leave the church or speaking out against it, etc.

All three of the people we directly interacted with had a sort of emptiness to their eyes and interrogated us about why we were there. They refused to believe we were writing a paper for school, like we were there for some malicious purpose or something, and kept asking more and more questions to get to the bottom of the purpose of our visit.

They finally let us go to the second floor (first floor was only reception and bathroom), large room with but one or two people in sight. They made us sign in with our name, address, and email address, and my friend whispered, “You didn’t leave your real info, did you?” It was already so incredibly creepy and intense, and nothing had even happened.

They sat us down by ourselves to watch a video which was super vague and boring, and all we wanted was enough info to write a one page paper (which we weren’t getting from the video), so we got up to explore.

Immediately, an older woman was in our faces (empty eyes and all) asking why we didn’t finish the video, we needed to finish the video, sit down and finish the video. We felt like five year olds being punished for not sitting still.

After another attempt at finishing the video, we were getting antsy and creeped out, so again decided to take a quick look around then peace out.

The area we were in was set up like a museum with gallery walls covered in blown up versions of news articles documenting the public’s attempt to understand Scientology. We expected to come across something that would indicate what Scientologists do or believe in or something, but never did.

We only did a quick loop through the room, but every time we looked over our shoulders, one of the sign in/interrogator guys and the woman demanding we watch the video were lurking behind us, glaring at us suspiciously, whispering to one another. We held hands, completely terrified, our imaginations racing at what could possibly lie in our future.

When we felt the opportunity, we jetted to the elevator, pushed the buttons frantically, and literally sprinted across the parking lot to our car.

The intensity of being in that place (especially on the second floor) is incredibly difficult to put into words, but has stayed with both of us. We still talk about how lucky we feel to have gotten out of there without them taking our souls (that we know of, anyway — ha).”

10. Holiday in Cambodia.

“When I was in my late 20s my dad and I went on a tour to Cambodia.

Part of the tour included half a day at the Cheung Ek killing fields about half and hours drive outside of Phnom Penh. My dad must have seen that movie The Killing Fields because he opted to stay at the hotel but I wasn’t as bright as he was and gladly went with our group.

The entire atmosphere was really creepy. Even though it was in the middle of a jungle, I don’t recall hearing any birds or insects the entire time I was there. It was like nature itself knew the place was cursed and abhorred it.

One of the trees was called the Baby Killer because Khmer Rouge soldiers had smashed out the brains of infants against its trunk and the branches were festooned with trinkets from its victims. I even had to be careful where I stepped because there were human remains buried all over the place and they poked through the soil in certain places.

And if all of this wasn’t disturbing enough, the center of the killing fields had a stupa (a buddhist shrine/grave thing) with a display case loaded with the skulls of the killing field victims. Many of the skulls prominently displayed the gruesome injuries which had killed the victims. And there were speakers playing a creepy sounding buddhist dirge.

I never want to go back to that place ever again.”

11. Never went back.

“I’ve been to most of the Middle East and not in a tourist capacity, but getting chased by teens with machetes yelling Mzungu Mzungu (white devil) in Uganda kinda sets the bar.

Last time I went to Africa as a tourist.”

12. Totally sketchy.

“An Airbnb in Barcelona. I’ve spent quite a while in Spain, speak Spanish, and have visited Barcelona multiple times. I’ve also used Airbnb multiple times, and know what to check for. Two friends and I (all 20sF) picked an Airbnb with several favorable ratings, in a good neighborhood. One of the ones that’s a room in someone’s apartment.

Show up, and the two guys look nothing like the picture, but are very hospitable, so we went inside. They showed us around, and the apartment looked like the photos. Then they showed us the room and let us be. We open the door to the room and it’s nothing like the photos.

It’s essentially a closet, 3 dirty twin mattresses on the floor with no pillows and blankets covered in old food. Furthermore, the door to the room has no interior lock on it—but it DID have an exterior lock. It’s at this point that we also realize they never gave us a key to the apartment.

We took pictures of everything and waited until we heard them leave the apartment, and watched them from the window until they were out of sight. We gathered our packs and SPRINTED out of there, with no plans on where to go, just calling random hostels until we found one that had room.

But it was on the other side of the city, and the metro had closed for the night. So we walked an hour and a half. Thankfully the hostel was lovely, and Airbnb refunded us and removed the listing, but we’re convinced it was a human trafficking setup.”

Okay, now it’s your turn!

In the comments, tell us about the absolute scariest place you’ve ever been in your life.

We can’t wait to hear your stories!

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What’s the Best TV Show That Was Canceled After One Season? Here’s What People Said.

For me, it would have to be Freaks and Geeks.

If you haven’t seen it, it’s a show about teenagers in the early 1980s in suburban Detroit. It really was a great show and it launched the careers of so many people, including James Franco, Seth Rogen, Linda Cardellini, and others.

And, sadly, it was canceled after only one season…

So let’s hear about some more!

AskReddit users shared their favorite shows that were canceled after only one season.

1. Flopped in the U.S.

“Forever

It’s a crime tv show about an immortal medical examiner

Incredibly good show, but i think it flopped in the US and therefore never got a second season.”

2. Heard of this one?

“Awake.

Such a cool concept of 2 timelines, where in one his wife died, the other his son. Used both “realities” to solve crimes.

Just felt like they could have done so much more with another season or two.”

3. Almost Human.

“I liked Almost Human.

Who doesn’t like robot cops?

I enjoyed this show so much and then blammo, it’s gone.

Karl Urban was great in it.”

4. Here are a few to check out.

“Jericho (It was canceled after season one, but super-fans pushed for another season and got a few more episodes)

Limitless.

Terra Nova.”

5. Yes!

“Freaks and Geeks.

I saw it on Netflix for the first time and was absolutely dumbfounded that it just ended.

Definitely one of the best shows I’ve ever watched. I couldn’t believe and still can’t believe they didn’t continue it.”

6. A classic in the making.

“Terriers.

It only had 13 episodes, which coincidentally is also the number of people who watched it.

But it really was a classic in the making.”

7. A ’90s hit.

“My So-Called Life.

This show had me wearing my hair tucked behind one ear for all of 6th grade because I thought it looked so cool and sophisticated.”

8. Undergrads.

“Undergrads.

Early 2000s sitcom about freshmen in college.

Luckily a kickstarter was funded for a follow-up movie!”

9. Comedy classic.

“Police Squad!

Of course it came back years later in movie form as The Naked Gun.

But it counts!”

10. This was a good one.

“Eerie, Indiana.

They had so much potential for more stories in that universe.”

11. Sounds cool.

“Harper’s Island.

Not sure if this only aired in Canada or USA too.

It was like a season-long horror movie with characters getting picked off 1 per episode.

I was a kid when it aired and loved the suspense each week.”

12. Bruce Campbell!

“The Adventures of Brisco County, Jr.

I loved that whole show! I watched them as they aired when I was a kid and was so heartbroken they canceled it.

My parents still bring up my reaction from time to time. I basically threw a fit.”

13. Never heard of it.

“Bunheads.

It was written by the same person who wrote Gilmore Girls and had the same smart, fast-paced humor.”

14. Interesting…

“Kings (2009)

A show on NBC that was a modern-day take on David and Goliath.

It starred Ian McShane as the Goliath King Saul character, Christopher Egan as the David character, Susanna Thompson as a compelling matriarch, and Sebastian Stan as a gay prince.”

15. Good Omens.

“Good Omens.

I mean, I know there was only one season because Terry died before a second book could be made, but it still doesn’t make the disappointment go away when you finish the final episode…”

16. Right up my alley.

“I’m gonna say Everything Sucks!

It was a Netflix Original that didn’t make it past the first season, but I thought it was pretty great.

It’s very similar to Freaks and Geeks (which is funny since they only got one season too) except it was set in 1990s instead of the 1980s.”

17. Selfie.

“Selfie. The one with Karen Gillan.

The premise is simple, a bubble headed social media addict realizes during a business trip that her life is a mess due to her addiction and seeks help from a guy opposite to her.

The show started being dumb, but as the episodes went by, it became entertaining.

Sadly the showrunners burned the character’s development by rushing the plot and it got cancelled before premiering the last few episodes.”

18. Missed this one.

“Pan Am it was actually a really good show from what aired.

A period drama that worked really well. I don’t even think the full season aired to be honest.”

19. Horror series.

“The River.

It wasn’t necessarily the best show but I really enjoyed it. Was a really good jump scare horror that I enjoyed and wanted to know the answers in Season 2.

Now I’ll never know and I’m sad.”

20. Whoa!

“Anyone remember Now and Again from the 90s?

John Goodman gets hit by a train and his consciousness is transplanted into Eric Close, a super-human government prototype in a program run by Dennis Haysbert.

They’re using him to fight terrorism, he’s secretly trying to reconnect with his family. It was nominated for a bunch of Emmys, but I heard it was too expensive to continue.

The only season ended in a huge cliffhanger. I’m still sad about it!”

Now it’s your turn!

In the comments, tell us what you think is the best show that was canceled after only one season.

We look forward to hearing from you!

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People Share the Worst Thing They’ve Ever Done in Their Lives

We all have some bad secrets.

Those skeletons in our closets that we’re ashamed of and that we look back on and think…”what the hell was I doing?”

I’m talking about the messed-up stuff we’ve done in our pasts…

And we’re about to get some pretty interesting confessions from total strangers.

Here’s what folks on AskReddit had to say.

1. Shady

“I worked at a super shady telemarketing company right after high school. They made people think they were a charity but they weren’t.

They sold stuff supposedly assembled by handicapped people and I talked in a voice that led people to believe I was mentally handicapped so they would feel bad and buy from me.

I’ve never hated myself more and I deserved to have my *ss kicked.”

2. Sorry about that.

“P*ssed myself at a friend’s house.

Then his parents had to replace the carpet.”

3. Blasphemy!

“I stole some Mother Theresa cards from our church and convinced my little cousin to go with me door to door selling them saying we were trying to raise money for the less fortunate.

We then used that money to go buy snacks at 7-11.

I was 12 and to this day I randomly wake up wondering wtf was I thinking. Doesn’t sound like it’s the most f*cked up thing ever but it did stick with me.”

4. Prank call.

“A long time ago when dinosaurs roamed the earth and you could make prank phone calls, my friends and I called a random number.

A woman answered and in a small child’s voice I asked her if she knew where my parents were. I must have gone on for at least 5 minutes, asking for my parents, got all upset, the whole 9 yards. At the end I said I had to go and hung up on her.

To this day that poor woman has no idea what happened to that little girl.”

5. Wow!

“Broke my own arm on purpose and accidentally scheduled my surgery on Mother’s Day.”

6. That’s not nice.

“My first year of college, there was a really annoying guy in my class.

He was a total douche. One day he left class and my buddy and I saw that he left his book on the desk. We took it. Sold it to the bookstore and got burgers with the money.

I helped him look for his lost book the next day for an hour.”

7. Sorry about that.

“I had a gay friend that i knew before i started working with him. He had worked there for a few years.

I didn’t know he had told them he was married. I accidentally outed him.”

8. Don’t say that out loud.

“I told my mum she should have ab*rted me.

I meant it too, but maybe I could’ve kept it to myself.”

9. Ouch.

“We had a fight with the other neighborhoods kids, we cornered three of them with sticks and I threw a sharpened stick straight into his face.

I almost blinded him and he he had a big wound on his forehead. It was a very very very dumb impulsive move on my part.”

10. Collect call.

“I prank called a random number using a 1-800 ATT and a woman accepted the call with me only saying “I am in jail” instead of using a name.

The lady got hysterical after she accepted the call thinking it was her son so she went along with it and not thinking twice about my tone of voice.

I even threw my voice off pretending to be the detective after finding out the son’s name from her. I told he was arrested for touching a minor. She said she was on her way down to the jail house”

11. Nice work!

“I had a threesome with two married men in the bathroom of a local dive bar.”

12. Classy.

“My friend and I played “poo dollar “one Saturday evening on campus in college. Now the traditional way of playing poo dollar is to simply put a piece of poo, and smush it into a crumbled up dollar bill, and when someone finds it in excitement, they get poo on their hands. It’s evil already by itself.

However, a 3rd wanted to join in on the fun, and he’s a huge Star Wars fan. He had a huge wad of fake $10 dollar bills with Jar Jar Binks’ face on it. He won them as a kid at Chuck E Cheese. He said each bill was 5 tickets each, and bought a wad with the 100 tickets he won.

He told himself as a kid that these would come in handy one day. Now mind you, these looked IDENTICAL to a $10 bill, except substitute good ol’ Alex Hamilton for Jar Jar f*cking Binks.

So this means that people would pick up this seemingly fake $10 bill in excitement, find poo on their hands, but find consolation in that it’s still a $10 bill. But nope, we even took the consolation away.

It was a fake Jar Jar Binks $10 bill AND you have poo on your hands.”

13. Bad days.

“When I was drinking I cashed my parents federal tax return check because I was broke and going through withdrawals.

I felt absolutely horrible once it was cashed and it never left me. Luckily I got sober about 2 years after that event and came clean to my parents about what I had done.

They said they had an idea it was me.”

14. Jacket = Ruined.

“When I was a kid a friend of mine came over for pizza and left.

I was upset that he didn’t stay to hang out. Heard something at my window and it was him getting my attention asking if he could have the leftover marinara sauce. I said sure, slightly opened the little marinara container and tossed it to him.

He had on a brand new Tommy Hilfiger winter jacket.”

Now it’s your turn!

In the comments, tell us the most screwed-up thing you’ve ever done in your life.

Let’s see what you got!

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Memes to Tickle Your Trolling Pleasures

As much as we like rolling our eyes and calling out trolls, we also really enjoy being trolls on occasion.

When you know what someone is going to say, or how they’re going to react, sometimes it’s just too hard not to get out in front of the BS.

Which is exactly, I imagine, how these 15 hilarious Instagram memes came to be.

15. Technically, anyone can do that.

Proof. But this guy is actually going places.

Image Credit: Cheezburger

14. I mean, butt…

See what I did there?

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13. This is kind of brilliant.

Don’t be mad.

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12. This is awkward.

But also hilarious because it wasn’t me.

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11. It’s all about perspective.

They taught me that in film school.

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10. It never works that well on me.

I must be doing something wrong because Freddie looks bangin!

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9. Oh blessed day!

How many of them are bots, though?

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8. Haha, basically.

Life as we once knew it has ceased to exist.

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7. I believe them, okay?

They just eat once every two weeks.

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6. OK but seriously tf was this.

I weep for our future.

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5. I think we all know the answer.

What motivation to work out!

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4. Why is this a thing that we do?

What happened to reading books before bed?

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3. It’s a pretty solid argument.

*ducks from lightning”

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2. Every single time.

We’ve just invited listening devices into our homes like we’ve never seen a movie about the future.

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1. Is she…not?

I think she is.

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I mean…I want to be mad, but I’m not.

Which of these tickled you the most? You can tell us in the comments, no judgement!

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People Share the Most Messed-Up Things They’ve Ever Done in Their Lives

It’s confession time…

No, not from me! Ha!

I’m talking from all of these people who are about to admit the most screwed-up things that they’ve ever done in their lives.

And I think we’re in for some real interesting stories, my friends…

AskReddit users share the most messed-up things they’ve ever done.

1. Ashamed.

“In college there was a guy who was a real *sshole to me.

I avoided conflict at all costs but I went to a party at his apartment and he had all of his sports trophies on display. I stole one came home and burned it in the fire place.

Later that year he ran for faculty rep and nobody ran against him. The ballot had 2 options his name and “no representative”. I had a lot of friends at the time and I convinced enough people to vote to have no representation.

So he lost to nobody and we didn’t have a rep for our faculty for the first time in our 90+ year history. I was pleased at the time and now I am ashamed.”

2. No defense.

“Dropped an N bomb in a non joking way in front of a black friend of mine.

I was drunk, and in company of guys who I knew were low key racist. Trying to be edgy, etc.

Was like 10 years ago and it still haunts my thoughts on a weekly basis. I hate to think that I’m part of what he thinks about when he reflects on times he’s experienced racism.

But there’s really no defense for what I did.”

3. For what?

“Took a sh*t on a random person’s car in a mall parking lot, then wiped it over the windshield and doors with paper towels.”

4. That’s kind of funny.

“I was performing a dance routine on stage in a theatre in my home town with a dance school. I’m maybe 8 or 9. A painfully anxious introverted extrovert.

It was my first night and I had only been in the dance class a few weeks and I was really, really nervous.

So we are there standing back to back, arms crossed, me and this other girl. I can hear the que, the curtain is about to go up and she says to me “don’t you mess this up and embarrass me, my family are here tonight”.

Curtain goes up. I slide my foot back and trip her. She falls, flat out. On stage. In front of her family.

And I’m still not sorry…”

5. Didn’t go over well.

“Dumped a girl I had been dating for about 6 months b/c when I met her older sister I realized I liked her more, we (My gf & I) even joked about how she (sis) & I had more in common.

So I took her up on it, said I don’t want to see you anymore, I want to date your sister.

Did not go over well.”

6. Brutal.

“When I was about 8 years old, one of friend’s parents paid me $200 to break their kid’s leg so that they could get him to stop playing soccer.

So I convinced him to climb a tree with me and got him to go out to a branch that could support me, but not him.

About 5 minutes later he’s got a broken leg and I’ve got $200.”

7. Hope you learned a lesson.

“As a kid I mimicked the limp of a old war veteran who was injured fighting for our country.

He caught me and I never felt so f*cked up.”

8. Ruthless.

“I’m a military veteran so any conversation about the absolute worst thing I’ve done could get overly complicated pretty quickly – but honestly the period I feel the most guilt about would be right after I got out of the Army.

I’d been in an all-male max-testosterone environment for 4 years, and suddenly I was a college student, surrounded by freshman girls who were away from home and parents for the first time. I was several years older, vastly more experienced, and still carrying a military mindset. I was very mission and goal-oriented, and not very interested in consequences.

I really used a lot of people. I never hurt anyone, but I was manipulative, deceptive and ruthless, and I was careless with the feelings of girls who deserved better.”

9. Uh oh.

“After my buddy graduated high school he got a bunch of wallet size photos of his senior photo.

He disappeared and we hadn’t seen him for a while or heard from him so me and a mutual friend decided it be funny if we wrote brutal phrases on the back of them and distribute them in the mailboxes around the neighborhood.

We wrote phrases like “I won’t tell your wife” and “till next time <3” and the simple but popular “I love you”We thought it was hysterical at the time.

Unfortunately the police ended up tracking him down and asking him about it. Looking back that’s pretty messed up.”

10. Your family can’t know.

“I have had s*x with escorts.

Not too bad, but my family wouldn’t approve. I and they were clean and practiced safe s*x. I don’t regret it, especially as I learned how to be more confident around women and bedroom activities.

But I know plenty of people who’d lord it over me. I really did just want to know what it was like to experience s*xual intercourse.

But yet I feel it’s a curse if I did do it or never did.”

11. Poor bird.

“I got a parakeet as a Christmas gift when I was 15.

Come April I have a new boyfriend I’m completely enamored by. So now I spend all my time with him completely forgetting to spend time with my bird. His squawking starts to annoy us so I move him next door to the empty room.

Couple days go by and I remember to check on him and he’s dead at the bottom of the cage. I starved him to death because I was hung up on my boyfriend. We’re married now 10 years later so there’s that but I still feel awful.

And my husband likes to remind me anytime animals come up in conversation. R.I.P. Frankie.”

12. Smashing pumpkins.

“When I was a teenager, we really enjoyed destroying property. So pumpkin smashing during Halloween was always like Christmas for a group of mischievous teens.

There was a family that had a whole bunch of pumpkins on a sheet, right on the curb. Probably 20 of them. Nice neighborhood, but I think they were selling them. Had a little girl that out front with them during the day.

They left them out of after dark.

I pulled up, got out and loaded every single pumpkin into the back seat of my car. Smashed them all over town. I admit, I do look back with some regret, thinking about that little girl coming outside to see an empty sheet the next day.”

13. What was I thinking?

“After college, I went drinking with some friends, and after the bars closed, we walked into a house party.

The owner didn’t like the jersey I was wearing and told me to leave. He followed me outside with his roommates and talked a bunch a trash. I walked home, waited about an hour, then walked back and keyed two of the cars bumper to bumper.

Like, what was I thinking? I’ve never done anything like that…”

14. Terrible.

“I had a huge argument with my mother during high school and one of the outside cats who gave birth had kittens and I threw one of them at the wall out of anger and frustration and the kitten eventually died.

I hate myself for that every single day. I feel so bad and I just can’t believe I did that. Whenever I attempt suicide due to depression, that memory and guilt of killing a helpless little kitten pushes me to almost kill myself the most. I can never forgive myself for doing what I did.

I’ve never told anyone in real life and my mother is the only one who knows I did that (because she witnessed it).”

15. NEVER DO THIS, PEOPLE.

“When I was a young teen, a friend and I liked to steal stop signs. We stole I don’t know how many, it was a lot though.

Well, we stole a sign, and not a day later a car crash happened because someone didn’t stop. No one died, but there were injuries.

I guess that came back to bite us in the *ss as that summer we worked for the city. What did we do? Replace the stop signs.”

How about you?

What’s the worst thing you think you’ve ever done?

Tell us all about in the comments!

We won’t judge you…too much…

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People Share Secrets They Have That They Can Only Tell Complete Strangers

It must eat a person up inside if they have secrets that they can’t tell their friends, parents, siblings, cousins, or other people who are close to them.

But, I guess everyone has their own personal feelings about who they can trust and who is on a “need to know” basis when it comes to personal information.

But we’re about to hear some very intimate information from people who are only comfortable telling their secrets to strangers.

Let’s dive into some deep secrets with folks on AskReddit who haven’t even told the people in their lives these stories.

1. Not happy.

“I obsess about being able to start life over, in another time.

To the point where I feel this life is not worth bothering about.”

2. Drunk on TV.

“There is a video of me being interviewed by Tulsa Channel 9 news where I’m drunk.

I was wearing a beer soaked crop top tank top OK State shirt being asked about my opinion on beer being sold in Boone Pickens Stadium….not my finest moment.”

3. Ha! That’s good!

“About 10 yrs ago, I stole my bully’s phone and threw it off a building.

He still doesn’t know what happened to his phone.”

4. Host family.

“When I was with my host family it was honestly the only year of my life I’ve felt like a part of a family.

I miss them so much.”

5. Not a huge fan.

“I kind of dislike my best friend.

We’ve known each other a long time, and we’re both in unfortunate circumstances, but I’m trying to change mine. He isn’t trying to change his, he just rages about how unfair his life is.

I’ve offered all the help I can, but he never takes me up on it, and being his shoulder to cry on can be exhausting. He can be a very negative person, and so can I, but I’m trying to be less so, but it’s easy to slip back into negativity when I’m around him.

It’s all very frustrating sometimes.”

6. Looking to get sick.

“I feel relieved whenever I get sick.

I have major depression and anxiety problems, and being physically ill is just something people understand better.

I don’t know how to explain it.”

7. Lonely.

“Just how lonely I am. Of course, no one wants to hear it, they blow smoke up your *ss or repeat catchy phrases.

I have no friends or anyone I talk to outside of coworkers.

I had a bad breakup last year and pretty much no luck since.”

8. Awful.

“My mother’s last words as she lay dying in our house were ‘I’m scared’.

This has messed me up, bad.

And I can’t tell anyone I know because I don’t want to mess them up, too.”

9. Depressed.

“That I honestly don’t enjoy life that much anymore.

I eat well, I exercise, I do everything that people say to do if you’re depressed. It ain’t been helping, and anytime i bring it up with someone, they just talk about how good i seem to have it.

Makes talking to my girlfriend or my friends really hard, because I seem so upbeat, but honestly there are a lot of days where I’d rather just wake up and go back to sleep.”

10. Sad.

“That I am horribly lonely and depressed.

I have social anxiety and am an introvert, so meeting people is difficult.

Hating myself doesn’t help any, and I wish I would just die, but unfortunately I’m too much of a chicken to do anything about that last part.”

11. Not for everyone.

“I don’t want to be in a relationship right now because I finally have a chance to figure out who I am as a person, on my own.

As soon as I start seeing someone, that’s over. Then I have to deal with someone else’s feelings, wants and needs alongside my own. I’m 26 and I finally have this chance…

And I’m d*mned if I’m going to waste it.”

12. Online cheating.

“My wife of 13 years is cheating on me.

She hasn’t physically had s*x with anyone, or met for that matter, but she is chatting with men online. I gained access to her email, Facebook, phone, etc without her knowing.

Here’s the kicker….I don’t want to tell her I know because our s*x life is now through the f*cking roof. We went from 1-2 times a month to now 4-5 times per week. Also, some of the “men” she’s talking to online, well…she’s actually talking to me.

I found out she’s on Tinder, so I made a fake Tinder account and we matched. Been talking to her for a few weeks. Asking her all sorts of crazy sh*t she’s done, etc.

I also made a Craigslist ad through activity partners and she responded to it.”

13. Deep down…

“Deep down I feel like I don’t really want or need any friends.

It’s not that I don’t like the friends I have or have horrible friends, they’re all solid relationships. But sometimes I go a week or two without answering my messages and realise that I don’t actually enjoy speaking to anyone or having regular contact.

I hate the pressure of replying to messages or speaking to people about their lives which is INCREDIBLY selfish of me, and I feel as though the only real emotional attachment I have to anyone is my mother, brother, sister and my SO.

I feel burdened by any other form of emotional investment but what kind of f*cking b*tch would I be to just cut off every single one of my friends for no other reason than “I just don’t care that much”.

I also don’t understand why I feel like this because like I said they’re strong friendships, some of which I’ve had for at least 10 years. For reference I’m 27.”

Now we’d like to hear from you.

If you’re comfortable, share some secrets with us that you’ve never told anyone close to you.

We look forward to hearing from you!

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People Share Deep Secrets They Can’t Tell Family and Friends

All of us have secrets.

Some are dark, some are embarrassing, and some are so personal that we can’t even fathom telling them to the people we are closest to in life.

I’m not saying that’s a good or a bad thing, it’s just the way it is.

So, what’s a secret you can only share with online strangers?

Here’s what AskReddit users had to say.

1. Wow.

“Sometimes when my medical issues are acting up I can’t even remember my husband’s name.

I know who he is but it’s like the data is corrupted and my brain is returning ‘unknown error’ instead of ‘name’.”

2. Hang in there.

“Don’t know how I’m going to survive now without stepdad.

Died Saturday.

Things just hurt so much.”

3. This is terrible.

“My mother was afraid of death.

On the day she died, five different doctors told me there was no hope (and there wasn’t). They also told me she couldn’t be aware of what’s going on.

She was. She would open her eyes when she heard me. I asked her several times if she wanted off the vent, and she’d nod. I’d clarify that this would mean it was her time to go, and she wouldn’t answer any way.

After several hours of watching a team off nurses work on her while she was circling the drain, I gave the consent.

Her last action was one of fear. I am fully convinced that she was completely aware of what was happening for at least 15 seconds (even with a large morphine dose). She grasped at me with her hands as though she were trying to cling to life.

I’ve had many nightmares about it.”

4. No more relationships?

“Since my divorce, I don’t really want a relationship.

I date some and keep it casual and had one “actual” girlfriend for 3 months and it was pure hell. My family doesn’t get it, but I really like doing the dad and kids thing.

I went to counseling in case it was some carryover issues from my marriage, but it seems I just like being on my own.

I’m scared that won’t change long-term, I don’t want to end up alone after my kids grow out of the home…but I just can’t get onboard to doing the relationship bit and don’t see that changing anytime soon.”

5. No excitement.

“I’m afraid I don’t know how to get excited about stuff anymore. I can’t really tell my friends or family.

My friends know me as a perpetually happy girl, all smiles and jokes, always there for them when they need support. My family are nice, but will just not be able to help. Nothing is bringing me joy anymore, and I feel like I am steadily losing touch with the world around me.

I try to pursue my hobbies, and I just feel nothing from them anymore. Nothing grabs me and enthralls me with passion anymore. I don’t get excited to game, to read, to lock pick, or even to get out of bed.

I just don’t feel any point in any of it anymore, and there’s no one to tell and nothing to really do about it.”

6. Intense.

“I introduced my friend to the medication I’m pretty sure ultimately killed her, but we have no proof.”

7. At least you’re honest.

“I LOVE the impact the pandemic is having.

I’m sad that people are dying, but as someone who was working myself to the bone or commuting to work being forced to stop everything and spend all my time at home gave me so much more time with my family and doing what I enjoy.

Unemployment is enough that I can survive so suddenly I am financially ok, but without a lot of suffering. I am absolutely dreading having to go back and don’t think I can without dealing with serious impact to my well-being.”

8. A survivor.

“Never told my parents that I had Stage One cancer.

Both were barely sober and would have jumped off the wagon head-first.

The bright side is, the doctor got it all.”

9. Keep moving forward.

“I’m pretty confident that I’m going to die alone and potentially young.

It’s making it hard for me to care about planning for anything in the long-term.”

10. Prison.

“I was s*xually assaulted a few years ago, in prison serving time for a non-violent drug offense.

I’m a guy. I was assaulted by a guy. Maybe r*pe is the proper classification for what transpired.

I have never, and I don’t know that I could ever tell anyone about it.”

11. OH MY GOD.

“I’ve talked my experience before but I was a victim of accidental cannibalism (which means I have eaten human).

The incident involves what I assume was some cartel trying to get rid of bodies by cooking them and serving as food for people to buy. Sweeney Todd style.

I used to love that food until the news came out. Now I have this really incredible story I can’t share with anyone because it’s f*cked up.

And even if I share it who is going to believe it?”

12. Ahhh, don’t worry about it.

“I’m a ‘normal’, educated, successful guy that sometimes like to wear women’s clothes.”

13. Scandalous!

“My sister-in-law’s sister and I hooked up at her bachelorette party. That’s my brother’s wife’s sister if you’re confused.

I’m also a woman so it’s a bit more of a scandal than your usual wedding shenanigans.”

14. Dad.

“My dad had two massive strokes 4 years ago.

He was hospitalized and went through alot of physical and psychological training over the following year. However a large part of his brain had “died”, so he had the mind of a 5 year old.

I still loved him and visited him in the rehabilitation clinic (like a nursing home, but better suited), as often as I could. Every visit was hard, because he wasn’t the same anymore – he often only focused on eating candy, or be annoyed about stuff he felt he was missing (like a new watch or similar).

One day the staff called me, and said that I needed to get some prescription pills, because they didn’t get the delivery from the pharmacy. I had a meeting one hour later, so I got the pills and drove as fast as I could to them.

When I got there, they asked if I wanted to talk to him. “I can’t, I don’t have the time right now. I’ll talk to him tomorrow when I get here”. I think he saw me from his window, as I drove off again.

That night he died.

To this day, I blame myself for not talking to him for just 5 minutes. I was stressed, and I knew it would just be random weird stuff. I don’t know, if he was saddened that I had left, and then just gave up. I’d give anything to get him back.

I can’t tell my mom or sister this. They’d be devastated.”

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