“Long books, when read, are usually overpraised, because the reader wants to convince others and himself that he has not wasted his time.” E.M. FORSTER
Although Fidel Castro was always…
Although Fidel Castro was always pictured with cigars, he gave up smoking them in the 80’s and was quoted as saying: “The best thing you can do with a box of cigars give it to your enemy!”
Here’s What Experts Say about Eating for Comfort vs Enjoyment
If you’re anything like me, you may have a bad habit of eating your feelings. It’s actually a very common thing, but it can be seriously bad for your health if you’re not practicing moderation.
Experts agree that if we eat for comfort and it becomes a habit, we can hurt ourselves physically from overeating, while also doing emotional damage because we’re using food to avoid facing our feelings.
Karen R. Koenig, an eating psychology expert, blogger and author shared this with Huff Post about comfort food:
“A misleading misnomer if there ever was one, comfort is not something we want to keep associating with food. We want to file food in our brains under nourishment and occasional pleasure. We want to seek comfort through friends, doing kind things for ourselves and engaging in healthy activities that reduce internal distress.”
Sarah Allen, a psychologist who specializes in eating disorders has some additional advice:
“As soon as you start looking for food, stop. Think, ‘Am I hungry? Do I need food in my stomach, or is one of my triggers going off? What do I need right now?’”
But yeah, that’s good and all… but why is it so hard to NOT do those things?
Susan Albers, author and clinical psychologist, explains the underlying factors.
“When we’re stressed, our bodies are flooded in cortisol. That makes us crave sugary, fatty, salty foods.”
Cortisol is the body’s main stress hormone. It regulates how our bodies process all the macro nutrients we consume (carbs, fats, proteins), so when stress and anxiety enter our emotional equation… we carbo-load like crazy.
The experts agree that while a hormone like cortisol is a powerful trigger to comfort eat, we need to practice more mindfulness when eating. So instead of letting our mood drive consumption, we need to concentrate on meals, not snacks. Also, emotional eating usually ends up in overconsumption, which means we aren’t even tasting the food we eat. Experience a meal, savor the flavors and understand how you feel when you’re full.
One last bit of advice? Never go cold turkey. People put unrealistic expectations on themselves, which leads to being unable to meet goals. Start off with manageable, achievable goals and then continue to build up to your ultimate goals, whatever those may be.
Basically, enjoy those treats! Because we deserve them. But try to view eating that cookie or candy or baked good or WHATEVER as a way of enjoying yourself, not consoling yourself.
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15 Quotes from Mister Rogers That Will Remind You There’s Still Good in the World
If there’s anything we can all agree on in these extremely divided times, it’s that we need more people like Fred Rogers in the world.
And to commemorate the new documentary about Rogers, Won’t You Be My Neighbor?, here are 15 quotes from the man himself.
1.
“As human beings, our job in life is to help people realize how rare and valuable each one of us really is, that each of us has something that no one else has – or ever will have – something inside that is unique to all time.”
2.
“There is no normal life that is free of pain. It’s the very wrestling with our problems that can be the impetus for our growth.”
3.
“I hope you’re proud of yourself for the times you’ve said ‘yes,’ when all it meant was extra work for you and was seemingly helpful only to somebody else.”
4.
“It’s not the honors and the prizes and the fancy outsides of life which ultimately nourish our souls. It’s the knowing that we can be trusted, that we never have to fear the truth, that the bedrock of our very being is good stuff. That’s what makes growing humanity the most potentially glorious enterprise on earth.”
5.
“It takes strength to acknowledge our anger, and sometimes more strength yet to curb the aggressive urges anger may bring and to channel them into nonviolent outlets.”
6.
“When I was very young, most of my childhood heroes wore capes, flew through the air, or picked up buildings with one arm. They were spectacular and got a lot of attention. But as I grew, my heroes changed, so that now I can honestly say that anyone who does anything to help a child is a hero to me.”
7.
“There’s no ‘should’ or ‘should not’ when it comes to having feelings. They’re part of who we are and their origins are beyond our control.”
8.
“The really important ‘great’ things are never center stage of life’s dramas; they’re always ‘in the wings.’ That’s why it’s so essential for us to be mindful of the humble and the deep rather than the flashy and the superficial.”
9.
“When I was a boy and I would see scary things in the news, my mother would say to me, ‘Look for the helpers. You will always find people who are helping.’”
10.
“Please think of the children first. If you ever have anything to do with their entertainment, their food, their toys, their custody, their childcare, their health care, their education – listen to the children, learn about them, learn from them. Think of the children first.”
11.
“When I say it’s you I like, I’m talking about that part of you that knows that life is far more than anything you can ever see or hear or touch. That deep part of you that allows you to stand for those things without which humankind cannot survive. Love that conquers hate, peace that rises triumphant over war, and justice that proves more powerful than greed.”
12.
“It’s our insides that make us who we are, that allow us to dream and wonder and feel for others. That’s what’s essential. That’s what will always make the biggest difference in our world.”
13.
“Love isn’t a state of perfect caring. It is an active noun like ‘struggle.’ To love someone is to strive to accept that person exactly the way he or she is, right here and now – and to go on caring even through times that may bring us pain.”
14.
“There are three ways to ultimate success. The first way is to be kind. The second way is to be kind. The third way is to be kind.”
15.
“I hope that you’ll remember/ Even when you’re feeling blue/ That it’s you I like/ It’s you yourself/ It’s you, it’s you I like.”
Check out the trailer for the film below.
h/t: Mashable
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15 People Share the Quotes They Live Their Lives By
If you’re looking for some inspiration (or just some good old-fashioned humor) check out these 15 quotes people use to steer their lives.
#15. What you have not
“Do not spoil what you have by desiring what you have not; remember that what you now have was once among the things you only hoped for.”
#14. What have you got to lose?
“if you don’t ask, the answer is always no”
#13. Whole-ass
“I don’t fear the man who has practiced ten thousand kicks. I fear the man who has practiced one kick, ten thousand times.
-Bruce Lee
Or, if you prefer a more modern version
Never half-ass two things. Whole-ass one thing.
-Nick Offerman”
#12. Cook the steak
“You don’t win friends with salad.”
#11. Arm yourself
“It is better to be a warrior in a garden than a gardener in a war.” – Chinese Proverb”
#10. A water bill
“The grass isn’t greener on the other side, it’s greener where you water it.”
#9. Never normal
“one that ive always gone by is “Normal is an illusion. What is normal to the spider is chaos to the fly.” – Morticia Addams.”
#8. Drink, instead
“Don’t worry about things you can’t change.”
#7. Practice makes perfect
“It doesn’t get better, you just get better at it.”
Really gives me a solid foundation.”
#6. Why you’re built
“A ship is safe in a harbor, but that‘s not what ships are built for”
#5. Wisdom from ancient Rome
“Live a good life. If there are gods and they are just, then they will not care how devout you have been, but will welcome you based on the virtues you have lived by. If there are gods, but unjust, then you should not want to worship them. If there are no gods, then you will be gone, but will have lived a noble life that will live on in the memories of your loved ones.
-Marcus Aurelius”
#4. Selling something
“Life is pain, whoever says different is selling something.”
#3. Good people
“Another one is
“Good people plant trees in which they will never sit in the shade of” or something to that effect.
I like to think it means that you should always consider the long term effects of what you’re doing and be less selfish.”
#2. The first time
“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time.” — Maya Angelou”
#1. The one you feed
“An old Cherokee told his grandson, “My son, there is a battle between two wolves inside us all. One is Evil. It is anger, jealousy, greed, resentment, inferiority, lies & ego. The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, humility, kindness, empathy, & truth.” The boy thought about it, and asked, “Grandfather, which wolf wins?” The old man quietly replied, “The one you feed.” -Author Unknown”
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The alignment of planets…
The alignment of planets in our solar system that allowed us to launch Voyager spacecraft out of our solar system at the speed it went only happens once every 176 years. “The last time this happened, Thomas Jefferson was president, and he blew it.” — Tom Paine, Former NASA Administrator 10
When Stalin visited his mother…
When Stalin visited his mother in 1935, she asked him what he did. He said “Do you remember the tsar? Well, I’m like a tsar” his mother’s response was “You’d have done better to have become a priest”. 00
The first CIA director stated…
The first CIA director stated in a letter to Congress that “high-ranking Air Force officers are soberly concerned about UFOs. But through official secrecy and ridicule, many citizens are led to believe the unknown flying objects are nonsense.” 00
Mark Twain initially supported American Imperialism…
Mark Twain initially supported American Imperialism, but, after discovering America’s true motives in the Philippine–American War by reading the Treaty of Paris, he changed his position, saying “And so I am an anti-imperialist. I am opposed to having the eagle put its talons on any other land.” 00
Bob Marley once said…
Bob Marley once said “The people who are trying to make this world worse aren’t taking a day off. How can I?” after armed gunmen attacked his home two days before giving a free concert called “Smile Jamaica”. 00