A Black Mom Is Pregnant for the Fifth Time and She’s Not Here for the Haters

There are families all over TV who are celebrated for having a ton of kids. There are teenagers on cable television having two and three children before they’re old enough to drink. Religions push people into not using birth control with the argument that humans are meant to populate the (overpopulated) earth.

But listen, when black or brown people hit the town with their broods that include more than two or three littles, the judgment is quick and harsh.

They couldn’t possibly afford all of those children. They couldn’t possibly be a nuclear family? They must be a drain on society!

No.

And Leslie Lewis, a black mother of four and curator of the popular Instagram account @TheLewis_Show, just couldn’t keep quiet when people began to make snotty comments on her pregnancy announcement for their latest addition.

Leslie is married to her husband, Joe, and together they have two sons, two daughters, a scruffy dog, and one on. the way. They are ridiculously cute, usually in adorable, matching outfits (even the dog!), and she has a strong following – but the haters were ready to pounce on her post about #5 joining the crew.

“So, I don’t usually publicly address the Negative Nancys and Pouty Pauls that find it necessary to judge my life choices. BUT a number of ppl have been commenting and even having the nerve to send me DMs regarding my pregnancy… ‘I thought y’all was done?’ ‘How can y’all afford 5?’

Listen here! I am a married ADULT! I have one baby daddy (This post isn’t by any means intended to shame OR  offend anyone whose situation is different). I don’t appreciate getting messages about birth control and questions like ‘How did this happen?’ SEX…Sex is how it happened.”

Her post has grabbed 65,000 likes and tons of comments in support of her decision to speak up, more than a few of whom mentioned the divide between how large white families and large families of color are treated.

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HAPPY MONDAY ??????????? I first off we want to send a huge Thank You! To all of you that responded to our Yahoo Article. We received so many positive responses and over 3k DM’s, I wish I could respond to all of you personally, but I just don’t have the capacity. Some of them were so touching and a lot of you mentioned, “It’s not about race”- and I’m realizing that some people truly believe that but, unfortunately, because of that pesky systemic racism and oppression in our society ITS ALWAYS ABOUT RACE. From the comments about the Duggar’s, John and Kate plus 8, and the Goslings etc… it had us thinking. Reality TV, these networks and production companies would feed off the drama of a single parent household, or Joe being married to 4 different women ( but he lightweight is with all these hair changes and mood swings ?) and had a bad past. Y’all want me to be fighting on TV so bad, but as a family we refuse to be portrayed in that light. Sell our soul to the devil for a contract. No ma’am or sir. We don’t want to be on TV that bad. We believe the right doors will open at the right time and you all will tune in to the love and light we will continue to portray! BRING BACK The images of BLACK FAMILIES ✊?? that was me yelling out loud my thoughts while typing this caption.. as I scrolled through our pics I realized, we are what ppl want to see but it’s too strong of an image to see on TV. We don’t have any real drama going on, damn it! Me:Joe let’s make some shit up to give the ppl what they want! Joe: F*** that! Me: My N!€€@ ✊? #TheLewisFamily #marriedwithchildren #Sf #Influencers #Real #BlackLove #TheCoordiNatedFamily #OldNavy #Blue #Yellow #HelloMonday #FashionFamily

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“Tell ’em sis! The Duggars captured 2.3M viewers. Now when brown and black families have large families, folks and their microaggressions assume we are exploiting the system,” said one person.

“This is definitely a ppl of color issue. No one questions white women when they have large families, hell it’s encouraged but ppl are always policing our brown bodies,” agreed another.

When Leslie spoke with Yahoo Lifestyle, she said that one woman’s comment in particular encouraged her to speak up.

“The last straw was when another woman felt the need to send me really hurtful messages assuming I must be on welfare and how I should be on birth control, etc.”

Leslie would like to use her platform and her influence to help normalize the idea that people of color, and working-class families across the board, are allowed to – and always have had – larger families.

“I have learned to use my platform to uplift families and women of color, and to use the criticism as fuel to meet and exceed my personal and family goals! Maybe one day we will get a reality show since there’s no families of color with multiple kids on TV that people can relate to.”

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“We see pictures, we say goals, Bish I’m who they trying to be! – ~Cardi!”(who else started head- boppin?! Lol ?) Real Talk .. Modeling your life after someone else’s will never work, especially when it comes to your relationship. I believe it’s a huge mistake to compare your partner to anyone else, that’s right ladies, not your brother, father, uncle, best friend…ANYONE. You have no idea what your favorite couples have gone through behind closed doors, what pain and dark moments they had to endure. Even the most beautiful “perfect” couples have made countless sacrifices and compromises to ensure the success of their marriages. We have been together for almost 2 decades, no one can imagine what Joe and I have been through that got us to this point in our relationship and it’s not over! It’s like your favorite songs, you play over and over but never realize the amount of studio time it took to polish it up. Love is so much more than a word, it is a multi-layered commitment to another person, I like to use Live Over Various Events,L.O.V.E…see what i did there? LOL. It’s a shitload of time, giving, FORgiving, learning, growing and patience. Joe can attest to my resilience, my support, my love, my cries, my laughs and my crazy psycho Cancer moments that he’s gotten used to…mostly. I have learned to get through his ignoring moments, being less affectionate than what I’m used to, leaving all the water on the bathroom sink and all the clothes on the side of the bed ? Send Help! This shit just didn’t happen over night, we are not a ‘one hit wonder’. We are the real thing, and after 18 years, we are still learning, evolving, and loving US. Every couple has to find their own groove and this is ours. #AnsweredPrayers #MyFamily #MeetTheLewis’ #HappyMonday #Message #BlackLove #CoordinatedFamily #BabyBumpin #Pink #Burgundy #Mauve Photo: @acktionemmages ?

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I don’t know about you, but I’d definitely be on board to watch these cuties (plus the little girl that’s coming soon!) run around being adorable and changing perceptions all over the world.

Do you think she was right to call out the haters? Why do you suppose people of color have to deal with more judgment surrounding a decision to have many kids? Let’s discuss in the comments!

Or, you know, we can also just talk about which of her family’s outfits are the best, but that road would be long and winding and never end, I fear!

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Interesting Facts About the Late, Great Paul Newman

Paul Newman is a legend in my book.

First of all, Slap Shot is one of the greatest sports movies of all time. And it easily the greatest hockey movie ever made. And that’s just the tip of the iceberg.

Here’s a brief rundown of just some of his iconic films: Cool Hand Luke, The Hustler, The Sting, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, Road to Perdition, and many, many more.

Here are 7 facts about the man, the myth, the legend!

1. The gridiron.

Newman originally wanted to be a professional football player. He played in high school and got a football scholarship to play at Kenyon College in Ohio.

He was kicked off of his college team for fighting and then became interested in the theater. He ended up going to the Yale School of Drama and then moved to New York to be a full-time actor.

2. Not a fan…

Newman thought his first film role was the worst movie he ever appeared in. His first starring role came in 1954’s The Silver Chalice and Newman thought the film was just terrible.

Good thing he moved on past that turkey…

3. That’s not me…

Early in his career, Newman was commonly mistaken for actor Marlon Brando from people on the street.

Instead of correcting them, Newman would sign autographs that read “Best Wishes, Marlon Brando.”

4. A real prankster.

The actor liked to play practical jokes and he enjoyed faking his own death. During the making of Exodus, Newman tossed a dummy off of a building and director Otto Preminger believed it was Newman. He repeated this prank during the making of The Mackintosh Man for director John Huston as well.

While making Slap Shot, Newman scared the hell out of director George Roy Hill by climbing behind the wheel of a wrecked car and acting like he had been involved in an accident.

5. Introduction to racing.

Newman was a well-known fan of car racing and his introduction to the sport came when he starred in the 1969 movie Winning. He started racing as an amateur in 1972 and he won his first race at the professional level in 1982.

He continued to drive all the way up until 2005. He said, “I’ll always talk about racing because the people are interesting and fun, the sport is a lot more exciting than anything else I do, and nobody cares that I’m an actor. I wish I could spend all my time at the racetrack.”

6. Nixon was not a fan.

As we all know now, President Richard Nixon was incredibly paranoid and liked to keep tabs on people he considered enemies. Paul Newman made Nixon’s list because he supported candidate Hubert Humphrey in the 1968 election and he was a highly vocal critic of the Vietnam War.

Newman found out that Nixon compiled a list of his personal enemies in 1971.

The actor later got a copy of the list and had it framed.

7. A stand-up guy. 

During the making of the 1998 film Twilight, Newman discovered that he and Gene Hackman were making a lot more money than their c0-star Susan Sarandon, who was receiving equal billing with the two actors.

Newman offered to give up part of his salary to make things equal for Sarandon.

What’s your favorite Paul Newman movie?

Please share with us in the comments!

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Would You Give Five Years of Your Own Life to Your Dog? People Answered that Question.

Dogs are the best! At least IMO. They bring happiness, love, and wet snout kisses that makes the ‘ruff’ days go away. Whether we’re embarking on a new journey or gaining a new leash on life, our pals are always there.

So what if you were asked, “Would you cut 5 years off your life and give them to your dog? If so, why?” Would you trade time with your doggo?

See what the community at AskReddit had to say!

11. The bravest doggo ever

My family and I were on vacation at a cabin in Maine. Got caught walking up from the lake by a bear after dark. Couldn’t tell it was a bear until it stood up and the motion light turned on. It was standing over 6 foot tall between us and the cabin. It fell forward onto it’s front feet, huffing. It made a noise like a dinosaur. Who shit my pants??

Without a sound, my lazy shit dog launched an attack from behind the bear.

I’m tearing up thinking about it. I ran the kids into the cabin, grabbed the rifle and spent the next five minutes running through dark woods, trying to follow the sounds of my growling dog and a furious bear. The growling stopped and I could hear the bear running off through the woods.

My dogs name is Daisy. She’s an English bull terrier. She was 15 years old at the time. It took two hours to find Daisy after the bear ran off. She had what looked like road rash along her sides, her hip was broken and her leg was crushed. She was curled next to a tree with her tail thumping the ground. Her white fur all shades of red and pink.

This dog is afraid of the Swiffer. I love her so much. I owe Daisy 3 lives, fuck 5 years.

10. This response is paw-some

Possibly but only if I could find out what age I was meant to die firts. It would be a cruel twist if I agreed to this, only to find out that I was meant to die less than five years from now and not get to spend any more time with my dog.

9. What is five years in dog-life?

No, it would be like adding 35 years to my dog. He is 14, blind and clearly suffering to old age. I couldn’t do that to him

8. Because maths…

I love my three dogs dearly, and I will do so for the rest of their lives. To give each of them 5 years would mean 15 years less of mine…. 15 years is another dog’s lifetime… in 15 years I can have more sweet pups and thus save more dogs’ lives as I only take from shelters or from the roadside. So being selfish and keeping the ones I love now for longer and letting future pups who need love as well die too soon or all alone… No. Let my darlings live their lives out happily, I will miss them all, but there is always another that need love again.

7. Yep, I feel this

I don’t even own a dog and this question hurts me…

6. The rainbow bridge it is

As much as most people would want 5 more years with their friend, I wouldn’t want them to suffer or feel the pains of old age. Dogs live the length of life they do because that is their nature. Prolonging their lifespan just for personal reasons is selfish.

Besides, while you might lose a part of yourself when you lose your friend, there is another doggo out there to help fill that hole in your heart, and especially so if you rescue them.

5. Dogs are human therapy

Yes, because my dog ( and my previous pets ) are the biggest reason I haven’t committed suicide, or got into drugs etc. They are my antidepressant. And yes, I have family, friends etc. but only dogs were always completely honest… I did own the cat once..that **nt would murder me in my sleep tough.

4. Putting the paw down

Your death affects more than just you. Five years with friends and family has a lot of room for happiness. Five years without a loved one can seem an eternity. I’m sorry, but no, I would never end my life early for any pet.

3. Ruh-Roh

Nope. Because dogs are cool but at the end of the day, they’re still dogs

2. *Tail stops wagging*

I absolutely love dogs, but if you answer yes to this question, you probably need some mental health check. Because you either dangerously obsessed with your pets, or you value your life way lass than you should. Either way it’s not the norm and shouldn’t be accepted.

1. This is the ulti-mutt!

Dude, I’d split our life forces evenly so we just die at the same time. My pets are my boyz.

Dogs are our fur-ever friends and personally I’d give mine five more years before the rainbow bridge.

What do you think? Would you trade time with your buddy?

Let us know in the comments!

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A Violinist Played During Her Own Brain Surgery

As Dagmar Turner’s surgeons operated on her brain in London, she did the thing that was most important to her: playing her violin.

A video made of the surgery shows Turner drawing her bow back and forth across the violin’s strings as the surgeons continued operating behind a plastic sheet to remove a brain tumor.

Her doctors purposely woke her in the middle of the operation and had her play so they knew they weren’t interfering with the parts of her brain that controlled the fine movements necessary to play.

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In a press release, King’s College neurosurgeon Keyoumars Ashkan said,

“We knew how important the violin is to Dagmar, so it was vital that we preserved function in the delicate areas of her brain that allowed her to play.”

Turner, 53, had lived with the slow growing tumor ever since doctors discovered it in 2o13. Recently, the growth became more aggressive and Turner decided to move forward with surgery to remove it.

She told ITV News that doctors explained since the tumor was on the right side of her brain, it would only affect function on the left side of her body. But when she explained she made her livelihood playing the violin, doctors came up with a plan to minimize risk to her hand’s functioning.

In their statement, the hospital said,

“Prior to Dagmar’s operation they spent two hours carefully mapping her brain to identify areas that were active when she played the violin and those responsible for controlling language and movement.”

Check out the video. It really is amazing!

Turner said in the hospital press release,

“The violin is my passion; I’ve been playing since I was 10 years old.

The thought of losing my ability to play was heart-breaking but, being a musician himself, Prof. Ashkan understood my concerns.”

Ashkan called the surgery a success saying that almost all of the tumor was removed without interruption to her playing.

Mapping a patient’s brain before surgery uses technology called functional MRI. This map gives doctors critical information about how a person’s brain works when comprehending certain concepts and performing certain tasks.

When doctors are making decisions by the millimeter, access to this knowledge ensures their patient will recover with the ability to follow their passions exactly as before.

Amazing medicine at work!

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A Stay-At-Home Mom’s Emotional Post Reminds Us That We Still Need a Village

The world is always changing. A lot a lot. Human beings used to live in villages, and when women had children, everyone helped – with the birth, caring for mom and baby and other kids postpartum, and yeah, if one mom needed a day to breathe, there were women who would take her brood for the day, no questions asked.

One day, she would do it for them.

Now? We’re isolated. I didn’t realize how much that was true until I became a mom that stays home with her children, either, but the truth is, parenting young children can be extremely lonely.

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This is what being a new mom looks like without filters, without Facetune, without presets… . I wake up every hour and half to nurse my newborn… . My older children are desperate for my attention…. . I’m having a hell of a hot flash while I type this. . I’m in the thick of a battle with postpartum depression… . I’m praying my 2 year old naps for just 20 minutes longer so I can finish an episode of @goodgirlsfeed . I desperately want a glass of wine, but it’s 2:59pm snd I still have a million hours before the kids go to bed. . I’m exhausted. . But I would live this reality on repeat because I live for the sounds of my babies voices filling our home with their laughter, their cries, their arguments, their babble… . Sometimes I don’t know how I put one foot in front of the other because honesty, I’m having a hard time adjusting to life with 3 kids, but I’m so thankful that God has chosen me to walk this path as the mama of these blessed girls ❤ . If any of this resonated with you, I see you mama. I feel you. I will pray for you. And I BELIEVE IN YOU. Motherhood, real motherhood, isn’t filtered. It’s raw and messy and hard and so beautiful. Let yourself feel it all ❤

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If you’re lucky (I am), you have parents and other family nearby and a partner that’s supportive. Friends who are in the same stage of life as you and who live near enough to help out.

Even so, it’s hard. No one warns you about how hard it will be, and worse, everyone assumes that “staying home with your kids” is the best possible life, leaving the women who do it and struggle feeling like they’re not allowed to speak up when they’re miserable.

Which is kind of exactly what mom Bridgette Anne was feeling when she posted a raw, heartbreaking post about how not-okay she is after taking on the role for the first time.

☝ everyone thinks being a stay at home mom full time is easy.— that we are lucky to be able to not have to work.—…

Posted by Bridgette Anne on Thursday, January 30, 2020

You can’t do anything by yourself; go to the bathroom, enjoy a cup of coffee, read, hell you can’t even scrub the shit out of pants for the 3rd time in a day without someone crying or screaming at your leg.

You don’t get breaks unless they are sleeping; which even then you use that time to clean up

You struggle to come up with ways to entertain someone for literally 12 hours a day every day.

You wear the same clothes that smell like sweat and tears for days at a time because it’s already stained and no use in ruining more clothes.

You forget what it means or feels like to be an individual; because your entire existence now revolves around that child.

You look at working moms and get jealous because you wish you could have an excuse to have an adult conversation without being interrupted.

You lock yourself in the bathroom and scream into a towel while crying because you need a second to breathe; all while a child is banging on the door to get in…

I was one of those people who judged SAHM’s. But I get it now. The people who said they’d be there to help have all but disappeared, and you’re left with this overwhelming sense of failure.

My house isn’t clean, I’m not clean, the dishes aren’t done, I have screamed already today, I have cried, and I have felt so damn guilty that my child was here to witness it.

But I am alone….and I am lonely

People were quick to rally around Bridgette online, offering words of support and encouragement, but I wish there were more and easier ways for SAHMs to connect in real life. To be there for each other, to take each other’s kids for an afternoon, to meet at the part so you can have some coffee and conversation that doesn’t include constant requests for water and peeled fruit.

Being a SAHM is wonderful, but it’s also very, very hard. And until we can come to terms with the fact that both of those things can be true at the same time, moms everywhere are still going to struggle.

That’s not good for anyone, y’all, so please. Be kind, reach out, listen, be supportive. We can still be a village, but we have to try a lot harder to make it work.

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People Talk About Their Choice Between Getting $100,000 Today or $1 Million in Ten Years

What would you do if you won the lottery? Would you take the cash lump sum to relieve financial debt or take annuities over ten years?

Some people may be yelling,”YOLO!” while running for the bank. Others might say, “Invest!” I’m on the side of tossing my Benjamin’s in the air and having fun! But whatever your choice, make it good one!

AskReddit proposed the same question,

“If you could pick between $100,000 tomorrow or $1,000,000 in ten years, what would you pick and why?”

The answers are surprisingly practical!

19. Good choice

100k tomorrow. I was just laid off today.

18. Banking on survival

I’m not getting that kind of return on 100k.

I can survive the ten years without a windfall. I mean, it’s not like I’m expecting one now and know I’ll survive.

17. I’d say keep paying that pension!

$1m in ten years.

Can just stop paying my pension for some extra bonus cash now until the big pay day comes.

16. Situational decisions are warranted

100,000 tomorrow.

Because I’m 55 years old and not in the greatest of health.

15. Make the king daddy of money proud

A lot of people who know how to “wisely invest” $100,000 and grow it to over $1,000,000 in 10 years.

Warren Buffet would be proud.

14. Time is currency

$1,000,000 in ten years, 100%.

I’m only 18, I probably won’t have even entered my final career at that point.

13. Life begins at 26, BTW

1 mil please.

I’d only be 26, that’s when I’d be just really starting my life.

12. The ultimate nest egg

$1mm in 10 years.

I don’t believe I can spin that $100,000 into over $1mm within that 10 years, certainly not when you factor taxes and other fees.

Also, as much as I’d LOVE that money, I don’t NEED it right now. It would be life changing right now, for sure, but that $1mm safety net in 10 years would be even more life changing. So I’d just stick it out, enjoy my life as usual, do my thing.

Sleep a little easier knowing I get one hell of a birthday present coming in 2030.

11. Don’t discount your life

$100,000 tomorrow.

I could get myself a place, stick half of it in savings and start to actually live my life.

It’s not the option that gives me the most wealth, but life isn’t about wealth it’s about living, and I’m fed up of my current situation.

10. Snag your captain’s hat and Cisco shorts!

The $100,000 because with all my r/wallstreetbets experience Id rake in the tendies and be on a yacht in no time.

Literally can’t go tits up.

9. Live for today, bro

I don’t know if i’m gonna be here in 10 years, or if i’m gonna need that much money.

What I know, is that tomorrow I’ll be here and I’m gonna be broke af.

So yeah, the first option.

8. “Wealth is the ability to fully experience life”

All these replies acting like you should hold onto debt for 10 years just so you can get a bigger payout underestimate the freedom that you feel knowing all your money belongs to you.

Without that psychological baggage you can really live your life to the fullest.

Plus you can start working to build your credit score again if necessary.

7. YOLO!

100k tomorrow, no question.

I could quit my job that crushes my soul, I could move to a city that would be a better fit for me. I could go on a trip and relax for a few weeks.

Look, I don’t expect this to fix all my problems, but I could restart my life a bit and not compromise in as many areas.

6. He’s about making a huge deposit into a career

$100k tomorrow means I could invest in a good career and drastically increase my earning potential.

5. Is it better to be wise or foolish?

Getting 1mil later is wiser.

And I’d choose it, but just barely – 100k now would have so many immediate benefits for the quality of my life and my family.

If I was 21 and not 31, then I’d tell the 100k to f**k off and come back in 10 years’ time.

4. Never be a bore

The million in 10 years 100k could change my life, but I would be boring and invest it.

1 million could make a big immediate impact when it comes. I am okay with delayed gratification, and the 100k will not net me a million after a mere 10 years

3. Beyond the Benjamin’s

Why does every redditor think they’re gonna f**king die within 10 years???

2. Jump start a business

$100,000 tomorrow.

We’re running and growing a small business (a real one, not MLM stuff), and I think that investing that much in our growth today would make it worth more than $1M ten years from now.

1. Drawing a demographic line in the sand

I think this question divides people pretty clearly along the rich/poor line.

Sure, 1m in ten years would be great but 100k tomorrow looks a lot better when you are struggling to afford rent, food and petrol.

Overall, its safe to say people consider windfalls differently. But what if tomorrow never comes? That mula would be wasted!

What about you? What would you do?

Let us know in the comments!

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Frank’s RedHot Released a New Sauce and You Might Want to Drink It

There are certain flavors that absolutely go together. Chocolate and peanut butter. Beer and pizza. And now… ranch and buffalo sauce.

YUM!

Yes, Franks RedHot dropped a new buffalo sauce mixed with ranch, and we are ALL in. Now your buffalo wings will not only have a kick, but the coolness of America’s favorite dressing. Can you say mouth-gasm?

Franks RedHot is no stranger to the hot sauce game. It’s celebrating 100 years in the industry! And they keep perfecting their science of our love for sauces.

@dadbodsnacks was first to break the news!

And the comments agreed!

Because how can you not be down with this?

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It’s wingssss time!!!!

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It’s an idea that YOU wish you had thought of!

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Their website describes this finger-licking sauce as,

“Versatile Frank’s RedHot Buffalo ‘N Ranch Thick Sauce might be all the sauce you will ever need – it’s great for dipping, topping and cooking.

This awesome sauce is the ultimate blend of flavor and heat from Frank’s RedHot Sauce and the creaminess from ranch dressing.”

Think of all the possibilities! Buffalo chicken dip, wings, cauliflower bites (for the vegetarians!) and more.

Frank’s even gets down with sharing recipes on their site for anyone wanting to make a rancho feast.

Happy eating!

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These 3 Small Habits That Can Help You Do Great Things

Suppose you’re working on a huge goal. You want to get straight As, get a raise, or start a new organization.

Or maybe it’s as simple as running a big race.

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These things will require planning, discipline, and willpower.

You will want to give up at times, but then you remember your family, friends, and community will be proud once you finally get it done. This gives you the strength you need to continue working toward your new goal.

But how exactly does this happen? Here are 3 simple ways to help.

3. Make Your Success Their Success

When you stop thinking about your own success and figure out how it fits into the bigger picture, then it’s easier to keep pushing through your biggest obstacles.

It’s easier to understand this analogy if you play sports. Team sports instill a sense of community and belonging. Understanding your role and function can help your team work cohesively to obtain victory and success, but only if you all check your ego at the door.

2. Transcend Your Limitations

It’s hard to succeed in the face of obstacles, but it can be done.

Take janitors. People tend to overlook them and take their work for granted.

One study showed that janitors who work at a hospital or clinical setting are more invested in doing a good job if their work is seen as part of a greater purpose—caring for people who are ill.

1. Tie Your Tasks To Service

Even people who have seemingly boring jobs can find more workplace satisfaction if they tie their daily tasks with service.

Retail work and customer service are stressful, but if you have this type of job you can focus on how providing a timely refund or exchange decreases a customer’s unhappiness, or helps them find the right item and feel better.

Whatever your goals, decreasing your ego, seeing your work as part of something larger than yourself, and pushing yourself no matter what can really help you be on your way.

Do you think these tips can truly help regular people reach their goals? Why or why not?

Comment below with your perspective!

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A Video Shows a Coyote Waiting for a Badger so They Can Cross the Highway Together

Cameras for Pathways for Wildlife and Peninsula Open Space Trust (POST) caught hilarious footage of two wild animal buds hanging out one night. An energetic coyote seemed to be waiting for his slow moving badger friend to catch up so they could enter a culvert together to cross under a highway.

In fact, the coyote seemed to encouraging his pal to hurry the hell up!

This may not be all that unusual. Videographer Russ McSpadden said that coyotes and badgers will often hunt together at night. McSpadden’s tweet of the video went viral and even celebrity chef Alton Brown paused his recipe development to reply.

McSpadden’s video on Twitter was liked more than 778,000 times, while a video posted on Facebook by Center for Large Landscape Conservation was viewed more than 737,000 times.

In the video, the coyote jumps up and down wagging his tail at the entrance of the culvert. Seconds later, a badger waddles up and both of them enter the culvert together. The video ends as we see their little behinds disappear into the darkness.

Coyote and Badger — crossing the road together

Coyote and Badger — crossing the road togetherRoad culvert as wildlife crossing structureData collected by Pathways for Wildlife and Peninsula Open Space Trust (POST) for the Southern Santa Cruz Mountains Wildlife Connectivity Study.

Posted by Center for Large Landscape Conservation on Friday, January 31, 2020

 

Seems like people are very interested in what goes on at night between animal friends.

We’re betting an evening out with an excited coyote and a laidback badger could get pretty comical.

But that’s what we think… what do you think? Let us know in the comments!

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Employees Explain When Something Crazy Happened at Work but They Were Still Expected to Show Up

Some employers can be down right insensitive. Some managers only see the dollar signs even when staff is dealing with personal issues. It’s a shame really. There are many statistics that talk about how a safe and empathetic work environment helps productivity. If only the these companies can get out of archaic times, they’d realize their old ways are damaging to the bottom line.

AskReddit was all a blaze when asked,

“What is the most bonkers thing that happened to you or your work and your employer STILL expected you to continue your work day?”

Some stories will have your jaw dropping while others are relatable AF.

12. Still open during a hurricane

“Right after Hurricane Sandy, the bank I worked for had no power for days, so obviously we couldn’t do any banking.

Rather than just close, my manager insisted that the entire staff show up for shifts as usual, just so we could sit in our normal seats in our uniforms and winter jackets to tell any customers who wandered in that we didn’t have power and couldn’t help them with anything at all.

Just about every single person asked us some variation of “then what the hell are you doing here?”

It sucked.”

11. Beware of shady companies and seedy hotels

“Worked for a small graphic design company fresh out of school. They used cracked software, didn’t really pay anyone and were generally shady but I didn’t really think anything of it, until the FBI showed up.

Apparently they also didn’t pay their taxes and so my boss was taken away in handcuffs and the office was closed.

Or so I thought.

Our boss called our creative director from jail and told us to work from this seedy motel room he set up to finish up the assignment or else we wouldn’t get paid.

Nobody showed apparently as we all decided now would be a good time to look for new opportunities.”

10. If you can’t take the heat…take off your tie.

“The air-conditioning broke down and people started passing out from the heat.

But they let us take our ties off, so that was generous.”

9. What a pissy day

“Someone spilled (or poured out) a bottle of deer attractant on the floor under the shelves in the sporting goods section of WalMart.

Stank of deer piss for…well, actually, it probably still does.

They never cleaned it, and we had ammo to sell.”

8. This employer is “bark”-core

“I was working at a pet store and was used to being bitten by the pets we sold, hamsters, ferrets, birds – no big deal.

This day, however, as I was helping a woman who had brought her dog in, it attacked me. Luckily it was a small-ish/medium sized dog so it didn’t get my face, but I had big bleeding holes all up and down one arm. The lady never said sorry, and my manager told me to go to the back, get cleaned up, and come back out and ring on the resister.

So I did, with big blood splatters all over my yellow uniform shirt.”

7. Definitely a toxic environment

“Automotive painting.

Been complaining about my mask parts needing replacing for a few weeks. Finally my mask broke and I refused to paint because toxic fumes where coming into my mask. Being the only automotive painter…. work came to a halt. I was told to get in there and paint or else. I pointed at the security camera and asked him to say that again but a little louder.

He fired 2 people that day but I wasn’t one of them.”

6. Safety not first

“At a factory, sliced my finger open using a cutting blade that had been partially broken, resulting in the spare blade hidden inside it coming partially out of an opening. I grabbed the blade and started using the proper portion of it, but I had unknowingly placed my right index finger right over the exposed spare. I started slicing with the blade and cut a line down my finger from about the middle to the tip.

Immediately started dripping blood all over, called my boss over radio, they ushered me into the nurse’s office. They didn’t want me to go to a hospital or any form of urgent care because that would have been an “incident” and reset the “days since last incident” tracker that people got bonuses for. I was young and let them pressure me into accepting that. So they wrapped it up tight until my finger looked like it had a cast on it, and sent me back to work.

It wasn’t that deep, although it looked nasty. It probably could have used stitches. It healed ok, but I still have a noticeable scar.”

5. “Would you like dust with that?”

“Worked as a busboy for a now closed restaurant.

I came in for my shift one time when they had roofers working on the roof. The section of roof they worked on was all terra-cotta roof tile and they needed to remove it all to replace it. The upper management decided it was a “great” idea to have this work done during the lunch hours and were open for those hours. Little did they all know is there were cracks on the ceiling inside and while the removal was happening the terra-cotta tile dust was raining inside all over the guests and their food. Management still tried to continue restaurant service as usual but the guests were having none of it and just walked out. I come to an empty restaurant littered with tile dust and we were expected to clean it up before dinner started.

It took at least a month for my lungs to clean out that shit because I was not provided any respiratory gear to clean up that mess.”

4. Rain or shine…

“Snowstorm dumped like 6 inches of snow the day before and then rained creating a sheet of ice on the roads. People were literally abandoning their vehicles on the sides of the highway because the driving conditions got so treacherous it was safer to walk.

I had just recently gotten an All Wheel Drive SUV, and was expected to come in that next day, while my coworker who had a two wheel drive sedan was allowed to stay at home until the ice melted. I tried explaining that AWD does not automatically mean safe to operate on icy roads (I didn’t even have chains yet at the time), but that went over like a lead balloon.”

3. Accident or not, there’s no excuse to call off

“I had been in an accident where I was hit by a van when on my bike. I was on my way to the hospital and shot a quick text to my immediate boss to let him know that I might not be in the next day, as I didn’t know what the damage was and how long I may be. He told me to take the day off to be sure I recovered properly.

The next day, his boss called me and asked me where the hell I was.

I told him I’d been hit by a van and he said, “And?”

I didn’t work there much longer after that.”

2. Rules are rules!

“College professor, not a boss:

In college, we had our final semester presentations that counted for 60% of our grade. I was on blood thinners at the time and the night before my presentation, I had an accident in the home and split my head open. 12 hours later, it was still bleeding.

First thing I did in the morning was email my professor with an explanation and a time-stamped photo of blood running down my face. I asked if I could present the following day instead and said that was not possible without a Doctor’s note. I had to go to the doctor, pay a $32 co-pay just so the teacher could write on a note “Philip’s head will not stop bleeding because of medication he is on. I can’t believe I had to write you this note”.

1. S**t happens

“Just a few weeks ago, a toilet on the floor above our 3 offices (branch of a law firm) got stopped up, then unclogged and flooded our offices with shit.

It affected the 2 lawyers, not me (legal assistant). Their desks and papers were soaked, carpets soaked, files soaked. HQ brought us some fans to dry the carpet. The office smelled like a huge BM. We still had clients coming in. No one was ever sent out to clean or remediate anything hazardous (mold, SHIT).

Our office is cleaned every 2 weeks and the cleaners didn’t come last Friday, which would have been 2 weeks since the leak.”

In the end, no your worth and find a company that takes pride in their employees!

In the meantime, tell us your “bonker” stories! Do that in the comments, fam!

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