Woman Asks if She’s Wrong For Wearing White as the Maid of Honor

I know I’m preaching to the choir, but I’m just gonna tell you one more time: it’s probably not a great idea to mess with a woman on their wedding day…or in the months leading up to it.

Just trust us on this one, okay?

But, people are gonna be people and this woman made what some folks would consider to be a huge error in judgment…or maybe not…

Check out this story from the “Am I The A**hole?” page on Reddit.

AITA for wearing white as Maid of Honor while my friend is “the Bride”?

“My best friend Joy (28F) is getting married next year to her long time partner. Recently she started wedding planning and asked me (29F) to be her maid of honor—we have been friends for nearly 20 years and needless to say I was super excited.

Joy has started planning, and it’s been incredibly stressful for her. I have tried my best to be as supportive and helpful where I can, going above and beyond (daily discussions, fielding unwieldy family members, acting a buffer sometimes). I am prefacing with this because the next part is frankly bonkers and I am having trouble processing.

Last Sunday, Joy and I met with some of our friends for lunch (we are all vaccinated at this point). Since it was the first time seeing friends in a while and we were going to a nice restaurant, I decided to dress up a little.

It was pretty hot over the weekend so I opted to wear an old, white linen dress to our gathering (one I have worn many times). I thought everything was totally fine, but I noticed Joy giving me strange looks at lunch and only talking in short responses with me. I brushed it off as stress and when we got up to say goodbye, Joy left in a rush.

When I got home, I was had a bunch of angry texts from Joy saying she was disappointed in me and couldn’t believe I would try to “dull her shine during this special time”. I was confused asked her to elaborate. Apparently she was furious that I had dared to wear white while she was the bride to be.

I was FLOORED. I apologized (kind of) stating that I was sorry she was so upset, but that I wasn’t sure how my wearing white to a casual friends hang was a slight on her being a bride, nor how it was taking attention away from her. She flipped out and called me all sorts of names, and said she has no idea how she could have picked such an unsupportive and attention-grabbing MOH.

I snapped a little and told her that while I respected she was getting married, that did not entitle her on a monopoly on the color white and that while her wedding was the most important thing going on in her life, it was not the most important thing going on in other peoples lives.

Now I am aware that a bride generally wears white to wedding related events and the guests should not, but this brunch was not wedding related in the slightest. I feel especially sad since I feel that I have gone out of my way to help, and our past friendship has been very calm and loving.

My friends are generally supportive of me (a few think I should have somehow had the foresight to see this—apparently psychic abilities are another MOH requirement I missed) but think I should just try to make peace since she is clearly under a lot of stress. I do feel a bit bad, especially about the comment about her wedding not being the most important thing in my life, but am not budging.

AITA?”

Oh, my…

Let’s see what folks on Reddit had to say about this.

This person said that, given the circumstances, this woman is not acting like a jerk.

At all.

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Another reader said this is really a no-win situation for the woman and that she should just walk away.

Photo Credit: Reddit

This Reddit user said she should give the bride a chance to apologize and if she doesn’t, maybe it’s time to walk away.

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And lastly, this person argued that the bride here is probably so overwhelmed with the planning of her wedding that she’s not really aware of how her behavior is affecting other people.

Good point.

Photo Credit: Reddit

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Really Wonderful Cringey Looks Back in Time

As a kid I was kind of obsessed with recording things. I was into multimedia endeavors in a big way. I had my tape recorders, my family’s giant camcorder, and some fairly primitive software to play around with as well.

The upside of this is that I have a TON of preserved record of my childhood with all of my tastes and attempts at expression.

The downside of this is that I have a TON of preserved record of my childhood with all of my tastes and attempts at expression.

Most of it is, how do I put this, the cringiest cringe that ever cringed. And I’m genuinely torn between burning it all in a fire and backing it up forever because of my previously mentioned obsession with all things multimedia.

Maybe I should just dump it all on r/blunderyears like these Reddit people did.

14. Apology accepted

“My name is Kate and I’m here to say /
I’m unwittingly problematic in a major way…”

I’m sorry guys, I was like 9 and loved rap. I truly apologize. from blunderyears

13. Baby bat

Hey, at least it looks like you’re having fun.

Baby bat me was something else huh… from blunderyears

12. Mood swinging

What really sells this is the editing.

I have no words to explain my younger self from blunderyears

11. Ashlee Simpson phase

Yo, you had a blitz phone?

At a sleepover with my blitz phone during my Ashlee Simpson phase circa 2008 from blunderyears

10. The death of MySpace

Wait? What’s Stickam? [Googling intensifies.]

My last MySpace photo, probably getting ready to login into Stickam. The streaks are plastic hair clip ins. from blunderyears

9. Official Campion

You’re the real winner here, friend.

Feeling confident AF in my Reign Man sneakers, official Champion Charlotte Hornets game shorts, and a polo shirt for added grown-up sophistication from blunderyears

8. Grunge phase

“Yeah, I’ve seen some stuff. Like water. And rocks. And picturesque pastel riverlines.”

I went through my grunge phase when I was 7 from blunderyears

7. Absolutely br00tal

Stay away from this kid, he WILL hit you with that guitar.
Because he can’t see a f*ckin’ thing.

br00tal ’09 core kid reporting for duty from blunderyears

6. The whole package

Hollister at ya boy.

Circa 2006 – freshman year of high school. Hollister shirt, Hollister necklace, and I would straighten my hair. from blunderyears

 

5. Hottest cowgirl fashion

Yeehaw to you, young lady!

The year is 1993, I am fresh from the salon with the $50 perm I begged my mom for, and JCPennys hottest cowgirl fashion (look it up sweaty). from blunderyears

4. Ride it

They’re both just like “Who is this? Why is this happening?”

Me and flo rida. I did not listen to flo rida. from blunderyears

3. Embrace it

You look like a character in a Fry & Laurie sketch, my guy.

I had embraced my nerdy outcast status and went to school like this, sadly the trench coat was soon banned after ’99 from blunderyears

2. Recent developments

This kid crawled so that Insta selfies could run.

Got a disposable camera as a child and decided to take a selfie. I was very pleased with it after getting it developed. from blunderyears

1. Totally subline

Rock on!

Sublime shirt: check. Bandana: check. Self awareness: not found from blunderyears

In the end, the only thing we have to cringe is cringe itself.

What was your past self like?

Tell us about ’em in the comments.

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Check Out These Amazing Hairstyles from From a Teenage Stylist

There’s a hairstylist in Germany doing some crazy things with braids right now.

Her name is Milena and she regularly posts her creations to her Instagram account hairstylist.dream, where tens of thousands gather to marvel at them.

They’re incredibly impressive. Here are just a few!

15. Like flowers

How do you even get that intricate?

14. Laced up

Apparently she’s a bit of a night owl.

13. Blue lagoon

“Be a mermaid and make waves.”

12. Woven basket

She does all this WHILE in school. She’s only 17.

11. Holiday cheer

A little subtle celebration of Christmas.

10. Shades of grey

Super diverse.

9. Medieval times

This feels like it would be right at home on an episode of Game of Thrones.

8. The eye

Let the sunshine in.

7. Rainbow bright

Wow, just wow!

6. Honeycomb

“If you can dream it you can do it!”

5. Waves

I can almost hear the ocean crashing.

4. Explosion in red

This feels like it would be amazing for a wedding day.

3. Flower power

Those are some locks of love.

2. In pearls

Top that.

1. From the top

That’s some big energy.

I don’t know how people with this kind of talent even exist, especially at such a young age. When I was 17 I don’t think I had yet figured out how to scramble eggs, I certainly wasn’t out here making beautiful masterpieces of personal style for the ages. Ah, well. Different strokes for different folks, I guess?

What kind of fashion statement would you take on if you thought you could pull it off? What has stopped you so far?

Talk about it in the comments.

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A Teenage Stylist Creates Amazingly Intricate Hair Designs

German teenage hairstylist Milena is doing some things that I’m sure a lot of people in her line of work would try their entire lives to be good enough to do.

Her intricate hair designs are as fascinating as they are beautiful, and they’re freely available to enjoy thanks to her popular Instagram account hairstylist.dream.

There Milena posts stunning images of her creations alongside occasional words of inspiration. It’s really a very refreshing and positive place to be and indicative of the bright future this gifted youngster has in front of her.

let’s take a look at some of the styles now!

15. Decked in pearls

And all wrapped up in a bow.

14. Rainbow road

“Be a rainbow in someone else’s cloud.”

13. Criss cross

My mind is just absolutely blown.

12. Twinning

Milena will often do collaborations and cross promotions with fellow stylists as well.

11. The gray

With beautiful waves.

10. Spiraling down

Those locks are locked in.

9. Traces

“The purpose of our lives is to be happy.”

8. Blue dreams

This was in celebration of 6,000 followers, but she’s now approaching ten times that number.

7. Purple haze

It really catches your eye.

6. Visions in red

“Act as if what you do makes a difference. It does.”

5. Light blonde

She calls these “waterfall braids.”

4. Basket weave

“It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation.”

3. Two tone

Did we mention she does all of this WHILE in school?

2. Armour

Count ’em up.

1. A closer look

“Be yourself: everyone else is already taken!”

Congratulations to Milena, here’s to all the success you deserve!

What’s your favorite hairstyle?

Tell us in the comments.

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What’s The Best a Person Has Ever Looked on Film? 10 People Weigh In.

Stop what you’re doing because Twitter user @texaninnyc has a very important question about hot people:

What’s the answer? I have no idea. But here are a few confident assertions

10. Robert Pattinson

In the very confusing Tenet.

9. Michael Fassbender

Making very bad look too good in Inglorious Bastards.

8. Audrey Tautou

In the ever-quirky Amelie.

7. Naveen Andrews

I’ve heard that I look (or looked?) a bit like this LOST actor, I’ll take it.

6. Angelina Jolie

Just being her wherever there’s a camera.

5. Catherine Zeta Jones

Cutting it up in The Mask of Zorro.

4. Janelle Monae

Saving the day in Hidden Figures.

3. Freida Pinto

Winning in Slumdog Millionaire.

2. Jessica Alba

In an apparently underrated flick called Idle Hands.

1. Audrey Hepburn

In literally anything she touched.

Are these even real people? It’s hard to tell sometimes.

Who would you submit for this honor?

Tell us in the comments.

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Let’s Settle This: Who’s the Hottest Person to Ever Appear in a Film?

Have you ever been on a film set? I have a few times. You can start to realize WHY movie stars look as good as they do on camera, they’ve got entire teams of people making sure that happens.

Of course, it helps to start off by being really, really, really ridiculously good looking. Like the folks Twitter user @texaninnyc was referring to in this tweet:

So, what does Twitter think? Let’s look at a few of their nominees.

10. Rufus Sewell

A Knight’s Tale.

9. Christopher Reeve

Superman.

8. Sam Elliott

Not sure what movie this still is from, but he’s stylin’.

7. Marlon Brando

A Streetcar Named Desire.

6. Salma Hayek

From Dusk till Dawn.

5. Aishwarya Rai Bachchan

Star of many Indian films.

4. Nicole Beharie

42.

3. Angela Bassett

In…everything.

2. Kate Beckinsale

Van Helsing.

1. Cybill Shepherd

The Last Picture Show.

Too many great choices…I don’t know who to pick!

Who would you nominate?

Tell us in the comments.

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Some Signs You Were Living Your Best Life in the 2010s

Trends may come and go, but the ones we encounter in our formative years are the ones that stick with us forever.

If you were coming up in the 2010’s and got into the Tumblr/Instagram scene, you might have fallen into one particular group of girls that’s hard to name but instantly recognizable.

Let us demonstrate what we mean. You know you’re in this group if…

15. You had this owl necklace

Where did it come from? Why was it everywhere? No one knows.

https://saynotothechickenmcnuggets-blog.tumblr.com/post/21435793587

14. You shared inspirational quotes on pictures of nature

How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren’t real?

https://fantasiaando.tumblr.com/post/42040798717

13. You had (or posed with) a very old camera

And took a picture of it with a very new camera that actually worked.

https://hartxkiie-blog.tumblr.com/post/16673280309

12. You shared lots of flower pics

Hey, you gotta stop and smell ’em once in a while.

https://esthercarolineritiau.tumblr.com/post/39991041055

11. You broke lots of car safety laws

Get them gams for the grams.

https://http-tatumm.tumblr.com/post/101601911217

10. You had or desperately wanted an old typewriter

Surely THAT’S the only thing standing between me and writing that novel…

https://mypinkvalentine.tumblr.com/post/15645650013

9. You made all your stuff pink

It is Wednesday, my dudes.

https://memoriesand-pho-tos.tumblr.com/post/19531828349

8. Coffee was never just coffee

When you get so caffeinated you start seeing stars.

https://farrahpenn.tumblr.com/post/49265712434

7. You had very intricate nails

Which were chipped almost immediately.

https://hollywoodoverdose-blog-blog.tumblr.com/post/7181651921

6. Your Harry Potter house sort of defined you

Hey, it makes more sense than astrology.

https://continuousdystopia.tumblr.com/post/32286738140

5. You pulled off this look

Or tried your damndest.

https://letsbe-fashion-blog.tumblr.com/post/31366101987

4. You showed the world your Starbucks

It’s a compulsion. You just gotta.

https://if-she-could-breathe.tumblr.com/post/41389076461

3. You had at least one hand holding pic

Bonus points for the “follow me” pose.

https://rey-s.tumblr.com/post/19573043874

2. You photographed your stuff like you were Wes Anderson

Life is a beautiful diorama.

https://farrahpenn.tumblr.com/post/18869112937

1. You got into moustaches

Was it high art? Was it a big joke? There’s no way to know.

https://theglamorouschic-blog.tumblr.com/post/17317617756

Ah, memories. So very recent and yet worlds away. I wouldn’t mind the return of most of these trends, though I’m fairly happy we all stopped taking pictures of every cup of coffee we ever drank. What was up with that?

What will be your fondest 2010’s memory?

Tell us in the comments.

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These Brows Defy the Laws of Faces

We have some highbrow entertainment for you today. It’s also lowbrow.

And sidebrow. And…doublebrow? It’s eyebrows. The facial feature many of us don’t even think about, and some of us apparently spend a great deal of time trying to innovate. You think brows are for keeping debris out of our eyes? Think again. They’re for making statements. Big statements. Weird statements. Brow statements.

Here are twelve highbrow brows to browse.

12. Biblical proportions

Preach it, sister.

11. Stay frosty

Gym, tan, laundry, every day.

10. Along the line

I feel like he can see through my soul and I’m kind of OK with it.

9. From the block

What did your eyebrows do to deserve such censorship?

8. Shock and awe

Many in his cabinet struggle to convey human emotion.

7. Beat around the bush

That caterpillar is gonna be a beautiful butterfly someday.

6. Quick work

She look like she don’t give a damn and I support it.

5. Diabeetus

This is an owl and you can’t convince me otherwise.

4. Room to grow

At what point do eyebrows become a helmet?

3. Unfinished business

I feel like I’m about to be asked to solve a math problem.

2. Double trouble

This is how old 3D glasses worked.

1. Try angles

You look concerned. I feel concerned. This is concerning.

Truth be told, if you wanna do something wild with your eyebrows or any other part of you, go for it. Life is short. Be weird. Be you.

What’s your biggest fashion statement?

Tell us in the comments.

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