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I have four siblings and every time we all get together we like to tell the stories about the ways that our parents did small things wrong that we just can’t let go.
It’s a great tradition! And you know we can’t let our parents forget about that kind of stuff…
These people all shared similar stories about kids who just can’t let anything go…let’s take a look.
1. How could you?!?!
Never forget…
asked my 5-year-old what she wanted for dinner and she said “not a burned quesadilla” bc in the summer of 2019 I overcooked one side of her quesadilla
My mom burned my Pete’s Dragon lunchbox in the oven because she put it in there to dry it (wtf?!!) and it took her hunting one down and buying it for my 41st birthday for me to get over it. pic.twitter.com/0MCe4X2s6H
One time we had to take money from our son’s piggy bank to pay the babysitter in cash. Drove to ATM first thing next morning to reimburse him. Ten years later, he still talks about that one time we stole all of his money.
I changed the tank water that my small children’s beloved pet fish resided in, and it was too cold. The fish convulsed and died. They never let me forget what I did to Charlie. They are 46 and 50…
My mom forgot to replace my tooth with money from the tooth fairy. The next day she took me to her work at a senior center and when they asked about my missing tooth i wouldn’t shut up about being ripped off. Got loads of money from the seniors.
Brought my preschooler to the pediatrician. Doctor measures his height and says:”Three feet”. Son looks at him and says “Excuse me but I only have two feet”. He still asks me every time we see a pediatrician if it is the one who can’t count correctly.
At a crosswalk with the stroller, I stopped short once, thinking a car was going when it wasn’t.
Now, a year later, at every crosswalk my toddler says loudly to me (and to anyone else who can hear): “DONT GET SCARED!”
When the teacher was teaching the class about the five senses – sight, taste, hearing, smell and touch, she asked the class to describe how they knew their mother was cooking. My daughter responded, “When I hear the smoke alarm go off.”
When we were just old enough to start learning how to walk, my twin sister and I both started rolling off our parents’ bed at the same time. Could only catch one. I ended up with a broken arm and a cast. That gets brought up a lot at family gatherings.
my mom was cooking a roast over night once and the glass the roast was being held in broke and the oven caught on fire. In a panic she asked what the number to 911 was. 13 years later we haven’t let her live it down. When she cooks we always ask her if she knows the number to 911
Sometimes when my whole family is together, one of my siblings will bring up something that my mom did 20 years ago and we all have a good laugh…
And then my mom gets upset and yells, “why can’t you remember any of the nice things I ever did for you?!?!”
And then we all laugh some more, she gets more upset, and Christmas is ruined. It’s a great family tradition!
And apparently we’re not unique, because all kinds of kids out there don’t let their parents forget about little mistakes they made. Let’s check some of them out.
1. You did this!
This is a tough one…
I once boiled my kids bath toys to kill some germs and I forgot about them and they didn’t survive. The next day she told a group of moms at the playground: “my mommy burned all my toys”
When my twins were in kindergarten FIVE YEARS AGO, I switched their lunches. Once. Teachers enabled a hallway swap after a few tears and they still check their lunches every day.
They didn’t even have to eat the wrong lunch, but they unzip box and give me side eye every day.
— (Maureen Flaherty) (@maureenflaherty) March 4, 2021
3. Where was I?
A tough one to explain.
My kid is convinced after seeing our wedding pictures that we planned and had a big party and left them at home alone as a baby. They say, “Remember that big party you had where you left me by myself when I was a baby?”
When I was 20 my mom offered to buy me a new winter coat if I promised never to bring up anything she had ever messed up during my childhood ever again. I took the deal.
I was trying to force a stuck zip up on my 7 years old cardigan in the street. It wouldn’t budge and he kept moaning he was cold and so I pulled it even harder. My hand slipped off the zip and I chinned him. He shouted across the road to his dad “mum just punched my face”.
My mom accidentally stepped on the first fish I ever caught when I was 8. It was left on the dock and had an almost cartoonish footprint of a shoe indented across the middle of it.
I’m in my late 30s and still bring it up annually to her.
I have 3 grown daughters and when they were little I once threw a taco out of the car window because they wouldn’t stop fighting over who got the last one. Every time they get together that damn taco gets brought up.
My 10 year old son turned to me while eating my meatloaf and said “What do you think Gordon Ramsay would say about this? Probably that it’s bland and could use more spices.” Then insisted he didn’t think that, just that Gordon Ramsay would.
When my son was 4, I was carrying him across a street, & stooped down to pick up a plastic bag, and drop it into a garbage can. Half a block later he decided he wanted to be the one to throw it away, but it was too late. Six years later, AND YOU DIDN’T LET ME THROW AWAY THE BAG!!
— Don’t believe the hyperbole (@Mikevago) March 4, 2021
10. Pass the burnip.
It was 1998! Let it go!
My mom toiled away peeking and cutting turnip then boiled it around 1998. She got to talking and the water evaporated and it was scorched. To this day we call it burnip at every family dinner.
When my oldest was in K, he made a little fill-in-the-blank card for Mothers Day in school. Five Senses-themed. Smell was: I love the smell of ______. And he chose “. . . the cookies you used to make me.”
I’m 59 and can still get my mother to apologize by bringing up the time she kept trying to close the rear automatic window but my head was stuck in it and that’s why it wouldn’t close. (She was in the front seat, using the switch up there.)
My Mother once told me to NOT let My duvet touch The floor because of what happened last time
She meant when I tripped with it and got a scar on My eyebrow when I was four. The reminder came when I was around forty
Just embrace the weirdness and enjoy it! That’s what these folks are doing!
1. What did you do?!?!
I’d like to know the backstory.
#MyFamilyIsWeird that we are most likely the reason for the no shoes no shirt no service signs and the reason that complete weather records only go back to the mid 70s in Ripley county Missouri
My family likes to wrap gifts as obviously as possible. One year I got a the left shoe for my birthday and the right shoe the next day for Christmas. #MyFamilyIsWeirdpic.twitter.com/Di9X1BnAZT
#MyFamilyIsWeird 5 kids in my fam…we’d get drive-thru fast food…1st to yell “fries” when mom ordered laid claim to fries at the bottom of the bag…if 2 yelled simultaneously…other 3 kids voted…if no clear victor…those kids split the fries…was a risky time to live…
While grocery shopping, my son was aggravating me throughout the store. As we were checking out, I said “Brian! That’s enough!” With a straight face, he says, “Mom, it’s me, John, your son, Remember? You’re ok, it’s time for your medicine.” #MyFamilyIsWeird
If someone at dinner asks you to pass something, we always pass it the long way…at least 3 times around the table before you actually get what you wanted. We do it to guests too. #MyFamilyIsWeird
My mom and I were in Michael’s craft store, and I turned around after I heard a woman scream, “Well, I NEVER!” My mom literally farted on someone. She thought she was being sneaky by walking backwards into a corner, not realizing there was a woman standing there.
— Can It Get Any Worse (@CanItGetAnyWor3) March 8, 2021
9. Turkey roulette.
I’d like to play!
My family likes to sit around my dads yard and count the turkeys they see running across the field, once you get to #3 you must take a drink. They call it turkey roulette.#MyFamilyIsWeird
My dad once got locked IN a CVS w/o his phone. Was there around closing, no one saw him, they locked up & left. Our phone rings, I see “CVS” on caller ID. I pick up & hear my angry/embarrassed dad’s voice on the other end. We had to call the cops to get him out #MyFamilyIsWeird
#MyFamilyIsWeird My mom interrupted my first college class because I didn’t answer my phone. So she called the school and said she thought someone was kicking my ass.
I’m practically saving the equivalent in a minimum wage job from reduced wear and tear / gas / servicing / insurance.
And that’s just the quantitative dollars.”
2. Low balance.
“Ran out of money in your checking account?
Well now you have to pay a $50 fine for not having any money.”
3. Think about it.
“Not being able to pay for medical appointments, which lead to accumulating health issues overtime, which is extremely expensive.”
4. Lasts a while.
“Furniture.
More expensive furniture is often made better and lasts longer so you don’t have to keep buying new.
Same with clothes.”
5. Not an option.
“Being unable to take a day off work is not an option when living paycheck to paycheck.
I respect the f*ck out of the hustlers out there, but also keep in mind that free time and mental health are important to your overall well-being”
6. Risky business.
“Entrepreneurship and investing become dangerous territory.
Risk tolerance is too low when funds are low as well.
Becomes almost as risky as gambling at this point.”
7. Teeth problems.
“Dental care.
If you can afford to go to the dentist even once a year, get preventative care, fix cavities early, and it’s significantly less expensive than more complicated restorations and treatment.
I know way more poor people who just wait there’s a serious issue, and just have a tooth pulled, because that’s cheaper.
I know someone who lost a chunk of jaw bone from a bad tooth and needed a bone graft.
Not to mention, dentists in the US have worked hard to prevent dental care being included in health insurance.
You need separate dental insurance, even though oral health is very much connected with your overall health.”
8. No missed payments.
“It’s cheaper to be “not poor” because you never miss bill payments. Poor people are more likely to have late bills, so they get all the late fees associated with that
It is harder to buy groceries and household items in bulk, thus missing out on savings per unit.
Transportation. Being poor means you might not have a good reliable car (assuming you can even afford one), so your 30-year-old junker breaks down regularly and thus costs more money to upkeep compared to a middle class person’s vehicle. And then, if you can’t afford to fix your car, you no longer have a source of Transportation to get to work, then you get fired….and it’s a vicious downhill cycle
There are soooo many things that are small costs that add up and end up being more expensive if your are poor versus rich.”
9. All about who you know.
“Rich people often have connections and can get things or services for free or reduced rates.”
10. One on top of the other.
“$250 ticket for not having your inspection up to date because you cant afford the $80 for registration.”
11. Free stuff.
“I don’t know how to categorize this but when you have/make a lot of money you end up in situations where you just get stuff for free just for being there.
Colleague can’t make it to the game, so here’s two free court-side tickets.
One of your friends has a house in Tahoe you’re welcome to stay at. Your mentor is a successful entrepreneur and asks about funding your venture when you only wanted advice.
The list goes on. Privilege snow balls like crazy.”
12. It’s very real.
“When I worked for a non-profit making less than $40k/year, I worked 45/50hrs per week, and I paid the following:
paid roughly $60/month for my health plan at work, which was basic prescription coverage for $5/per, and limited dental. Nothing else was covered.
paid $20/month for my bank account, with 21% interest on my credit card, .01% interest rate on savings
had no sick days
had zero benefits as far as rrsp, stock, work from home allowance
spent $80/month on bus passes because I had to work from the office
I now work for a large software company, work 25-35hrs per week, make substantially more money and have the following expenses/perks:
$20/month for my health plan which offers full prescription, comprehensive dental and mental health coverage, massage/physio, etc.
pay $0/month for multiple bank accounts and have 18% interest, .05 interest rates on savings
$50/month subsidy for internet at home
free cellphone
stock purchase plan that offers matching stock purchases and discounts
sick days, flex days, and more than 2x the paid time off
$500/year budget for home office expenses
work from home, meaning saving on transit expenses
The high cost of being poor is very real.”
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With all of the available streaming services, network offerings, and major studio releases, there’s actually no way to keep up with the content that’s pouring out of Hollywood right now. We know we’re missing great things, but unless our friends or family start talking about them and push them our way, how will we know?
That’s where we come in – we’ve rounded up 14 great shows that have probably flown under your radar until now, so take a gander and maybe add a few to your to be watched list!
14. The Crown (Netflix)
This historical drama retells the reign of Queen Elizabeth II, and as the series progresses, we get to really sink into the mid-century era, meaning the vibe is extremely similar to a Queen’s Gambit feel.
You’ll get it all with this one – romance, political rivalries, and great performances – and it’s pretty much all real.
13. Emma (HBO Max)
If you loved the star of The Queen’s Gambit, Anna Taylor-Joy, you’ll be in luck with this newest remake of Jane Austen, because it stars Taylor-Joy in the titular role.
For those of you who haven’t read the book (or seen Clueless), the story follows Emma as she uses her matchmaking skills to benefit her friends and family, usually doing more harm than good.
Even if you’ve seen remakes before, this one is fresh and feels new enough to make you smile.
12. Alias Grace (Netflix)
Margaret Atwood wrote the book, and the miniseries follows her character Grace Marks, an Irish immigrant convicted of murder.
The story is told largely through flashbacks, but is done well enough to avoid feeling busy or confused.
Like most of Atwood’s work it can be a bit dark, but worth it.
11. Godless (Netflix)
Another miniseries, this one revolves around an 1880s town in New Mexico.
A mining accident killed most of the men in La Belle, leaving it governed and populated mostly by women.
When Roy Goode seeks refuge there from known outlaw Frank Griffin and chaos (and a little romance) soon ensues.
10. The English Game (Netflix)
This is a fictional drama that’s meant to look like a documentary, and chronicles the beginnings of the sport of soccer.
The writing is lighthearted and entertaining, an easy, snackable watch.
If you’re into soccer (or not), you’ll be able to digest it easily.
9. Queen of Katwe (Disney+)
With Lupita Nyong’o and David Oyelowo starring, it’s hard to believe this one hasn’t gotten more attention. The biographical drama is about a Ugandan girl whose life is changed by learning to play chess.
Through the game, she earns a new life for herself, and the story is as feel-good as they come.
8. Endgame (Amazon Prime)
Another chess-related offering that’s sure to scratch your Queen’s Gambit itch, this series follows a former chess champion who now uses those same analytical skills to solve crimes.
It’s a fantastic premise and the writing and performances really deliver on it, too.
7. The Devil All the Time (Netflix)
This one is heavy, I’ll admit, but with Tom Holland, Bill Skarsgård, Robert Pattinson, Sebastian Stan, and Henry Melling (Dudley Dursley) rounding out the cast, it’s a must watch.
The cast of characters are not good people whose lives begin to intertwine, and though dark, the characterizations are worth it.
6. Thoroughbreds (Amazon Prime)
Anna Taylor-Joy stars again, along with the late Anton Yelchin, in this dark comedy set in a wealthy Connecticut suburb.
The two female leads conspire to kill one of their stepfather’s, hiring a drug dealer to do the deed.
You’ll be on the edge of your seat the whole time, and we mean that in a good way.
5. A Beautiful Day in the Neighborhood (Starz)
If you can’t get enough of Fred Rogers, you’ll want to watch this movie, which follows investigative journalist Lloyd Vogel as he profiles the man himself.
Lloyd’s own skepticism is challenged, then finally overcome by Mr. Rogers’ gentle encouragement and it will bring you back to those calming childhood afternoons.
4. The Marvelous Ms. Maisel (Amazon Prime)
You might have heard people talking about this one from time to time, and for good reason.
This series, set in the mid-century, follows an “ordinary” housewife who learns she has a penchant for stand-up comedy.
The cast of characters is adorable and vast, and combined with a tight script and quick jokes, makes this one easy to binge.
3. Mrs. America (Hulu)
This miniseries is about strong women – Gloria Steinem, Shirley Chisholm, and Bella Abzug – on their way to achieving the great things they all deserve.
If you love stories about women who get where they’re going because they absolutely deserve to be there, you can’t miss this.
2. Years and Years (HBO Max)
Another miniseries, this one following a family over the course of 15 years following a fateful night in 2019.
The characters’ lives change due to political technological, and personal advances in the world, and explores the good and bad events that could very well shape our future.
1. The Great (Hulu)
This fictionalized retelling of Catherine the Great bends genres and has you feeling the full range of human emotions, sometimes all in one episode.
It stars Elle Fanning in the title role, and her performance depicting the charming, beautiful, and deceitful Catherine is as good as anyone could ask for – you might even find yourself rooting for Catherine to succeed.
Argh, so my own list just got a little longer, too.
What’s the undiscovered gem you’re always foisting on family and friends? Share it with us in the comments!
“I was hanging with friends at a bar, and accidentally sat down at the wrong table (really dark inside). Started talking to those guys, long story short, one of them was getting married on Saturday, and he invited me to come. The other one was his officiant/future BIL.
So I went. It was at the bride’s parent’s house, so I only knew my bar buddies. It was a lot of fun though, I was glad I went! A snobby chick at the reception was like, oh, do you crash weddings often? No, I replied, puzzled, I do go when I’m invited by the groom, though.
The marriage didn’t last terribly long, but I’m friends with the bride on the FB now.”
2. Don’t know until you try.
“I asked a girl that works at the pet store by my house if she had a boyfriend this week. She does, but I knew I’d never forgive myself if i didn’t ask.
I said “Oh, he’s a lucky guy,” and moved on. I’ve been too afraid to ask before and that sucks.”
3. You hungry?
“When I was a kid the cool, older neighbor kids (also young kids) told me to eat grass. I of course didn’t want to, so they told me they all did and I would be cool if I did. So I picked a big handful and ate it while everyone laughed at me.
Afterwards it came out that none of them had, in fact, ate any grass at all, and, as it turns out, none of us knew what would happen if one were to eat grass.
So I ran home where my old man was in the backyard spraying something with a garden hose or some s**t.
I said “hey dad what would happen if somebody ate a big handful of grass?”
He replied, absolutely deadpan “tell me you didn’t eat grass.”
I said “well no but somebody else did and I was just…”
He said, “Tell me you didn’t eat grass…”
Tears started welling up and I said “well I was running real fast and I fell and when I fell my mouth landed on a clump of grass and my mouth closed on it and I accidentally swallowed a whole bunch of it and… Am I gonna die?!?”
He said “Probably. But go in and drink as much water as you can stand and then I will take you to the hospital”
I ran inside and drank as much water as I could and rushed out to the van where the old man was waving me into the open door. We flew out of the neighborhood, screaming towards the hospital while I cried in the back seat.
Finally, we got to the liquor store down the street from the hospital where the old man said, “nah I’m just messing with you. You’ll be fine.”
And he went in and bought beer and we drove home.”
4. YOLO!
“Ziplines.
I have a fear of heights so I was very nervous about going on them in North Carolina with my friends. They were so supportive though talking about how, “Its ok, you dont have to go we understand” or “Of course you dont have to, I just think you would actually enjoy it”.
It was because they were so nice about it I really didnt want to disappoint them. I had an absolute blast on them by the way. So much fun after the first 5 seconds of terror on the first line haha.”
5. You were busy!
“For my 30th birthday I tried 30 new things.
The list included a pedicure and manicure, fancy Starbucks drink, driving a red Porsche, gambling at the casino.
It was a crazy fun day but I learned that I have a great life without all that stuff.”
6. Couldn’t say no.
“Paragliding in Interlakken, Switzerland.
I still have a fear of heights, but all my friends were doing it so I just had to join.”
7. A good decision.
“I joined my friends in auditioning for the musical in senior year of high school because i just happened to be friends with a lot of theatre kids.
Ended up with a supporting role including a duet and a decent amount of lines.
I still consider it one of the best decisions I ever made. It was a crazy amount of fun.”
8. Ouch.
“Ate ten ants to join my brothers club in first grade.
Said I could only join if I ate ten ants. So I did.
And then he disbanded the club.”
9. Had to do it.
“I went to Easter Island!
I was already in Chile for work when I learned that it was the only place that had flights there. I figured it was as close as I’d ever be, and I didn’t know if or when I’d ever revisit Chile, so I took the leap and did it.
Totally worth it.”
10. No way.
“One of those “mud races”.
Got a skin infection and sun poisoning.”
11. Not for everyone.
“Skateboarding.
I have some friends who know how to skate try to teach me, but I just wasn’t good at it.
Too bad because I think skateboarding is really fu**ing cool.”
Have you ever done anything ridiculous due to FOMO?
And if you have kids, you DEFINITELY know it ain’t happening.
Because they never forget anything…even if it happened 25 years ago.
Check these tweets out and you’ll get what I’m talking about.
1. This could get ugly.
Only downhill from here.
My 10yo has started rating my cooking and I was feeling good about my 4 star meals until he told me that every dish automatically gets 3 stars just because “mom cooked it”.
In their 80s my grandfather admonished my grandmother to not serve his dinner cold. As my grandmother and I went to the kitchen she turned to me and said, “his mother used to do that – I never have”
I once put the ice cream on the car to buckle my toddler son in and did not forget and did NOT drive off with it on top, but my son still mentions it all the time as a cautionary tale of dad’s cruelty and stupidity.
When my daughter lost a tooth before bed I had no coins in the house. I took a coin from her piggy bank thinking I’d just replace it the next day. That am she found the “new” coin, ran directly to her piggy bank, counted all her money and said she was missing the coin.
My father once cut a package open at the bottom, ruining an American Girl doll dress my sister had been waiting by the mailbox for for weeks. We brought this up regularly for at least 10 years
My father promised me a treehouse and never delivered and I have been using it as leverage for 20 years
— Kateniss Everqueen, Made Up Acronym (@kateasterisk) March 4, 2021
7. This is brutal!
Gonna be a handful.
Once, I brought the wrong kind of snack when picking up my youngest from kindergarten (or thereabouts), and she said
“What kind of a dad are you, anyway?”
— always our enemy is our foe at home (@DarkandWondrous) March 3, 2021
8. Can’t seem to let it go.
There will be a novel one day.
I put chocolate in Chili once when she was three or four and she wrote an essay about it in grade three
— NoMaiden #covidzero #HCWunite #loveyourER (@no_maiden) March 4, 2021
9. Should have never told him.
Too late now…
I once cut my son’s finger while clipping his nails when he was a baby. I cried harder than he did at the time. Made the mistake of telling him I did this when he was older, and he’s been reminding me since.
Three years ago I accidentally caught some skin when I clipped my son’s bike helmet on. To this day if I’m helping him he’ll say, “don’t clip my skin in like you did that one time” and if he’s doing it himself he asks me if I remember the time I clipped some of his skin in …
The way kids remember sh*t like this Once, I fell asleep in my car, waiting to pick my kids up from school, literally parked out front. My almost 9 y/o was 5 @ the time but as recently as last year (pre-covid) said “don’t fall asleep in the car & forget to pick me up”
If you live a pretty comfortable life, you probably don’t think too much about a lot of things that poor people do.
Like lugging your laundry to a place to get it done while you wait. Or having to repair the same car problems over and over again. Or always renting things instead of owning them.
Those things really add up and make being poor a real grind.
AskReddit users talked about why it’s cheaper to be rich than to be poor. Let’s have a look.
1. Cars.
“I worked in the business/accounting office of a car dealership for 2.5 years. I remember going through files and thinking “Man, I wish I could afford to write a personal check for $28,000.”
And that person who had $28k to spare is going to be paying less overall than the person who makes half that amount in a whole year, who gets forced into a 14%+ interest rate (yes, really. I’ve seen 24% at times) just so they can have a car to get themselves to work when theirs breaks down beyond reasonable repair.
We once had a guy (almost) max out four different credit cards paying for his car, and when our finance director tried to tell him “You’d qualify for a much lower interest rate on a loan with [manufacturer] than the interest rate on these cards,” the guy brushed him off and said “I’ll have all of these paid off in two weeks.”
So presumably he had the money to just hand us a check, but was getting a lot of cashback on these large purchases on his (very high limit) credit cards.
The difference between that and a 24% interest rate on an already used car is just so unfortunate.”
2. Laundry.
“I used to rent this apartment in Manhattan on Thompson St. by Washington Sq.
I’ve also lived in Chinatown, UES, Brooklyn, East New York, and Ridgewood, and always used coin-operated self-service laundry because “why would I pay more for someone to do my laundry?”
Well, The first day I moved to Thompson street I wanted to clean some sheets and clothes—good thing there’s a self-service laundromat across the street. I popped in and filled two medium size machines.
It was something crazy like 30 quarters for each machine and 4 minutes per quarter to dry. All in all it cost me about $45 and 2hours of my time to wash and dry everything. I told a few coworkers who live fairly close-by this story and they asked me why I do my own laundry because it’s more expensive.
The next week I canvassed the 2 block radius of my apartment and found a korean dry cleaners and laundry service. I started bringing my laundry to them, who export it out to BK or NJ, and they bill me $19 and tie a bow on top. I still can’t believe how much cheaper it was and that the self-service laundromats in “nice neighborhoods” are a scam
Poor me would never think a rich move like laundry service would save money over doing your own.”
3. Connections.
“Connections leading to more income.
Best job I ever had was at an engineering firm that got so many applications, if you weren’t referred by a staff member, your resume got tossed.
My dad was drinking buddies with the hiring persons husband so she referred me, hired me and was my supervisor for 2 years.”
4. A luxury.
“Travel.
I used to travel for work, expensing meals, hotels, flights, etc. on my personal card and then expensing them later.
I rack up so many airline, hotel, and credit card points that I can generally do at least one nearly free vacation a year or at least pay for two international flights.”
5. A big one.
“Healthcare.
Medicaid is cheap but isn’t taken everywhere. But my platinum plan costs me nothing (no copay, no deductible, no coinsurance).
Most jobs that have this benefit pay really well.”
6. Loans.
“Borrowing money.
Rich people with better credit ratings, when they DO need to borrow money, don’t pay as much for it.”
7. Interesting.
“Period products.
There’s been a debate in my country whether they should have them freely available in schools for everyone up until their 25th birthday (as we already do with contraception in pharmacies), since 40% out of all 14-25 year olds cannot afford them.
The amount of people saying that “they should just buy reusable pads if they can’t afford the single-use ones etc”…! They completely disregard the fact that one reusable product is more expensive than a pack of single-use pads, which 40% can’t afford already.
Not to mention the “they shouldn’t buy iPhones and make up then”-folks. Some people just don’t know what it’s like to be poor.”
8. True.
“Getting arrested costs way less if you have money.
Paying out of pocket for a lawyer may cost more up front, but if you can’t afford one (or even bail) you will be in a much harder spot. You could easily lose your job if you have to stay in jail until your trial. Court appointed attorneys are often incredibly overworked and will not work as hard to get you a better deal.
Then if you can’t afford the legal fees to seal your record that arrest could prevent you from getting a job that pays well enough to afford a lawyer.”
9. Knowledge gap.
“Growing up without a computer makes poor kids fall SO behind their richer peers.
My friend works as a teacher for inner city high schoolers and most never owned a laptop until the school gave them one for covid. They don’t know how to use the essential applications. At one point my friend literally explained to them how to Google anything they need. They were kind of dazzled.
In comparison, my boyfriend’s son is 9yo (middle class) and literally making spreadsheets and video games. He knows how to Google anything he wants and works a computer as well as an adult.
This gap in knowledge is going to greatly affect poor kids in the future as computer knowledge will be a must in almost any job.”
10. Right on the money.
“Everyone’s gonna say rent vs mortgage, but there’s more to it than just equity.
Another aspect is that there’s an opportunity cost to buying that’s not immediately obvious – and that cost is significantly reduced, if not outright inverted to a benefit, the better off you are.
And that is jobs.
Say you and your neighbor are competing for a job. The job is in another city with a comparable cost of living — it’s not going to be any more or less expensive to live there rather than here.
The job pays 20% more. A significant raise.
Except… you can’t really afford both a mortgage and rent. You need the proceeds from the sale of your current home to buy a new one. And that’s on top of the huge expense that is moving your stuff to another city.
It’s going to be a pretty significant hardship to actually accept the new job. Sure, once you’re there it’s a clear benefit but you can’t actually afford the transition.
Your neighbor, on the other hand, is a bit more well off than you, they have more savings, pay a smaller % of their income in housing. Even though the job is only a 10% raise for them, they can actually afford to move and take it.
They can afford to pay rent and the mortgage for a couple of months while waiting for the house to sell so that they can buy a new one while maintaining adequate reserves.
Your other neighbor on the other hand, makes even more money than either of you and has even bigger savings. Sure, the job is only a 5% raise, but they can afford to just outright buy a new house in the new city and retain the old one, hiring a rental management firm to get in some tenants.
Sure, between landlord expenses and the management company’s cut they don’t even pay for the mortgage from the tenants, but it’s close and they keep on building that equity for very little cost.
You other other neighbor makes more than all of you. He gets a management job at that company for a 10% raise, but the company pays for all of his moving expenses, including 4 months in an apartment while he secures a new house.
He has basically zero cash outlay to move except for the fast food and gas on the drive over to the new city. He doesn’t understand why some people turn down jobs that pay better because they can’t afford to accept.”
11. Can’t get sick.
“Being sick. At least in the USA.
The sick policy is usually more generous the more $ you make and if you’re an hourly employee with no sick days you work or you do not get paid.
If you have to seek treatment or, god forbid, go to the hospital then you better hope you have decent health insurance or it will cost you an arm and a leg.
Many Americans are one medical emergency from total financial ruin.”
What do you think are some prime examples of this phenomenon?