People Explain How A Mistake They Made Actually Made Things Better In The End

We all make mistakes.

Some are bigger than others.

Some errors are massive, having profound ramifications that impact the rest of our lives while others have more limited consequences.

Turns out, though, that not all mistakes are the end of the world—some are the beginning of something fantastic.

Redditor HypnoViber pointed out this phenomenon when they asked: 

“What is a mistake you have made that actually made something better?”

Sometimes, a good hard hit really is the answer. 

“Accidentally backed into a pole at night in my mother’s Taurus.”

“Low speed, no damage, but it was dead center, so in between the reverse lights, I didn’t see it.”

“However, the trunk latch was never sticky again, worked fine after.” ~Speedy-McLeadfoot

Other times, the wrong turn is the right one.

I work in television.”

“A few years ago I was a background PA (I help set Extras in a TV show and give them their actions).”

“Anyways the scene taking place was that the main character was being checked by a doctor in an office with the door open (weird but I don’t make those decisions).”

“I sent an extra down that hallway and told him to go inside the office to the right – the one across from where the scene was happening.”

“I guess this guy didn’t hear me correctly but during the scene he went into the office where the scene was happening, upon realizing his mistake he played along as if he were part of the scene and gave them an: ‘Oops!’ “

“And the actors reacted to him, making the scene funnier.”

My boss was quick to yell at me but the director came out and asked who made the decision because it was awesome!”

“Of course my boss stopped yelling.”

“They decided to upgrade the extra and add his line.”

“The man went from getting paid $125 a day to making a bit more than $1k for saying the word Oops!”

“The guy thanked me profusely because he was in desperate need of money and this was going to help him with rent.”

“All throughout the day, he thanked me.”

“My mistake made someone so happy. It made my day.”~SuitableCamel6129

Mistakes, the spice of life!

I misread a chili recipe that called for tamari (a type of soy sauce) and put tahini (sesame seed paste).”

“It was creamy and delicious!”

“I realized my mistake the next time I made it, but to this day I still put tahini in it.”~HarrisonRyeGraham

More fantastic food flubs. 

“I was making a Moussaka recipe, this one was like… think lasagna, but Greek with slices of eggplant instead of layers of noodles.”

“Trying to help me, for some reason my SO diced the eggplant.”

“We said: ‘F*ck it.’ and continued making what turned out to be more of a Moussaka-like casserole.”

“OMFG it was good!”

“So that’s how we make it.”

“Not filling between layers of eggplant slices, we make it casserole-style.”

“Never even tried to follow the recipe again correctly.”~Sniffs_Markers

The error that keeps on giving. 

“I approached a dude in high school thinking he was someone else I met the other day.”

“(I was new to this school and still learning who people were).”

“I didn’t realize this until days later when he told me.”

“However we became best friends.”

“He eventually introduced me to my future wife who I now have a family with.”

“A simple case of mistaken identity shaped my whole life.”~Actuaryba

Many responses were surprisingly self-aware. 

I got into a drunken street fight a long time ago and ended up getting arrested.”

“I beat one guy up and then pulled a knife on another guy he was with when he tried to intervene.”

“I actually didn’t think it was a big deal after the fight ended as I felt that I had won and just proceeded to walk home.”

“Next thing you know 10 cop cars surrounded me and I was in handcuffs sitting in the back of a police car.”

“It was 100% my fault.”

“I went to a lawyer who said he would help me with the criminal case that came with what I had done, but I had to go to AA.”

“I told him that I didn’t remember much from the previous evening and he explained that I had experienced an ‘alcoholic blackout’ and that I was so inebriated that I stopped recording memories and couldn’t control my behavior.”

“He said that I was an alcoholic and he sees it all the time in clients that come to him for help after drinking and doing something stupid.”

“If this hadn’t happened I probably would have still been drinking every single day and continuing down the path of ruining my life.”

“I ended up going to 50+ AA meetings which gave me a chance to reevaluate my life and have been sober ever since.”~reaverdude

Not all mistakes are life-altering, some just save the day.

“Didn’t mute myself in an online meeting by accident.”

“Told a joke to my friend and because people from the online meeting heard it, they of course laughed and after the meeting one of the participants told me she was having a very hard time because of her depression and that I lifted her mood up.”

“Sh*t was pleasant, ngl”~wriggly_jiggled22

Always read the fine print. 

“In my 20s, when I was unemployed and almost broke, I got a great job offer and was so stoked that I said yes before reading the whole offer letter.”

“A few days later I realized the position they gave me wasn’t at the local office where I had interviewed but was on the other side of the country.”

“Oops.”

“I went for it anyway and it turned out to be a wonderful move.”

“I started life over from scratch, had a ton of fun exploring a new place, made some great friends, and met my wife.”~SagebrushBiker

The wrong note just sounds better.

“As a musician, I have to say it’s every instance of ‘I keep playing this riff I wrote wrong so that’s how it’s played now’.” ~thrashingkaiju

That’s one way to quit?

“I ashed a cigarette in a glass that had a drink in it (don’t ask me why).”

“I accidentally picked it up and took the biggest swig of what I thought was my scotch- I projectile vomited, and never touched another cigarette”~Muriana_of

We all make mistakes.

We run from them, we shun them and we try our hardest to deny them but sometimes what we think of as a misstep is actually a step in the right direction.

Sometimes, our mistakes make us.

People Share Their Opinions About Good Things That Have Happened in 2020

Even though it’s been a rough year, there’s still a lot of positivity in the world, right?

Darn right! We have to look at the good side of things or else you get dragged down and you bring down those around you.

So what are the good things that happened in 2020?

Here’s what folks had to say on AskReddit.

1. Good for you!

“I quit smoking cigarettes. It’s changed my life.

I was using an inhaler multiple times every single day and now it’s somewhere in my closet… I don’t need it anymore. I’m sleeping way better and there’s no irritability or impatience in me.

Next week will be six months clean and this week I already felt gratitude for being 10 months sober! I’ve never had this much control over my addictions and myself in my entire adult life.”

2. All good stuff.

“I got a higher paying job, paid off some debt, moved, lost some weight, got back into an old hobby and bought a house.”

3. In love.

“I got a second chance at love!

I’m still young but my last breakup devastated me and with chronic illness I thought nobody would be able to handle it or I wasn’t worth it.

So far, things are going really well with him.”

4. We all liked it!

“That video with the guy longboarding to “Dreams” by Fleetwood Mac and drinking Ocean Spray.”

5. Congrats!

“Astronomer here! I

finally in May became Dr. Andromeda321 via virtual PhD defense. While virtual is not what I wanted, it was a goal I worked hard to achieve for about eight years despite several obstacles along the way, so it was really awesome to get it done!

And the university is still holding my official diploma, with the plan to have a big fancy ceremony whenever it is safe to do so in person.”

6. Nice work.

“Long story short, I pulled some kids out of a burning vehicle AND got a raise and a very nice bonus afterwords.

Company-wise, my boss has been very good to me this year.”

7. Your rock.

“I realized, after spending copious amounts of time with the husband, I married my best friend.

I think we are more in love now than before we got married. 2019 was a terrible year for our family. My dad died in December (he was only 58). Honestly, 2020 has been way better.

My husband has been a rock through all that.”

8. Movin’ on up.

“I got a job that I genuinely like that pays well. I interviewed in March over zoom and started working in April.

This has allowed me to start saving up money and get more financially secure.”

9. Good friends.

“My friends and I started Zooming every weekend.

We’ve never been closer since graduating high school 26 years ago.”

10. Win-win.

“A lot of people (including myself) have cut out thousands of miles of commuting this year and are now working from home.

That’s a lot of money I’m not spending on gas, and less car exhaust polluting the air. Seems like a win-win. Plus the extra free time not spent fighting traffic is a nice bonus.”

11. Your best friend.

“My 9 year old cat, Icy is cancer survivor. It has been over 2.5 years since she had her cancer removed.

Every six months she goes for a recheck x-ray to make sure it hasn’t come back. A couple months ago her x-ray had a questionable mark on it. She went back a couple weeks ago and my Ice Ice Baby is cancer free! Best part is the mark is gone and we don’t have to take her back for 6 months.

Our vet did say she is getting fat so she is on a diet. I blame her brother and sister. They always leave a little food behind after meals and Icy treats it as an all you can eat buffet. But she is on a diet now so only one treatsie a day and no extra food.”

12. A good year.

“Best year of my life, got close to a really good friend, introduced my sister to a really good friend of hers, lost a lot of weight, Edge returning to WWE.

It just became official that I am moving to 1st shift 30 seconds ago of me typing this, met a girl I really like and found my place in life.”

13.

“In Feb I got to speak at a conference in Hawaii before the shutdown. I had enough time and resources from the shut down to do tasks I never had, spent time getting sober, paying off debts and building a nest egg.

I got scuba certified and a couple of publications under my belt. I played all the videogames and watched all the TV series and read all the comics I never had time for. I am still depressed as hell, not just for myself but for those around me.

But I am only working one job and have two days off a week, with a net positive income every month. Romance sucks and I am not in a position where I can be a hoe again, but I am not sleeping with people I dont like to validate my self worth.

I am getting in great shape and working on doing projects I love and eventually getting a career i want and mental stability. There is a lot of sh*t, but I am doing my best to do everything I can for myself and my communities.”

14. That’s great!

“Everyone is talking about themselves, which is great, but I’m interpreting the question as it being in general.

Africa has been declared free of wild polio which is an outstanding milestone which has not been mentioned much due to covid!!”

Okay, now it’s your turn.

In the comments, tell us about some good things that have happened to you this year.

We’d love to hear from you!

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Try These 10 Microhabits That Might Help Improve Your Life in a Year

All of us want to be better versions of ourselves. To be more productive, more positive, just better overall.

Instead of trying for that one, big breakthrough that might never come, you should instead try to focus on microhabits to change your life.

Here are 10 to work on. Remember, start small and these changes will add up and you’ll start seeing changes. Good luck!

1. Rejection is good.

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Try to be rejected more often. Reach out to one or two people each day you’d like to work with, even if you don’t think they’ll respond. Someone will respond at some point, and that minimal effort will be worth it.

What do you have to lose?

2. Write a paragraph.

The hardest part of writing is actually sitting down and doing it. You can make up a million excuses about why you shouldn’t write, or you can make the choice to just do it, even if it’s only a paragraph.

Whether you want to eventually write a book, an article, a business plan, or even a love letter, the more you do it, the easier it will become.

3. Think about comfort…in the future.

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You should choose comfort for yourself in the future instead of comfort right now in the present. Start making choices that will be beneficial for your future self. Always thinking about the present moment and not looking ahead is a recipe for disaster.

4. Get it done.

If you get a text, answer it quickly. If you get an email, respond ASAP. If you have this mindset, you won’t end up with a never-ending backlog of messages to respond to.

5. Your base needs are important.

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It’s important to take care of yourself. If you’re hungry, eat. If you’re tired, get some sleep. Don’t burn yourself out and make yourself sick just because you think you have to be busy and working all the time.

6. Reading is good.

Read more. It’s pretty simple. You don’t have to always finish the book you start, but read some articles and expand your knowledge about the world. Reading is crucial for self-growth.

7. Put it down.

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Learn to scroll less. Most of us have made scrolling through social media an everyday habit, but you should really work to limit the time you spend doing this. As you probably know, it’s never very productive.

8. NOPE

Learn to say “no” to people. Our time and energy are both limited, so it’s important that you don’t let others suck up all your resources. In other words, you do you.

9. Just one less.

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Eat one less unhealthy snack each day. Don’t focus on completely changing your diet overnight. Once you get into this habit, you’ll see changes and you can further tweak your diet.

10. The question.

Begin each day by asking yourself this question: “How can I change my life today?” Stop thinking you have to survive each day and change your mindset to believe that each day is full of potential and you can achieve whatever you put your mind to. You must be willing to see things in your life differently to make some changes.

You can do it!

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