Things that Are NOT Personality Traits, so STOP IT Millennials

Some people say that Twitter is worthless, but I don’t think so…

As a Millennial, one invaluable service that I can rely on Twitter to deliver is giving me an endless and comprehensive list of what I should NOT consider to be a personality trait.

I gather these carefully, print them out on my dot-matrix, and compile them into a sort of vision board to help me focus. Or at least I did, until I was informed that having a vision board was not a personality trait, and subsequently burned it in ritualistic fire.

Here are some more things to avoid, lest ye be basic.

10. TikTok hate

It’s gonna be fascinating to see a whole generation of people mortified by their old TikToks once they hit their late 20’s.

9. Mix it up

At least we’re not still putting them on CD’s.

8. The most magical place

When we left childhood only to find that the adulthood promised us was desolate and dead.

7. Every single time

VCR stands for “Very Cool Rad.”

6. What’s cookin’

We were instilled at a young age with a fear of sexy vampires.

5. Mondays

TIL all millennials are living in a Garfield cartoon.

4. Toast to me

It’s true, we chose it over home ownership.

3. You oughta know

That’s not true, for some of us it’s Parks & Rec.

2. The buffet

Please ask permission before you quote me directly.

1. See the world

I get the sense this tweet is supposed to make me feel bad, but from what angle exactly I’m not sure.

So, there you have it. Things that are not personality traits. Do with that information what you will.

Are you a millennial? How do you feel about it?

Tell us in the comments.

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People Shared Crazy Stories About “The First Time”

Most folks remember the first time they had actual sex, but do we all remember the first time we had sex…solo?

It’s pretty much never an elegant or beautiful story. It’s weird. It’s awkward. It can be nice in the contexts of self-discover or coming of age, but in general, it’s just a big embarrassing…erm…mess.

So, let’s look back on it (fondly?) with these real anonymous stories from people about their first times.

15. In a barbie world

Welp.

Source: Whisper

14. Meeting him?

The whole world knows, they just don’t care.

Source: Whisper

13. A wonderful new invention!

Too bad you couldn’t make any money off of that.

Source: Whisper

12. Dire consequences

But that baby turned out to be the greatest blessing in disguise of my entire life.

Source: Whisper

11. A falling out

Well, did you?

Source: Whisper

10. Sharing is caring

I hope she was compassionate and understanding and put your mind at ease.

Source: Whisper

9. Do the shake

Oh, you’ll be chasing those kinds of demons for years to come.

Source: Whisper

8. It’s a hit!

Um…I don’t know what to say. 10 points to you?

Source: Whisper

7. Best of luck

If this were true then I’d be on a hot streak every minute of every day.

Source: Whisper

6. Broken it

Nah, it’s a lot more durable than that.

Source: Whisper

5. Soul or something

Now that’s a theology to a religion I’d rather not know anything more about.

Source: Whisper

4. It felt nice

Our bodies know these things before our brains do.

Source: Whisper

3. My number one time

Well I hope that didn’t put you off of it for too long.

Source: Whisper

2. Build a bear

I…I can’t make jokes about this. I am legally not allowed to make jokes about this.

Source: Whisper

1. Unfamiliar territory

How did you ever get past that assumption?

Source: Whisper

Do it right and you’ll be your own best friend.

What was your first time like?

Tell us in the comments if you dare.

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Could “Babe Are You Okay” Be the Defining Meme of Our Time?

Millennials are always checking in with each other.

Gotta keep advocating for mental health, even when we’re living in a time where there’s no normal and no baseline and the notion of sanity is kind of laughable.

Maybe that’s why “Babe are you okay?” has become one of the defining memes of our era.

Take it away, people of Twitter.

15. Curry favor

What and why and what.

14. Sing it

If you look closely enough, you can hear the nothing.

13. It’s a business opportunity

Are you not feeling quite so high up today?

12. Cows

I think if you forget to do that three times your car will actually stop working.

11. Stock up

What is happening to us?

10. Pile on

Yeah, what’s WRONG with you?

9. IT’S BEEN

Threw your arms in the air and said “you’re crazy!”

8. Gotta go fast

At what point were marketers convinced that consumers REALLY wanted to eat Sonic the Hedgehog?

7. Game on

I would do this in my sleep, it’s an unavoidable reflex.

6. Water o’clock

I feel seen and not in a way I’d like to be.

5. Call and response

Are you on auto pilot?

4. Buy buy buy

Did you finally just run out of money?

3. Let ’em know

Spread the word.

2. So touching

That hits hard.

1. Oh well

Isn’t that like the only word we know now?

Babe are you okay? You hardly scrolled through all those tweets.

But seriously, are you okay?

Tell us in the comments. Babe.

No, seriously, we want to know.

Please and thank you.

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Partners of Men Who Have Erectile Dysfunction Tell All

Sex is a pretty important part of relationships – especially if you’re younger. But even with two ready and willing participants, it’s not always so easy.

Our bodies can get in the way of our own fun and fulfillment, and there are few instances of that considered more taboo or embarrassing than erectile dysfunction.

What happens when one partner, for whatever reason, just physically can’t get going? Here are some perspectives about it submitted anonymously.

10. “Doing something wrong.”

It’s gotta be hard to not interpret it that way.

Source: Whisper

9. “Don’t want to hurt his feelings.”

It’s a tough thing to navigate.

Source: Whisper

8. “The man of my dreams…”

He’s gotta feel like you’re just trying to spare his feelings.

Source: Whisper

7. “His biggest fear.”

When people go unfulfilled, the temptation grows.

Source: Whisper

6. “I don’t want to reconcile.”

But what reason have you given him?

Source: Whisper

5. “Less of a woman.”

A powerful feeling.

Source: Whisper

4. “Even if he could…”

Well then there’s something deeper going on in this particular case.

Source: Whisper

3. “He never lets me forget it.”

That’s a lot of yikes over here.

Source: Whisper

2. “It’s so disappointing.”

Incredible how powerful a force sex can be in our lives.

Source: Whisper

1. “I saved my virginity.”

This right here? This is why I think saving for marriage is a bad idea.

Source: Whisper

It can’t be a fun situation for anybody involved. Stupid bodies, ruining everything for all of us.

Do you have experience with this sort of thing?

Tell us in the comments.

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Brides Who Realized Immediately That the Wedding Was a Mistake

A wedding is a day that so many of us are brought up to dream about and to look forward to.

But what happens when you realize you simply don’t like what you see?

What if you have a sense from the very beginning that you’ve made a big mistake?

It seems simple enough from a detached perspective to just say “Well then end it. Get a divorce.” But of course, it’s not always so simple. The ties that bind us to people, the commitments we’ve made, the costs we’ve sunk, the expectations of those around us, the haunting fears of failure, all of these compound into a force that can override our red-flag detection, at least for a time.

And so we’re left making confessions like these…

10. Not tears of joy

Could anyone on the outside tell the difference?

Source: Whisper

9. Talk me out of it

Real life is not the plot of a rom com.

Source: Whisper

8. Clinging on

Talk about a runaway bride.

Source: Whisper

7. Fear is powerful

What, with all these people watching? All this money? All this pressure?

Source: Whisper

6. Get kicked

There’s no excuse for abuse.

Source: Whisper

5. Money talks

While we stay silent.

Source: Whisper

4. Cry cry again

An all too common experience, it seems.

Source: Whisper

3. Better than expected

When you both know it’s bad, you know.

Source: Whisper

2. He changed

No more Mr. Nice Guy. Literally.

Source: Whisper

1. Clear vision

Blue’s not your color, huh?

Source: Whisper

Best of luck to anyone and everyone stuck in a relationship they realize is a mistake. There are brighter days ahead.

Do you have experiences with this?

Tell us about them in the comments.

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Frank Ocean’s Message to His Younger Self Really Inspires

Celebrities usually receive an outpouring of love and best wishes on social media when they celebrate a birthday.

Beloved worldwide for his fresh songwriting talents and alternative R&B tunes, Frank Ocean is no different in that respect.

On October 28, 2020, for his 33rd birthday, Blacks Rule Magazine celebrated the Grammy winner with a little Nostalgia of their own.

Referencing a 2011 Tumblr post where a fan asked Ocean, then 24, what he would say to his 19-year-old self who was just starting out, the tweet received thousands of comments and over 100,000 likes.

Instead of brushing the question aside with a flip reply, Ocean opened up to his fans.

Image credit: Tumblr

Speaking to his younger self, he revealed that he would change his name, that his heart would get broken more than once, but that despite it all, he would survive and do what he was meant to do.

His words really resonated with fans on Twitter. Many expressed that they were moved to tears by the letter.

Others repeated Ocean’s most profound bits of advice to his younger self.

One user pointed out how his words could be applied to all of life’s struggles:

His pragmatic approach to hanging in there really struck a chord with a lot of people:

Most of all people were moved by the fact that in five short years, he got where he wanted to be.

Inspiring fans with the words you shared 9 years ago? Not a bad way to spend a birthday.

His letter certainly made me teary-eyed. How about you?

Let us know in the comments?

Thanks, fam!

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People Talk About the Reasons They Leave Their Engagement Rings at Home

Most of us have been there. Your ring is too loose, too tight, too… something. Or maybe it just doesn’t match your other jewelry.

Here are some of the ten crazy reasons why women choose to leave the bling behind.

1. Sometimes you just forget

But honestly, watch out if you do! You might start to regret it.

Image credit: Whisper

2. All that shine can be a little blinding

But that’s okay, because who doesn’t love shiny?
Just pair your ring with sunglasses, and you’ll be fine.

Image credit: Whisper

3. All dolled up with nowhere to go

Jewelry is like pants. If you’re not going out, who needs ’em?

Image credit: Whisper

4. It’s only a symbol

Isn’t it more evolved to be above all that?
The ring won’t get you through the tough times.

Image credit: Whisper

5. But it’s a symbol of him

In other words, he better be worth it.
Otherwise, it might be a symbol that you should give it back.

Image credit: Whisper

6. Cheap, or just hypersensitive?

But seriously though, if the ring gives you a rash, did it come from a vending machine?
Don’t get mad. Buy better jewelry!

Image credit: Whisper

7. Enough is enough

And two rings is just one too many sometimes.
After all, no one likes a showoff.

Image credit: Whisper

8. It’s not that weird

We all take things off in our sleep. Right?

Image credit: Whisper

9. Maybe she learned the hard way

Comfort is key.
Take it off while you’re awake… so that you don’t take it off when you’re not.

Image credit: Whisper

10. Ladies gotta do what we gotta do

When it’s ugly, and you just can’t tell him… maybe it’s time to “lose” it?

Image credit: Whisper

These are all completely understandable reasons to leave the rock at home.

Personally, I haven’t worn mine since the start of the pandemic. Too much hand-washing for that business.

What about you? Do you still wear your engagement ring? Be sure to share why or why not in the comments.

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Garbage Collectors Discuss the Interesting Items People Toss in the Trash

There is not one (honest) job in the world that is not worthy of respect. That goes double for anyone who does a job that benefits absolutely everyone else in society, like the people who collect our garbage every week.

I also imagine that they see quite a bit of interesting stuff, and right now, we’re all in luck – because these 16 garbage collectors are going to share their best stories with us down below.

16. A good deed.

In the eighties I picked up a number of Philips colour tvs. I had a few, so fixing them was just a question of swapping parts.

I then sold them cheaply or gave them away to fellow students.

15. Ugh, I hate this twist.

When I was a kid my dad worked for a company that hauled away dumpsters and at one point found an old alto sax complete in the box.

Ended up playing it for four years up until high school when it was stolen, couldn’t play after that since my family couldn’t afford a rental let alone pay for a new one.

14. Not actually broken.

I found an amazing smart TV in the dumpster of my apartment complex a few years back. Took it inside, plugged it in, and, as expected, it wouldn’t even turn on.

So I opened it up, but couldn’t find anything wrong. No blown capacitors, no internal cables unplugged, nothing. So I put it back together and tried it one more time. And this time it worked. No idea what was actually wrong with it, but it worked great for years.

I also found a laptop bag with a 2003 Dell laptop inside in that same dumpster. It was like 12 years old and slow as hell, but it worked fine. Had the power cable and everything.

13. That’s definitely odd.

Friend of ours found two bullet resistant vests with paramedic written across them, being thrown out behind a fire station. I guess the expire or something.

12. It’s not all good stuff.

My dad was a trash man when I was growing up. He would always be bringing cool stuff home to us. He used to always say that the “poor” neighborhoods had the most trash and they threw away literally everything.

The two best ones that I can think of was a brand new BMX bike and like 20 Nintendo 64 games that he found at a video rental store.

Also once at the transfer station one of his co-workers found a “dummy arm” in the big pile of trash. He pulled it and it ended up being a dead guy, the police later determined that it was a homeless person that got picked up and died when the trash truck compacted him.

11. Now I don’t feel so badly for throwing those things out.

My dad used to do the cleaning for a mall and he would bring us some amazing stuff sometimes. I remember he once came back home with a backpack full of miniature toys (like the ones you find in Kinder Surprise), another time an entire toy kitchen, and some kids magazines (Les p’tites princesses, I loved it).

He also found a lot of stuff for our home but I was a kid so I remember the toys more than anything

10. Oh my laundry.

My dad was a garbage man for a while and told me about people being compacted. He said they shake dumpsters up and down and wait 30 seconds before dumping them and he’d had people climb out on two occasions. Crazy.

9. What a waste.

My dad worked at a landfill for most of my childhood and my brother and I both got into related companies that directly dealt with landfills for a while. One of the most common things I remember hearing about and seeing all the time were clothing with minor irregularities that had to be thrown away by said clothing company.

It was stuff like Roxy, Vans and other stuff you’d see at places like Tillys or similar clothing store. One of my old coworkers families basically were clothed their whole life from this type of clothing being dumped. The clothing was clean or could be cleaned to a decent level that the clothing was fine to wear.

It was dumb stuff like small rip, missing zipper or some other weird thing they couldn’t sell it that way. Everyone at the landfill was basically in on the scheme. When the truck with the clothing pulled up to the fee booth, someone would radio people at the dump site and it was like a pack of vultures, everyone on the site would swarm the truck as soon as everything was dumped out of the truck.

8. Some parts of the old days weren’t so bad.

When I was a kid I found a couch. It wasn’t very big, but thats why it was so great. 10 year old me was able to carry it all the way home by myself. (About a block and a half.) This was before kids having cell phones were huge so I didn’t call my parents about it first and they were at the store anyways. So I took the couch home and put it in my room.

It was pretty dated… Made of some material I’ve never encountered again so far, but I thought I was THE SHIT. I had a whole couch in my room. How many 10 year olds had couches in their room? Well my parents came home and clearly weren’t happy, but given I carried it up to the second story and got it into my room they let me keep it. (My down stairs neighbor helped me.)

I felt like a king. I had a couch. I had a big box TV for my play station. I had it all. Simpler times.

7. Who would throw that away?

Worked as a garbage man for a very short time last summer, but the best thing I found was an edition of my local newspaper from the day after the Challenger exploded.

6. More good than bad.

I worked as a garbage man in 1972. A small stray cat jumped into the back of the hopper to look for food. I took him home and named him saigon. This was the best thing.

Second best thing someone threw out an old pair of skis. There was snow on the ground and me and the other guy each took a ski and stood on it and held onto the truck, great fun.

Third best we found an entire case of “brylcream” (look it up) and me and the other guy had brylcream fights all day, total mess (I stripped off before going into my house after work).

Worst things a garbage can that had live coals in it that started our truck on fire.

5. It deserved a good home.

A Lane cedar chest. I was helping my dad clean out this lady’s garage and she said as long as we were there, we might as well take that, too. She said she always hated the smell of cedar but her husband wouldn’t let her get rid of it and now that he was dead, she was sending it on its way!

The veneer was never in great shape but it still keeps my wool items safe. I’ve had it for over 30 years now.

4. A treasure indeed.

in the early 2000’s my best friends dad was a garabge man. I used to hang out at their house a lot and i remember him finding uncut sheets of hologrpahic dragon ball z trading cards in the trash and bringing them back. They were super dope to see.

3. The perfect meet-cute.

I found my wife in a pile of garbage while working on a garbage truck.

I was working being trained as a garbage man and one day a women was throwing out way to much good stuff, boxes of books and I could see she was trying to fill a car and minivan, so I figured she was moving and having to sacrifice good stuff.

I talked to her and offered to come back later and help her move so she didn’t have to throw away so much stuff, and it ended up being a story that her husband left her for her best friend, and they moved in together, and she couldn’t afford the townhouse anymore as she was undergoing cancer treatment.

We got married one year later. I like to say I found her in the trash and fixed her up, but the truth is it is opposite. I was the trash she fixed up I.

2. Someone didn’t clean up their room.

My friend found a PS4 (excellent condition) and a brand new controller still in the box.

1. A hidden gem.

My little brother was emptying out a client’s basement and everything was going to be thrown away so my brother was told to keep anything he wanted. He saw a nice looking bike and took it.

Turns out it was a Dahon mu p8 30th anniversary limited edition and in perfect condition. From what I found on it, it goes for over $4K.

Human beings are really fascinating, don’t you think?

If you collect garbage, add your interesting finds down in the comments!

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People Share the Movies That Turned Out to Be Way Better Than They Expected

It’s a good thing that there are so many different kinds of movies in the world, because not only are there so many different kinds of people watching movies, but when we’re looking for something to watch, we’re not always after the same thing.

Sometimes we want to laugh, sometimes we want to be challenged, sometimes you just want to sit back and be entertained – and sure, sometimes we’re more concerned with quality than others.

Here are 18 times people clicked on a movie thinking it was going to be somewhere between bad and laughably awful, only to be surprised when the flick turned out to be great, instead.

18. If you want to get your heartrate up.

Crank 2: High Voltage

It’s not gonna win any Academy Awards, but that movie is a masterpiece of over the top action and you will not be bored the entire time.

Also features Dwight Yoakam and a score by Mike Patton.

17. You know, really funny.

Megamind.

I thought it was gonna be the normal cringe superhero movie but it was actually just super funny! actually funny, not cringe funny!

16. This movie is a masterpiece.

For some reason, I thought Knives Out was gonna be just another lame movie with famous ensemble cast but I liked it way more than I expected.

I thought this movie was targeted to old, boring people. Turns out to be a great movie that lots of people can enjoy.

15. An instant classic.

Clue. A movie about a board game? What? And it’s a comedy?

14. Epic is an excellent way to describe it.

Cabin In the Woods.

Expected a lame cookie-cutter slasher flick. Got something way more epic and fun.

I saw this movie without seeing any trailers for the film, I had no idea it was going to be satirical and genuinely thought that was the moment I lost touch with modern Hollywood antics.

13. And you’ll never get that song out of your head.

The Lego Movie.

I thought “Oh this is just one of those movies for a product. I mean Batman and Superman on the poster, this screams paid product. I just hope the marketing isn’t crazy”. My god was I wrong.

The Lego Movie is now in my top 20 animated movies and I did not expect that movie to be that amazing. It proved to me that all those paid product movies don’t have any excuses to be as bad as they are.

12. High praise for a parent.

Alexander and the Terrible, Horrible, No Good, Very Bad Day – my kids picked this for movie night recently on Disney+.

I was expecting your standard, non-reboot, modern Disney movie, kids think it’s hilarious and everyone else cringes the entire time.

In reality, it was f*cking hysterical from beginning to end and I’m looking forward to watching it again.

11. Southerners are people too.

Tucker and Dale Versus Evil.

As a southerner with a lot of Appalachian hillbilly friends/family, I love this movie for how it finally treats southerners as normal people, as opposed to the crazy, malformed, cannibalistic and/or r*pist hermits that are usually in horror films.

Cause, y’know, poor/uneducated folk are scary.

Also, it’s godd*mn hilarious.

10. It’s all substance, people.

Spiderman: Into the Spiderverse.

I was expecting a corny kids version of a marvel movie. Entertaining but no substance.

Well I was blown away, probably had the most fun in a movie that I can remember with that one. And I think that’s a movie meant to be watched on a big screen.

9. A good take is hard to find.

The Edge of Tomorrow.

I thought it was going to be a stupid explosion movie since I’d never heard of it, turned out to be the one of the cleverest takes on the Sci-fi action genre I’ve seen.

Great story, and really well acted.

Not surprised it’s become a cult hit.

8. This description isn’t wrong, exactly.

About Time.

Looks like your typical frou frou fancy pants British romantic dramedy that relies on posh English accents and charming actors to buy some cheap tears and give middle aged women semi lady boners.

But it’s actually a very nuanced, well-meaning movie that reaches out to any and everyone.

7. Adaptations are tricky.

Stardust.

I didn’t expect that a film of such a great book could ever live up to it. I fully expected to be very disappointed. And then there was Robert DeNiro as a pirate.

Honestly ended up like the movie more than the book. They’re very different variations on the same story, and I like that the movie stayed true while also doing some of its own thing.

Michelle Pfeiffer as a wicked witch is f*cking amazing.

DeNiro is incredible, and Claire Danes took a character that could have been very one note and managed to fully invest me into a character whose not from this world and is very Fish out of Water.

6. This is going on the list.

Hunt for the Wilderpeople

I was not expecting it at all. I liked the trailer but I wasn’t feeling it to be honest.

I still decided to go watch it and I came out feeling like I enjoyed it thoroughly.

I had a good laugh and I actually thought it was well balanced with the actual plot.

5. He is a national treasure.

Had zero interest in watching a cartoon movie called Kung Fu Panda.

Way, way better than expected. God bless Jack Black.

It has so many running gags, such as Po being blissfully unaware he’s adopted and every other character questioning why his Dad is a goose. Wonderful movies.

Po: I found out that my dad… isn’t really my dad.

Tigress: Your dad, the goose?

[Po nods]

Tigress: [deadpan] That must have been quite a shock.

4. Unexpected magic.

“School of Rock.”

I saw it on TV at least 5 years after it was first released. I remembered rolling my eyes at the previews and being all cynical about it.

Turned out it was a magical musical journey full of laughter and learning. ~~~*

3.  Except for the dog.

John Wick.

Keanu as a retired hitman getting revenge on the people who killed his dog? I mean, that sounds like the synopsis for a Ranier Wolfcastle movie.

Put it on during a hangover Sunday thinking it would be background noise while I napped.

There was no napping that day.

2. Second this one.

Pacific Rim

When I first saw the trailer, my friends and I just thought it was going to be along the lines of a Transformers movie (meaning well-below average in terms of quality) but it would be giant robots punching giant monsters.

And that was what the movie was, but the action is just done so well that it doesn’t matter that the premise of the movie is kind of stupid. You have a giant mech use a ship as a baseball bat to beat up a giant monster.

1. Two thumbs up.

Galaxy quest.

Seems like a cheap star trek knock off.

Oh my gosh no it isn’t.

I’ve shown it to people who aren’t into sci-fi and took a lot of persuading.

They love it, every time.

Well, I guess I’m adding a few more movies to my to-watch list!

Have you seen any of these? Were they good? What other movie would you put on a list like this? Tell us down in the comments!

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A New Dad Wondered Whether He Was Wrong Not to Let Anyone Else Hold His Newborn Before His Wife Could

Being a mom for the first time is one of the most emotional, wild rides a woman will ever take in her life. The hormones, the fears, the joy, and yes, the changes – it’s a ton to handle all at once, and if there’s one thing I think is true across the board, it’s that most of us are doing our best to manage it all.

This woman had a complicated pregnancy and delivery, and when she realized that she might not be able to hold her son immediately, asked that no one else (other than her husband, I assume) get to meet and hold him before she did.

My wife gave birth to our son November 2019. She had a very complicated pregnancy and ended up needing an emergency c-section which we were aware could happen. We had talked about it for a while and she admitted hating the thought she would be the last to hold our son.

So when he was born and she was still unconscious I did not allow anyone in our families to hold him, or even meet him really. They saw me but that was about it. She was unconscious for four days but thankfully recovered and was able to meet and hold our son. It was about a day after everyone else got to meet and hold him for the first time.

Our families were upset but nothing really kicked off except for my mom and sister who were kinda pushy about it.

The husband complied, which meant the baby went four days before meeting his mother, and then the rest of their family.

Now that family is spouting off online, calling them terrible for “robbing” them of the opportunity to meet their grandson/nephew for several days and that the parents were being selfish, putting the mother’s feelings before the baby’s well-being.

Then around January we had an incident. My wife put up some photos of her holding our son for the first time and talked about how traumatic the birth had been and wanted to raise awareness of how dangerous pregnancy and birth can be and basically just saying how grateful she was to have them both be okay.

My mom and sister then really started acting like kids. Saying it wasn’t fair and we robbed them of those first few days with their grandson/nephew. I told them plenty of people meet grandkids and nieces/nephews days or even weeks or months after birth and had this been Covid times it would not have happened for a lot longer.

But they said I was selfish and should not have done that just because my wife couldn’t meet or hold our baby.

It’s the last part that has him thinking, since we all know early touch and interaction is important for baby’s bonding, and so he asked the internet what they thought about his decision to honor his wife’s wishes.

I am only conflicted on this because someone else suggested I robbed my son of having more interaction early on and I should have thought of him over my wife’s feelings on the whole thing and while most of me is screaming hell no, I wanted to see what a bunch of internet strangers would think.

AITA?

Here’s what the internet strangers had to say.

This seems like such an easy response that the family are the ones looking like the a$sholes.

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The bottom line is that THEY are his parents and other people had better learn to accept that means what they say goes right from the start.

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No new mom needs to deal with extra drama.

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This dad did everything right.

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It’s high time we start treating these mothers like autonomous people with rights and not just bodies who delivered babies for the rest of the family.

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The more I thought about this one, the madder I got – and the prouder I got of these new parents sticking to their guns.

What are your thoughts? Drop them in the comments!

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