12+ People Reveal A Secret Nobody Else Knows About Them

We’ve all got our secrets…some juicier than others. And some that no one else knows but ourselves. And since the internet is anonymous, telling here doesn’t count. And some of these folks have some doozies!

#15. A proper date.

“I’m 30 and have been single all my life. Never had a proper date or anything.

I tell people I did have girlfriends in the past, to not seem like a total loser.”

#14. Why I’m single.

“I want a monogamous healthy relationship. A lot of people, including my friends, think I’m single because I want to be a bachelor. They see how I live my life by doing things on my own and not being tied down. The thing is I believe in love, and I want to find the right person, but I feel like I have to take down some barriers first before even thinking of dating.”

#13. For almost a year now.

“I’ve been visiting a professional Dominatrix for almost a year now.”

#12. Secretly.

“That I’m secretly bisexual.”

#11. I can’t tell him.

“I have a crush on a close friend.

I can’t tell him because I don’t want to make our friendship weird or awkward.

If my family found out, I would never stop getting crap for it or harassed because my family is racist and homophobic

Edit: someone asked in a pm, so I guess I’ll put it here. I’m white and he’s asian.”

#10. It’s been two years.

“TL;DR – Tried to suck my own dick and succeeded but it fucked up my back and had to miss 5 months of high school because of pain. Failed college entrance exams because I didn’t go to classes and knew nothing about the subjects. I am now repeating an entire year now so maybe at least I can get into a good college next year. It’s been 2 years and I still can’t sit for more than 30min without cramps in my mid back.”

#9. Not a relative.

“That I am actually very lonely. I wish i had someone who isnt a family relative that really cares and loves me.”

#8. Someone at work.

“I’ve been dating someone at work for about a month now.”

#7. Ridiculously good.

“I am ridiculously good at throwing knives. I threw for fun pretty much daily for about 10 years growing up, without even realising I was actually honing a skill to perfection. Stopped as I moved out of my parents house and went to college. 20 years later, I can still pick up any knife, immediately estimate the weight/balance and nail a tree 5 meters away.”

#6. My parents let it happen.

“I was physically abused by my brother growing up and my parents let it happen, besides that I was verbally abused. I’m now in therapy for depression and anxiety and now realizing thanks to my therapist that I’ve been traumatized from being abused as a kid.”

#5. The looks I get.

“I get so much shit for working in retail with a bachelor’s degree. It’s not my dream job, but neither is my degree. I stuck it out in college because that seemed like the right thing to do. I don’t know what I want to do with my life, but I figure if I have a stable job, that’s better than a spotty track record. I’ve stopped telling people I have a degree because the looks I get turn my stomach.

Woof- had to get that off my chest.”

#4. My plan.

“That I am studying Japanese. My plan is becoming fluent, then bang my head on some cupboard or something, and pretend I can no longer speak any language other than Japanese, and acting very confused about it.”

#3. Sad inside.

“I spend my time making everyone happy cause I’m sad inside.

Edit: to all those that know or feel how I feel I hope you find your happiness.”

#2. My friends all work and wonder.

“I make a lot of cash betting and playing games online. Like, more than enough to not need a job while studying.

Meanwhile my friends all work and wonder why my lazy ass doesn’t get a fucking job.”

#1. Everything happens so fast.

“That im terrified of growing up, i just turned 20 a couple weeks ago and I still have no idea what i want to do with my life. Everything happens so fast.”

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Women Are More Resilient Than Men, According to Science

Women are pretty darn strong. Need I remind you that many spend months of their lives enduring pregnancy and hours of labor all to push something the size of a watermelon out of their vaginas? Think men can do that?

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Although the recent research defines men as people with an XY chromosome makeup and women as ones with XX’s – meaning it applies to cis individuals and not people who identify as different from their chromosomal makeup – it’s still pretty damning when it comes to which of the sexes is more likely to survive through tough situations. James Vaupel and his team at the University of Southern Denmark in Odense concluded that in fact women are statistically more likely to survive in times of crises (I mean, we saw this on The Walking Dead, so good luck with the zombies, dudes!) like famines, epidemics, and enslavement. The conclusions were drawn by measuring things like population and life expectancy, and it boils down to the fact that women are survivors.

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Virginia Zarulli, from the University of Southern Denmark’s Institute of Public Health explained to Global Citizen that females are simply born with a different sort of advantage:

“In simple words, it is easy to see that if by chance a bad mutation takes place on the X chromosome, women have another X that can partly – or totally – compensate for it, while men don’t have that possibility.”

Not only that, but as a report in The Guardian points out, bodies that produce estrogen have more of a guard against disease. Producing testosterone increases the risk of fatal infections, not to mention that high levels of testosterone leads to more risky and life threatening behavior.

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The advantage begins at birth – male infants have higher mortality rates than their female counterparts – and continues through the end of life, as the life expectancy for women globally is four years longer than that of men.

Don’t feel bad, guys – you’re still really good at plenty of things. When it comes to digging into life by the fingernails and not letting go until God him- (her-?)self rips you loose, though, women take the cake from cradle to grave.

So make friends with the women in your life, maybe consider it part of your preparation for the zombie apocalypse. I mean. It can’t hurt.

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These 12+ Tweets Are Guaranteed to Make Your Day Better

We all have bad days every now and again. And we all have our favorite ways of dealing with it. For me, I like to go for a run and eat a good meal. But if you’re looking for a quicker fix, these 15 tweets might just do the trick.

#15. These rules were agreed upon by our ancestors.

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#14. I’m not sure why but I’m laughing.

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#13. You’re giving away all of our secrets!

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#12. #goals

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#11. How To Solve Your Nightmares, 101

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#10. Short, sweet, and better than any comment I could have come up with. #keepingit100

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#9. He’s really working for this one.

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#8. The only way.

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#7. She speaks the truth.

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#6. Obviously.

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#5. Pop culture FTW.

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#4. This is my favorite.

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#3. Stahp.

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#2. Everyone knows that.

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#1. File Under: Why You’re Still Single

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h/t: Buzzfeed

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These 5 Missing Historical Treasures May Have Disappeared Forever

These days, there are too many wars, environmental changes, and indifference to expect for all of our historical treasures to survive.

Not to mention there are thieves who can make bank selling antiquities on the black market.

We know these 5 historical treasures are out there, but they’ve gone missing – and it will be a loss for all of us if they never turn up.

#5. The Florentine Diamond

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Legend says that Duke of Burgundy Charles the Bold carried a 132+ carat yellow diamond into the 1477 Battle of Nancy as a talisman. It didn’t work, and when his body was recovered after the battle, the diamond had been pilfered by a scavenger who had no idea what he was holding.

Research in the 1920s largely debunked the legend, as the gem originated in southern India and remained in the region until the Portuguese took over in the 1500s. From there, the diamond travelled to Europe and spent time in the collections of several well-known men – Ferdinand de’ Medici and the Duke of Tuscany, to name a few. Though it originated in India, it got its name from the time it spent in Florence. We also know that in 1601, it was a 126 carat, rose-cut diamond.

When the last of the Medici ruling family died in 1743, she bequeathed the diamond to the Tuscan state, but it was sold to Francis Stephan of Lorraine, who bought it for his wife, Empress Maria Teresa. It remained part of the crown jewels in Vienna until the collapse of the Austro-Hungarian Empire after WWI, which is when its history begins to get fuzzy.

The diamond, at this point, is believed to have been carried by exiled emperor Charles I into Switzerland.

It only gets more vague from there, and no one knows where the diamond is today. There are many theories, the most popular of which is that it was sold and cut into smaller stones, but with no real trace of it for the past hundred years, the chances of anyone setting eyes on it again seems unlikely at best.

#4. Sappho’s Poems

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Greek poet Sappho penned at least two volumes completely full of poems, according to ancient sources, but we have only a few hundred lines on shreds of papyrus and shards of pots. She was popular enough in antiquity to have been quoted in other sources, which helps, and as recently as 2014, more fragments have been discovered and identified in trash dumps and at archeological sites.

Here’s to discovering more – and to the people who find them acting responsibly with a true piece of treasure.

#3. Art from the Isabella Stewart Gardner Museum

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The Boston Museum is home to many priceless works of art…and the biggest unsolved art theft in history.

On March 18th, 1990, two men claiming to be police officers entered the museum, handcuffed the guards, and stole 13 works of art worth over $500 million.

The works include a Vermeer, Rembrandt, Degas, and a Manet, among others, and there is still a reward of $10 million offered for information in the case. The frames of the missing pieces are kept empty as a reminder that the crime remains unsolved, the priceless pieces still in the wind.

#2. Crown Jewels of Ireland

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On July 6, 1907, the “Crown Jewels of Ireland,” which included a diamond star and badge, were stolen. The same night, five collars of Knight Members of the Order of St. Patrick also disappeared without a trace.

They weren’t well-protected, and the ensuing investigation came to naught and, a century later, remains unsolved. There are a couple of theories as to why the investigation fizzled – one being that Edward VII ordered the investigation halted because it came too close to uncovering a sexual scandal, and the other that the castle’s second-in-command, Francis Shackleton, stole the jewels to help his famous brother, explorer Ernest Shackleton, fund his polar expedition.

The truth is, we’ll probably never know.

#1. The Amber Room

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In the 18th century, German sculptor Andreas Schluter and Danish amber artist Gottfried Wolfram created the Amber Room of Catherine Palace. It was slathered in jewels, gilding, and of course, the famous amber panels and was sometimes referred to as the “Eighth Wonder of the World.” The artists gifted the room to Russia and it quickly became the pride of St. Petersburg.

The Russians tried to hide the treasure behind wallpaper as the German army neared St. Petersburg during WWII, to no avail – the Germans took the room apart piece by piece and reinstalled it in the Konigsberg castle museum…for a while.

After that, its fate is unknown. Some believe it must have been destroyed during the war, while others think it’s hidden somewhere with other Nazi-stolen art and artifacts that have never been recovered. Even though verified remnants have surfaced – even recently – most of it remains missing.

 

h/t: Mental_Floss

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Viral Letter Shows the Horrors Working Moms Had to Face in the 1960s

Living as a woman in the 1960s was a tough gig. Sexism was running rampant in both the workplace and society at large, and there weren’t many realistic ways to avoid it. Recently, one woman’s decision to share a letter her mom received in 1969 after requesting maternity leave showed that things were even worse than we realized.

The mother had been employed by the board of education, who refused her request for a leave of absence after the birth of her baby.

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Instead, she simply lost her job.

The letter reads in full like this:

“Dear Mrs. Cornell,

We regret to inform you that we must consider your request for a Leave of Absence as a termination as of December 31st, 1969. 

This is necessary since our Board does not yet approve maternity leaves. When you are ready to return, you should notify our office of your availability for another teaching position. 

May we at this time thank you for your services as a member of our staff.”

As far as the woman who tweeted what she had found in her mother’s basement, she had some thoughts on why her mother might have kept it – and about everything she went through to have a family and a career.

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Paid maternity leave was passed in Canada, where Ms. Cornell lived, in 1971.

Even though the Equal Employment Opportunity Commission (in the States) drafted discrimination guidelines regarding pregnancy in 1972 and the Pregnancy Discrimination Act in 1978, neither promised any time off to recover from pregnancy and childbirth (never mind providing time to bond with the child afterward).

It wasn’t until 1993 (can you believe it?) that the States passed the FMLA act which, it must be pointed out, offers no official paid maternity leave, only a way for employees to save and use their own leave to cover time off for qualifying life events.

As with our other rights, like voting, we can thank our fearless foremothers for going to work despite dealing with this crap when they decided they’d like to have a family, and for persevering so that we can have things (marginally) better.

We still have a long way to go, sisters, so keep fighting!

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12+ Vintage Bridesmaid Dresses That Prove Not Everything Old School Is Cool

These days, old school is the new cool. Everyone wants to look like they’re wearing clothes from a thrift store of their parent’s closet. That said, there are some styles from the past that just couldn’t have been good ideas, even at the time. My own mother forced her “friends” into maroon velvet bolero vests and wide-brimmed hats with pink ribbons. Really.

But even if I pulled out her pictures (she would kill me), I’m not sure they could compete with these 15 vintage bridesmaid horror shows.

#15. Why do they match the curtains, though? Did Julie Andrews have to step in?

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#14. This is just so special.

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#13. The 90s neckbands are back in style, baby!

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#12. You get a veil, and you get a veil…

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#11. You guys. Wut.

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#10. I literally can’t see anyone’s face.

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#9. Handmaid’s Tale, c.1970

#8. Absolute 80s magic.

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#7. Yes, those are butterfly wings you’re seeing.

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#6. Priceless.

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#5. It’s trying to be a Christmas wedding but they’re wearing purple?

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#4. Little Red Riding Hood Theme?

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#3. I have no words.

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#2. Okay but I kind of like these though.

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#1. I don’t know whether to be more impressed by the squished-together bridesmaids or the size of the bride’s dress.

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Daycare Tells Parents To Dress Their Daughter More ‘Girly’ And Their Response Totally Rocked

Raising a child is a unique, challenging, and rewarding experience. But there are a lot of people in the world who think they can do it better than you and want to offer up their unsolicited advice whenever they get the chance. Needless to say, it can get pretty annoying.

That’s what happened to Jessica and Steve Rold when they were picking up their two-year-old son and infant daughter from daycare. The staff apparently took issue with the fact that their little girl wore “boyish” clothes (probably hand-me-downs – money saving ftw!) and suggested that – for the benefit of the other children, you understand – they dress their daughter “more girly.” Otherwise (gasp!) they may not realize right off the bat that the infant has female parts.

Since they have a good sense of humor and didn’t just flip the person who brought this up the bird (like I might have), Jessica sent her daughter to daycare dolled up like this:

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Steve got in on the fun, posting the story and the photograph on r/daddit, and getting back plenty of commiseration in the form of other dads telling stories about gender-obsessed people commenting on their own children.

Like this guy, who was quick to point out that the blue/pink gender assignment is total crap.

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And a bunch of posts that prove that while some adults are super concerned about what your child is wearing, kids don’t give a crap – and you shouldn’t, either.

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Someone eventually pointed out that we were all missing the point, which is that the drawing of the bow is like, very good!

Husband Steve was quick to point out that his wife is a professional artist and we shouldn’t let it go to her head.

Too late, because this whole situation deserves exactly how much attention it’s gotten – a lot.

h/t: Someecards

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Science Proves the HPV Vaccine Doesn’t Actually Lead to More Sex Among Teens

No matter how many concerned parents have warned that sex education will lead to teens having more sex, science always says otherwise. The same is true for access to birth control. And, according to the latest study (which confirms results from a similar study done in 2015), promoting the HPV vaccine to this generation, you guessed it, doesn’t lead to more sex.

HPV, one of the most common sexually transmitted diseases in the United States, has been strongly linked to a number of cancers, including those attacking the cervix, vulva, vagina, penis, and anus, along with some forms of oral cancer.

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Even though the vaccine has been found to prevent some forms of the virus and the following cancer – and is recommended by the CDC – fewer than half of girls (and even fewer boys) currently receive the full series of shots. This is due to prevailing (inaccurate) distrust of vaccines, but also a worry among some people that preventing an STD could lead to riskier sexual behavior among teenagers.

The most recent study, which compared teens in states with HPV vaccination promotion to teens in states without promotions, was recently published in the scientific journal Pediatrics. It compared the two lists of teenagers to the results of a multi-year survey of risky teen behavior, and found no difference in teens’ decisions and behavior based on the state they reside in.

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Basically, kids are going to engage in sex – risky and otherwise – regardless of whether we protect them against cancer.

“Concern that legislation will increase risky adolescent sexual behaviors should not be used when deciding to pass HPV legislation,” concluded the study.

Currently 23 states and Washington D.C. have passed legislation related to the promotion of the HPV vaccine. The specifics vary from in-school awareness campaigns to programs that require insurance companies to cover the cost of the shots.

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The study’s primary author, Erin Cook, told PBS that “the big takeaway is that the passage of legislation regarding HPV didn’t seem to be associated with any changes in adolescent sexual behaviors in the sample of states we were able to look at.”

Worry not, parents. You can protect your child from all sorts of cancer while being assured that the shots won’t cause them to engage in any promiscuous behaviors.

At least, no more than usual.

h/t: ScaryMommy

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